- Trong giao tifep c6 th4 dung d6c thoai vi£t (vifet bao, doc sach) ho & Cd
cho ta la ngucri chan thanh, thing thin.
2.3.2. NhCmg phuong tien giao tiep d $c biet
*Khungcanh giaotiep:
-Khungcanh giao tidp hieu theonghla rbngli hoan canh van hoi, xa hoi va
thichd chinh iri cuaqubc gianoidiinra giao tidp.
-Theo nghia hep,khung canh giao tidp la thdi gian didn ra giao tiep, bai trf
khbnggian,khoang each va dinh hudng giiia cicdoi tac giao tidp.
-Khung canh giao tidp cothd gop phin tao tim thd tich cue hoac tidu cure b cacdditic giaotiep.
Vf du: Giao tiep trong khung canh mat me, budi sing lam con ngucri sang
khoai, ngucrclai giaotidp trong khung canh nong nuc lamcho con ngucri dd nong
tinh hern.
Cothd giai thfchtacddngcua khung canh giaotidpddn hidu qua cuagiao tiep nhorquy luit cung c6.Nbi dung cua no nhu sau: nhung cam xCic d§chiu xuSft hien
ddnghanh hoacsau khi thuchiSn m6t hanh vi naodoseduaden sircungc6'
hanh vi
*Am thanh,dnh sang va mau sdc:
— Am thanhId c6ng cucuagiaotidp phi ng6n ngir.Nodupe sOrdung detaora
cac cam gidc d6ng hanh nhdm tao ra tarn trang tfch cue hay tidu cue trong qud
trinh giao tidp.
Am thanh dupe phan ra thanh Am thanh cua moi truong tu nhien nhu tidng
nu6cchay roc rach, tieng chim hot veo con, tiengId rtmg xao xac co the taocam
xucbu6nchanhoac thu gian dd chiu. Am thanh cua moi truimg nhan taonhucac bannhacco thdldmcon ngucri cam tMy thugian,hung phdn,kfch donghodccung co th£ ldm cho con ngucri cam thdy tuydt vong,c6 don. VI vdy, chit thi giao tid'
p phaibiet lua chon am thanhtunhien vanhan taophit hop vdri muc dich giaotidp.
-Anh sing cungla m6tedng cu giao tiep phi ng6n ngir. Cucrng dd anh sang
manh hay yeuddugay cho tacamgiac va xuccam trongquatrinh giaotidp.
Chang han de khungcanh mang tinh langman cua d6i Ilia yeu nhau,nguiri ta
c6 thd thidt kdanh sang md ao c6the dung dnhsangcua ndnthay cho den dien dd
taocam giaclang man hern.
-Mku sdc cung la mpt tin hidu giao tidp phi ngOn ngur. N6 c6 y nghia khde nhau vdriedenenvan hod.
Trong van hoa c6phuong Dong,mdu sdcmang
^ nghia vdn mdnh. Mau do la
tupng trung cho may manddi voi ngucri Trung Quo'
c nen bao li xi chtic tdt, mimg thovdede dip khanh thanh thuemg co mau do.
Ngucri Viet Nam khi gapmay nguPi ta hay chorang do la s6do.Mau xanh la
didmbao chosuydnbinh,anlanh.
Mau sdc trong xa hpi phongkidnTrung Quoc va Vidt Nam c6n thd hidn dang cdp trong giao tidp. Chang han, vua mac va su dung qudn ao co mau vang, con tdng16pkhde khOng dupe macmaudo.
* Khoang edeh:
- Khoang edeh giira hai ngucri ddi thoai cung la chi bao trong giao tiep phi ng6n ngir.TdcgiaE.Hallc6nhung donggopdang kd vaovide nghidn cdu khoang each trong giao tidp.TheoPng, giao tidp didnra theo bPn thd loai khoang khPng
gian sauddy’
+ Khoang each cong cPng: tCr3,5-7,5m. Day la khoang edeh dupe sudung
trongquanhd tidp xucvdi nhung ngucri xa la.Day la khoang khPng gianthfch hop
cho thmhgiavasirdung trongmPt cubenoi chuydnedng cPng.
Vidu,nhan vidn c6ng tdcxa hPi xudng dia phuong noi chuydn vdri ba con cua
mPt edngd6ng yd'u thdcothdluachon khoang edeh nay.
3,5m.Day la khoang each dirge sirdung trong + Khoang edeh xa h6i: tur1
edenh6m chinh thirc.
Vf du, thdy gido nghe sinh vien tra ldi cau hoi do minh ddt ra, giam ddc noi
chuySn v6i nhan vi£nv4c6ng vi6c.
+Khoang eachca nhan:tir 0,5- lm.Khoang each ndy the thenquan he than thi£t giiraedeca nhannhirban be, ho hang...
+Khoang each than tinh: tir 0 -0,5m, la khoang each giira nhung ngudi co
quanhegdn guinhuvg vach6ng,btf mevdconcai...
Hai ngudi ban mac du co vi trf khac nhau a caquan nhung nhung luc binh thudng,hoc6therat than matkh6ng giu:khoang edeh.
Hai ngudi ban khac gidi, cho diico thanmatthi vanphai giu:khoang edeh.
Hai ngudi y4u nhau thi kh6ng edn phai giu khoang edeh, c6 th4 6m h6n, tay trong tay...
Trong phep lichsudi lencdu thangthi contrai disau va xu6ng thi ngugclai.
-Khoang edeh noi len y nghlacua m6i quan he than thien nhidu hay ft,tfnh chat nghi thircnhidu hay ft.
*Giaotiep bang dS vat:
Mot each bi4u16 tinh cam khac cung khong kem phdn c6ng hi6u Id tdng qua, qua m6n qud hang ngan led tri an, cam kfch,me'
n phuc, cam on dugc gui tori d6i tugng, m6tedehcue ki tinh tevalich su.
Vf du,nhung ngudi yeu nhau thudng tang nhau nhung dod h6ng tued thdm,d4
th4hi4nlditotinhn6ngchdy nha'
tcua minh.
Khi tang hoa edn chu y d4n y nghia cua ede lodi hoa,cua mon qua: Khi tang hoa cho ngudi y6u, vg (chdng) thi ngoai tang mdt bdng co the tang bo hoa ma s6
bdng tuefngduong vdi tudi,trdnhnhiduhern tu6ingudi ta senghicheho gia...
Tom lai, giaoti6p bdngd6vdtcoy nghiaquantrongma dac biet Id thdngqua
tangqud vd hoa cho ede d6'
i tugng,khi chungtahieudugc v4y nghia cuaedemon qua-hoatangthidieu do se dem lai hieu qua mong dgi.