III. TRIGIAC XAH
y, thang gia tn chu £ in muc nhin nhan con ngudi hien nay co thay doi Nhung gia tri truySn
gia tn chu£in muc nhin nhan con ngudihien nay co thay doi. Nhunggia tri truySn
thdng “Id lanh dum la rach” khdng duqc coi trong nhu trude n^n dan d£'n each
dinh ki^n trongtri gibe xa hdinhumdttdc gia Trung Qudcdabdebach:
“Ngheo hengiita phd'khdng ngudihoi
Cao sang ritngthamcokhachtim
Hay dan gian tacdcau:
'Trong tay khdng c6 mdtdSng
Miing ndi nhurongchdng coai nghe".
+ Do xuc cam, tinh cam thidn lfich ndn lam cho viec tri giac xa hdi khdng
khach quan,cdng bang dan dinkilu dinh kiln “ghet nln xlu”,“khdng ua thidira
c6ddi’\„
-Phan bilt dinhkiln xahdi vdi dinhkiln khudnm5u xahdi.
+ Dinh kiln khudn m&u xa hdi ia nhung bilu tuong bln vimg duoc don gian
hoa, khai quat hoa v& sodd hoa mdi khi nhin nhan dd'i tuong mii thilu hut thOng tin.Dinhkiln khudn mau xa hdi la bieu tuong xahdicua ca nhan trongciing mdt nhdm. Ban than khudn mau khdng the hiln thai dd, thuc chat n6 chi la mdt hinh
anh,mdty nilm,mdt bilu tuong vlddituongnaodd.
+ Khudn maulamdt cochiquantrongde hinh thanh nlndinhkiln.Trong tri gilcxa hdi, dinhkilnkhudnmSu xa hdibiln thanh dinh kilnxa hdi khi no mang
sdcthai tilucue.Dinhkilnxahdi duoc hieu la thaidd cua mdtca nhan trong timg
nhdm xahdi, ndthudngtieu cue ddi vdi ngudi khac, nhdm khde trong quanhi vdi
nhau(dinhkilnchung tdc,gidritinh,tdn giao, giaiclp).
Vf du, dinh kien gidri tinh la qua trinh danh gia nhung dac dilm cua cd nhan nhan giua nam va nur dua trln nhung thai dd, du luan cdng khai ring rai.Chung ta deu biltrang giuanam vanu:cd nhung khac bilt vlmattarnli,ho deuco nhungdac
dilm tfch cue va tilu cue.VI vay,khi ddnh gia vl nam hay nu thudng co hai hi tu
tuong rdt trai nguqc nhau. Khdng it ldn trong cudc sdng chung ta duoc nghe ede
chang trai ndi: ‘Tdi khdng thich ddico vdicdvlcd la phunO!”, trongkhi c£ccdgai thudngnoi: “Nluanhla dandngthi ndift thdi, diing cd lau bau nhu phunuthe!”.
Qnnh tir hai16i tuduy trln, d nude ta la mot nude chiu anh hudng nang ne cua tu tuong Nho gido trong nam khinh nunln da cd mdt sd'dinh kiln kha nang
nl vl phu nir mac du bay gid vai trd cua phu nu trong xa hdi da duoc thay ddi
nhilu.Chang han nhu trude day nguditathudng ndi:
"Khon ngoan ciing the dan bd
Ddurangvungdaiciing la dandng
"Dandng nongnoi giengkhcri Dan bd sdu sdcnhuccri dungtrau”.
Nhungcung co nhungcaundi thihilnsuphankhang manh me vdi nam gidi: Hay:
“Baddngmdtmd dan6ng
Dem bo vdoISngcho kii'nnotha
Batrammdtmudan bd
Muave md trai chii'u hoa chongdi
-Trongqua trinh tri giac lin nhau,dinh kie'
n xahdidin tdi hai hiuqua:
+ Lim don gian hoa qua trinh nhan thirc ngudi khac, ngan can su hieu bi£t
ngudikhac mdtcich chmh xic.Di£uniy die bidt nguy hi^mvdi nhftrig ngudi lim cdng tac xa hdi bcri vi khi chuac6 dii thdng tin v6 ddi tuqng mi ngudi lam cdng
tac xa hdi da voi phan xet, nhan didn vin d£ din ddh nhin dinh sai vi viy tac
nghidpsekh6ngc6 hidu qua.
+Din den thai dd kho chiu vdi doituqng trigiac(visanintuqng ban diu).
Vi du,khi ti£p xuc vdi tre em lang thang nd'
u ngudi lim c6ng tic xa hoi co dinh kiin thi se gay ra hang rao ngan cich vdi ddi tuqng va kho co the dat dupe
muc tieucan thiep,trpgiup nhomtrenay.
2.4.Phan biet doi xir
Theo cic nha tim li hoc xa hdi thi dinh kidn li cam giic, mot kdt qua danh gia cua chiing ta ddi vdi ngudi khac.Diy la mdt bd phan quan trong cua thai dd
danh cho ci nhan hay nh6m khac dua tren kinh nghidm cuachiing ta.Vi the dinh kie'
n phan anh nhung dac tinh cua nhom ddi tuqng khac nhau, thudng nhung die tinh nay taora cam giac tidu cue.Cdnnguqc lai, phinbietddixvrla hanh vi c6 chu
y cua chiing taddi vdi nhung ca nhin thude mdt nhom ddi tuqng ma chiing ta c6
dinh ki£n. Phin biet ddi xu la kdt qua cua hanh vi nay sinh tir thai dd dinh kie'n.
Thdng thudng hinh vinaychiu sutacddngcuahai nhin td:
-Thai dd cua ngudicodinh kie'
n.
-Sucho phepcuaxa hdiddivdi nhung hanh vi nay.
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