I con va cupc song giau sang deti mk hong gian sang tao Con nha viet kich |M61ie da lao d p n g m i ^ t m a i den hpc m a u tren san dien D o la n h i h i g tam
anh khoi nhiing sai lam Nhiing liic nhu the^ hkn chiing ta nhan dupe nhiing
xet, thai dp khac nhau ve ta. Dieu quan trpng la 6 chinh ban than ta: biet nh^,^ ra cai d i i n g , cai sai cua m i n h ; quan trpng han, trong v6 so n h i i n g l o i " k h e n " "che" do, ta n h a n ra ai la "thay ta", ai la "ban ta", ai la "ke t h u " cua ta vay!
L o i day cua Tuan T u that chi l i : " N g u o i che ta ma che d i i n g la thay ta, n g u o i khen ta ma khen d i i n g la ban ta". M o i n g u o i , k h i p h a m dieu sai, t u mlnh khong de gi nhan ra. N g u o i nhan ra cai sai cua ta, lai "che"- tuc khang d i n h cai sai ciia ta va chi cho ta biet - han phai la n g u o i c6 t a m t r i thiic, hieu biet hoii ta N g u o i do x u n g dang la bac " t h a y " cua ta ve t r i tue. H o n the, n g u o i thay va d a m chi cho ta nhan ra cai sai cua m i n h , de m i n h c6 h u o n g khac phyc, six^ chita, han do phai la n g u o i c6 cai t a m that cao quy: n h i m g m u o n cho chiing ta
nhanh chong tien bp. C h u n g ta, ve thai dp, t i n h cam khong the k h o n g ton vinh n g u o i do la bac " t h a y " ve nhan each de ta hpc tap.
N g u o i " k h e n ta m a khen p h a i " - nghla la n g u o i do k h o n g n h i i n g khong d o ki, hiem khich truoc n h i i n g cai tot, cai manh ciia ta, ma con " k h e n " , cung chung v u i , chia ngpt se b u i . . . Do han la n g u o i ban to't, n g u o i ban t r i am, tri k i ciia ta vay. Cupc d o i m o i chiing ta, neu c6 dupe nhieu n g u o i " t h a y " , nguoi " b a n " n h u the t h i hanh phiic biet bao nhieu.
Tuy nhien, trong cupc song, khong phai ai khen hay che ta deu la "thay", la " b a n " ciia ta. Tuan T u da mpt Ian niia chi cho ta biet each nhan ra " bp mat that' ciia n h i i i i g " k e " hiem doc do. Do la "ke vuot ve, ninh bp ta", Tuan T i i to thai d p ro r#t, d i i t khoat k h i gpi n h u n g loai nguoi do "la ke t h u ciia ta vay". N h u n g de nhan ra dau la ban "khen ta ma khen d i i n g " voi "nhirng ke vuot ve, nirJi b p " that khong de. Truoc het, ke vuo't ve, njnh bp, hp khen ta la xuat phat muc dich muu cau Ipi ich rieng ciia chi'nh hp. Boi v^y, thanh tich ciia ta chi c6 mpt, chiing thoi phong len ba, bon hoac nhieu hon the. Tham chi, c6 k h i chiing con nguy bien, " p h i i phep" n h u n g khuyet diem, sai lam ciia ta thanh "thanh tich". N h i i n g ke do, luon lay vi^c " n i n h b p " de tieh than, khieh cho n g u o i dupe khen ngay cang tu danh mat m i n h , xa roi le phai... That dang tiec la n h i i n g ke do thoi dai nao ciing
CO. Su sach da ghi lai khong biet bao nhieu bac vua chiia da bi n h i i n g ke nir&i than
lam cho u me, dan den h a m hai trung than, trieu chinh do nat, xa tac suy vong L o i day ciia Tuan T i i l§d mpt Ian nhac nho m o i chiing ta can sang suot de nhan ra dau la "ban t a " khen ta that long; dau la "ke vuot ve, n i n h b p " ta.
K h o n g chi d i i n g v o i xa hpi xua, ma ngay nay va v o i tat ca m p i n g u o i , 6 tren m p i l i n h vuc, l o i day ciia Tuan T i i n h u m p t chiec k i n h "chieu y e u " g i i i p chiin? ta nhan ra n g u o i tot, ke xa'u trong cupc song, trong hpc tap. K h i k i n h te tl^' t r u o n g m o ciia, t h i d p i ngu nhii'ng ke chay theo l o i nhuan, v i danh, v i Ipi ng'^^ cang nhieu. N h a n vien n i n h bp thii truong, cap d u o i l u o n l u o n vuo't ve, c h i f '
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tieo y cap tren; cac ban l u o i hpc t h i x u n xoe cac ban hpc gioi de caV"phao ciiu
Q" trong t h i cu, kiem tra... H a n h dpng ciia n h u n g ke do c6 the khac nhau,
i i n u n g deu chung m p t ban chat: m u u cau Ipi ich rieng t u . N h u n g ban ciing v i j i h i i n g hi?n t u p n g do ma danh mat niem t i n vao cupc doi. Boi n g u o i tot, th u n g n g u o i x u n g dang la "thay ta", "ban t a " l u o n l u o n 6 ben ta.
