. MM 11 T I M DEN NHtJNG M O I QUAN HE
Ban thay minh duoc ket no
D o i v o l nhieu p h u n u , xay dung mang l u o i m o i quan he cung giong n h u an rau vay - ban biet no tot cho sue khoe, nhung ban van khong thich an. V a cung chang kho khan gi de t i m thay n h i i n g v i d u dang che cuoi trong chuyen tao dung moi quan he - m o t nguai cd to ra m i n h cung h i i n g t h i i vai bat cii dieu gi ma nguai quan trong nhat trong can phong to ra thich t h i i chu khong con la chinh m i n h nua. Cha trach sao nhieu nguai trong so chiing ta khong m u d n tao dung m o i quan he.
M a n g luai m o i quan he khong can den n h i i n g " m u u ma chuac quy". Ban chi can ra ngoai, the hien su quan tam cua m i n h d o i vai nguai khac, de nghi dugc giiip d a ho. D o ciJng la each de ban phat trien ban than l i n su nghiep. Vay t h i chung ta hay cung chuyen boa y nghia ciia viec thiet lap mang luai quan he de ban cam thay h i i n g t h i i : M o t mang luai rgng m d la khi tat ca m o i nguai deu "chii dong quan tam - va hanh dgng dt ho t r g - su nghiep cua ban." G i d ban thay m o i chuyen t h i i vi
r o i day. . i ' » v ; v w v .
D i e m dau tien p h u hop de ban thiet ke mang ludi la tap hop thong t i n ve nhung ngudi ban biet ho cd the giiip ban phai^
Dich gia: U6ng Xuan Vy - Vi Thao Nguyen trien va thanh cong. C h i i n g t o i de xuat n h u sau: Liet ke tat ca nhung ngudi ban dang cd m o i lien he thda man hai tieu chi sau: fihung ngudi ban tung lam viec cung, true tiep hay d i i gan trong hai nam qua; nhung ngudi ban cd ca hoi tiep xiic kha kha trong hai nam qua. (Ban cd the chpn quang thdi gian lau ban cho nhung ngudi ban giao thiep nhieu trong qua khii.)
Tiep theo, hay nghi ve miic do anh hudng ciia tung ngudi txong su nghiep ciia ban. Sue anh hudng cua ho trong to chiie ciia ban ra sao? H g quan he rgng den miic nao? G i d hay xem xet den dang quan he trong mang ludi ciia ban - nghi that ky ve nhung ngudi ban biet trong cac to chiic / linh vue / vai trd / hoi nhdm khac nhau. Ban cd biet nha quan ly cao cap nao khac ngoai cong ty ban dang lam viec - ngudi cd the hudng d i n hoac tham chi d d dau ban, tao ca hdi m d i cho ban khong? D u n g quen xem xet cac moi quan he mang lai cho ban cam giac thudc ve mot noi nao dd va cd y nghia. N h u n g ngudi dd cd the nam ngoai linh vuc chuyen mon ciia ban nen doi k h i ban quen dua ho vao mang ludi quan he cua minh. M o t k h i da liet ke xong, ban da sSn sang phan bd cac mdi quan he trong sa do mang ludi ciia minh. True ngang the hien miic do thoai mai cua ban k h i lam viec vdi mot ai dd. True dgc the hien tam anh hudng ciia ca nhan ay. T h a m khao hinh m i n h hga ben dudi.
N h u n g ai lot vao "diem tdi iru" cua ban - hinh vudng ben phai phia tren? Neu ban cd nhieu ngudi trong k h u vuc nay, ban dang rat cd Igi the. D d la noi ban se cd, hoac cd kha nang t i m ra, '^gudi d d dau. Neu khong ai thda man dugc cac dieu kien nay, cung ^ o n g cd gi bat thudng ca. ; " 5 ' c. '