He gia trivia dinh ViSt Nam: truygn thSng va ddi moi Le Nggc Vdn' ' Vifn NghiSn cfiu Gia dinh vi Gi6\, Vi§n Hin lam Khoa hpc xa hfii Vift Nam Email: lengocvan5@yahoo.com Nh§n ngiy 17 thing nam 2017 Chip nh$n (fing ngiy 30 thing nim 2017 Tdm tat: Hf gid tq gia dinh Vift Nam tir xa hfi ndng nghifp trayen thdng sang xa hfi hifn dang bien ddi mgnh me dudi tac dgng cda qua trinh cdng nghifp hoa, hifn dai hda, bfi nhgp kinh te qudc te Cdc hgp phan cua hf gid hi gia dinh cd mfic df va cudng df biln ddi rdt khac nhau: cac gia trj thufc luih vyc kinh tl - vgt chat thay ddi khd hift di, thi cdc gid tri quan hf gifla ngudi vdi ngudi vd ddi sdng tinh tiian, tam Iinh, tin ngudng lgi bien ddi ddn ddn, tifm tiln; cac gid tn cd cf i nguon tfi v3n hda ban dja cd sfie song tradng ton hon cdc gia tri vay mugn tfi bdn ngoai Tfi kfada: Gia dinh, hf gid tri, doi mdi, bien ddi hf gia tq gia dinh Fhdn loai ngdnh: Xd hgi hgc Abstract: The Vietnamese family values have been changing dramatically trom those of a haditional agricultural society to those of today under the impacts of industrialisation, modernisation and intemational economic integration The components of this value system have had various extents and magnitude of change: while the values in the field of economics and material have changed ratiier radically, the changes in the man-to-man relationship, and their spiritual and religious life, have been gradual; and the values rooted in the indigenous culture have more lasting vitality than those unported from overseas Keywords: Family, value system, renovation, changes in femily value system Subject classification: Sociology Gidi thif u Sau 30 nam ddi mdi xa hfi Vift Nam dd vd dang h ^ qua nhung bidn ddi cyc ky sdu sdc hdn nhieu phuang difn, rad xet vl bdn chdt, till dd Id sy ehuyen ddi tu nen vdn minh nong nghifp cd traydn sang nen vdn minh cdng nghifp vd hifn dgi, dong thdi chuyin ^ca che tap bao cdp sang co che tiij hiidng cfi sy dieu tidt cfia nhd nudc Ddy la mgt cuf e chuyen doi kdp.^Cugc chuyen dfii k^P van dang tiep diln, tii|ra chi Khoa hgc xa hfi Vift Nam, sd 11 - 2017 dang d budi ban dau, edc khudn mau vdn hfia cua xd hgi cdng nghifp chua hinh tiidnh mgt cdch ddy du, vd cdc khudn mau ciia xa hdi ndng nghifp eung chua mdt di Tinfa hgng qud df gifta hai thfii dai dd ldm ndy sinh nhidu vdn dd xd hgi nhfic nhdi: tiiam nhiing, lang phi, bdt edng, lgi icfa nhfim, d nhilm mdi hudng Trong gia ^nh, nhfing vdn de nhfic nhoi la: ly tiidn, ly hdn tdng; tid em bj tiid long; ngudi gid it dugc quan tdm; anh em rugt thit hanh chap tdi sdn, tfin ti trgt ta gia tgc thay dfii Trudc thye hgng dfi, dd xudt hifn nhilu f kiln khdc Cfi ngudi cho rdrig xd hgi ta dang bi rdi logn vl gid hi; thuan phong mJ tyc dang dfing trudc thdcfa thfic vd khfing it gia dinh da cfi nhung bilu