Cau noi ciia Tuan T u , cung la m p t loi nhac nho chi tirih, chi l i cho chinh m o i chiing ta trong quan he l i n g x i i voi m p i nguoi. Chiing ta m u o h m p i n g u o i che ta
th?t long - n h u Tuan T u da day- ta phai biet coi trpng n h i i n g n g u o i do n h u bac ^'*'thay ciia ta". Ciing vay, voi ban be, dong dpi, ta phai sphg v o i cai tam chan
thanh; d a m chi ra n h i i n g khuyet diem ciia ban ma ta nhan thay, v o i thiic cau
Inong cho ban m i n h ngay cang hoan thien. M o i chiing ta can bie't "chia ngpt se
b i i i " " voi ban be coi thanh tich ciia ban lam niem v u i chung cung chia se.
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A . M o b a i .,'"•>•[•.•:/'"•
M o i con n g u o i chiing ta dupe sinh ra, dupe t r u o n g thanh, dupe thanh dat tren coi doi nay deu do cong on sinh thanh d u o n g due ciia m? cha. Cong on p i bien ay ke sao cho xiet! Cau ca dao t u ngan xua ciia n g u o i dan Viet N a m
in horn nay van thiet tha nhac mai nghla tinh nay:
"Cong cha nhu nui Thai San
Nghia me nhu nude trong nguon chay ra I
Mot long tha me kinh cha | Cho trdn chit hieu mai la dao con " '
Cau ca dao gpi cho chiing ta biet bao suy nghi ve cong o n ciia m? cha, ve
fo l a m c o n . , i f = i
B. T h a n b a i D G i a i t h i c h
N g u o i dan xua da g i i i gam long biet o n me cha va l o i nhac n h o n g u o i lam | 3 n vao bai ca dao voi n h i i n g h i n h anh so sanh tham thia. N i i i Thai Son cao Ion
|oi v o i va nuoc trong nguon chay ra la dong nuoc t i n h khiet trong lanh nhat f n o n g bao gio v o i can. So sanh hai h i n h anh ay v o i cong cha, nghla m?, tac gia ^an gian m u o n noi toi thai dp ton kinh, long biet o n sau sac d o i v o l cong on troi bien ciia cha m? va m u o n khuyen m o i n g u o i con phai l u o n " t h o m? kinh '^ha", phai CO thai dp, each l i n g x i i ton kinh, quy trpng dang sinh thanh ciia •^inh.
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2) B i n h luan K h i n g dinh:
Dao ly diing dan ma bai ca dao da truyen dat.
Y nghia bai ca dao hoan toan dung trong moi hoan canh, m o i thai dai. Cong cha nghIa me to Ion v6 cung. Khong c6 cha me thi se khong c6 churig
ta. Me phai vat va chin thang m u o i ngay thai nghen, bao gian truan, ca cut
Chin thang hay chin nam, gian kho ki)6n ciing de sinh ra ta. De c6 dugc con, m? v u g t can mpt m i n h , bat chap hiem nguy cua tinh mang. K h i sinh ra con, tu
hai nhi do hon, me chat chiu dong sxxa nuoi con khon Ion. thiic trang dein
de cham cho con, "cho rao nhuong con, cho uat m? nam". K h i con o m dau, me quen an quen uong, thiic trang cung nhOng can sot, can dau ciia con, thao thiic lo toan. Me va cha han hoan khi tha'y con chap chirng n h i i n g budc d i dau tien, ngh^n ngao khi con bap b? tieng m ^ tieng cha.
Khi con da Ion len: t u bat com moi ngay, tir manh ao den moi tien nghi hex
hanh cha m? lo cho con tat ca. Cha m ^ n h u canh c6 can cu nhan nai, vat Ion voi doi thuong de chat chiu lo cho con an hQC thanh tai. Cha me he't long v i con
cai, chang gianh lai cho m i n h dieu gi.
Cong sinh thanh da Ian, cong duong due cang Ion hon. K h i con truong thanh dan len, cha uon nan con t u I6i an tieng noi, t u each doi nhan x u the. Me sua con tir dang d u n g dieu cuai. Con la hanh phuc, la niem v u i , niem hy vong ciia cha me. N h i n con khon Ion, moi cue kho nhoc nhan ciia cha m ^ voi bat. Con khoe, ngoan, hoe gioi, cha me vui sudng, hanh phiic. Con 6'm dau, me nuoc mat l u n g trong. Con hu, con pham loi, cha m? dau buon, au lo.
Cha me khong quan vat va ehi mong mai sau con thanh nguoi c6 ich cho dai, cho xa hpi. "Co nuoi con moi biet long cha me". Cha m? la cho dya vung chae cho con buoe vao doi, la cay eao bon^; ca che mat doi con. Trong vong tay cha m^, eon Ian len, truong thanh. Hieu thao voi cha m? la dao ly lam nguoi, nen tang ciia dao due.