Hay lui lai de nhin biic tranh toan canh, va nghi xem ban that su phat huy het tiem nang trong hnh vuc nao. Loai cong viec nao c6 ve de dang doi v6i ban? Cong viec nao khien ban thay thoi gian troi qua vun vut — va cong viec nao ban thay thoi gian le tung buac nang ne? "Hay thanh that voi chinh minh ve nhung gi ban lam tot va nhung gi ban yeu thich," do la loi khuyen cua Abby Joseph Cohen, chuyen gia hoach dinh chien luoc dau tu Idem giam doc dieu hanh cua Goldman Sachs. "Toi biet, du gi di nua do cung la cong viec. Ban cung khong the yeu het moi chuyen d i l n ra trong mot ngay noi cong so. Nhung vao cudi tuan, cuoi thang hoac cudi nam, ban phai cam thay minh da lam duoc dieu gi do. Phai la cam giac cua su hai long."
Nhiing diem manh nao khien ban khac biet so voi nhiing nguoi con lai? Nguoi khac c6 cong nhan nhiing kha nang do gop phan lam nen con nguoi ban khong? Ban c6 thay hao hiing, manh me khi su dung chiing khong? Neu ban tra loi c6, thi ban da kham pha ra sue manh cot loi cua ban than minh.
Nhieu phu n i i chiing toi gap von la nhiing nguoi thang than nhung lai ngdi im thin thit khi duoc hoi ve the manh cua minh. Khiem ton la mot due tinh tot, nhung chiing toi tu hoi con dieu gi khac dang dien ra hay khong. M o t bang danh sach duoc lap sin se de dang hon cho phu nu xac dinh ban than. Do la ly do tai sao chiing toi quay sang tim hieu mo hinh nghien cuu so truong cua hai nha tam ly hoc tich cue Martin Seligman va Chris Peterson. H p da chi ra 24 uu diem c6 6 bat ky ai tren the gioi, dua tren mot nghien ciiu xa hoi mo rong trong cong dong nguoi
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Idiong phan biet viing mien dia ly, ton giao hay tudi tac. Danh sach cua hp biet dau se gpi len trong ban nhirng y tuong ve siic manh cdt
loi vdn tao nen y nghia to Ion cho cupc sdng cua ban:
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niinh cam xiic va biet can nhac
• Dfing khi: dijng cam, kien tri va liem chinh
• Tinh nhan van: tdt bung va yeu thuong
• Tinh cong bang: van minh, khong thien vi va c6 td chat lanh dao
• Tinh hoa nha: biet tu Idem che, than trong va khiem tdn
• Diem ndi trpi: biet tran trpng ve dep Ian tai nang, biet on nguoi khac, biet by vpng, biet t u duy, biet tha thii, hai huoc va say me , , , , .
Neu xep thii tu uu tien 24 tinh each tdt dep ay sao cho phii hop voi minh, ban se biet nhung yeu td nao cau thanh tinh each con nguoi ban. Ai cung c6 5 uu diem ndi trpi nhat. The manh ciia ban la gi?
Mot each de ban kham pha ra 5 diem ndi bat nhat cua minh la di hoi nguoi hieu ban nhat. Con cai, vp/chdng, hoac nhung ban be CO the nhin ra dupe tinh each ciia ban con ro hon ca chinh ban. Cap tren ciia ban se noi gi? Khach hang se noi gi? Me ciia ban se
noigi? ..-.^^i^
Bay gio, chiing ta hay ciing xem nhiing the manh nay c6 tac dung gi trong cong viec ciia ban. Hay nghi ve vai trai nghiem ma ban thanh cong rue ro. Hay dao sau ban de hieu vi sao ban lam
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diroc dieu do. Nhieu kha nang ban se kham pha ra duoc the manh tiem an cua ban than.
D i nhien se c6 nhung cong viec hoan toan khong giiip duoc gi cho ban. Neu cong viec hien tai khong mang lai ca hoi de ban tim den nhung iru diem dac trung cua chinh minh, hay nghi den nhung vai tro c6 y nghia hon. Ban khong chac chan u? Hay tro chuyen voi dong su, nhung nguoi c6 ve rat hao hiing vol cong viec ho lam; dieu gi khien ho yeu cong viec den vay? Neu sau vai Ian hoi chuyen, ban v i n khong cam nhan dupe nhung gi ho noi, c6 le ban can m a rong pham vi tim kiem.
Nhung ban khong can phai dpi den liic thay ddi cong viec moi bat dau tan dung the manh cua minh. Lay vi du, neu mot trong 5 the manh Ion nhat cua ban la tot bung, thi ban hay chpn bat ky viec tot nao do de thuc hien moi ngay. Neu the manh dac tnmg nhat cua ban la ham hpc hoi, thi viec tim kiem nhiing bat cap moi trong cong viec han c6 tac dung thiic day ban. Neu con duong van chua trai ra truoc mat ban, hay danh thoi gian sau gio lam viec de tiep tuc hpc hoi va phat trien. Hay co gang huong nhung viec minh lam hang ngay den voi the manh ben trong ban. Roi ban se ngac nhien voi ket qua kha quan minh c6 dupe - nguon nang lupng, cam giac thoai mai, hai long voi cong viec va ca voi ban than.
I Cuoi cung, hay nho bai tap nay ban khong chi lam mot Ian trong doi la du. N a m uu diem Ian nhat ciia ban se thay ddi