hifn xudng cdp ve dgo dfic [2, h.51] Mgt s6 ngucri khdc tiu cho rdng, gia dinh Vift Nam xudng cdp ragt cdch khd nghidm hgng hong bdi ednh kinh td ddi mdi, md cfia [3, h.l 19) Nhfing ngudi kfadc nfia tin td tide nudi vafaodinhd vd nhfing gi em dep hong gia dinh cfia mft thod dd qua V|y, hong tbyc tl, gia dinh Viet Nam dang sdng vdi nhung gid tri nao? Hf gid tri dy dang vgn hdnh vd bien doi sao? Didu gi ehi pfadi su vdnfadnfacfia nfi? Vd, ehung ta cdn ldm gi dl hf gid tri gia dinfa Vift Nam ddp ung dugc nhftng doi hfii eua xd hfi hong thdi ky cfing ngfaifp hfia, hifn dgi hda? Dya hen kit qud didu xd hfi hge cua dl tdi cdp Bf "H^ gid trj gia dinh Vi$t Nam dudi goc nhin xa hgi hgc - Nghien cOu truang hgp tinh Thdi Binh" Vifn Nghidn gia dinh vd Gidi thye hifn^, bai vilt ndy gfip phan trd loi cde cdu hfii hen Cdc gid trjtiiugcBhh vyc kinh ^ - v^t chat Cdc gia hi thufc linh vyc kinh tl - vgt chdt la tdt cd nhftng gj nguoi sdng tgo tiep thu, lya chgn mfii tuong quan vdi mfii trudng ty nhidn, nhdra ddp fing cdc nhu cdu sinh tdn hdng ngdy cfia hg Bilu hien tdp trung cfia loai fainh gid tri ndy Id dn, rage, d, di lai Tuy nhien, hong vifc thoa mdn cdc nhu cdu bat bidn ndy, d raoi thdi dai hay mSi thdi k^' lich sfi, ngudi ta lai c6 sy lya chgn rdt khdc d Viet Nam trudc ddy, khan hilm cac sdn phdm tidu dilng, udc mong cua dai bo pfadn ngudi dan la dugc dn no mdc dm Phuong chdm dugc de cao hong cdch dn mdc Id "dn Idy chdc, mdc lay ben" Trong cdc thdi k^ dfi, dfi an dfi mdc Id dilu dugc ed nhan, gia dinh, egng ddng vd xa hgi theo dudi Con ngufii edm thay hanh phuc gidi quylt dugc vdn dd dn mdc Tuc ngii Vift Nam cfi cdu: "Cam ba bat, ba manh^fii chdng xanh, ret chdng cfing" De dfii phfi vdi tinh cdnh thieu thdn sdn phW tidu dfing, ngudi ta khuydn nhu phai dy trft luong thuc, biet lo xa " ^ u g c miia chd phu ngfi k h o a i ^ l n thdt bdt Idy ban cimg)"; kheo leo hong chi tieu "(Kheo dn thi no, khdo co thi dm)" va tim edefa k^o ddi tufii thg cfia vat dyng "(Cua bdn tai nguoi)" Do nfing nghifp gdn chat vfii dat dai, vufin tugc, rufng ddng, sdn pham tfi cay hfing, vgt nudi lgi chi cd thd thu hoach theo miia, ho§e theo ndm, thitai chi Id nhilu ndm, cho ndn cho d cfia nfing dan phai cfi dinh lau dai dl tien hanh sdn xudt "An cu lac nghifp" Id udc mong cua cdc hg gia dinh Hufing nhd cung khdng kem phdn quan hgng Nfi thd hifn hong cdu tyc ngfi; "Lay vg hidn hoa/Ldra nhd hudng nara" Tgp qudn dfi dugc gidi thich bdng cdc ly vat chdt: gifi bdc mua dfing tiiudng mgnfa va ret, hong gifi nfim mua hd radt rad lgi den tfi phuong Nara vd Ddng - nam [5, h.287] Le Nggc Van Vi da sd cdc hfi gia dinh chi song nhfing ngdi nha tranh vdeh ddt, chat hep, thieu anh sdng, cho ndn udc raa sudt ddi cfia ngudi nong dan xua Id cfi dugc "nha ngfii san gach" (bidu tugng cfia sy giau sang, phfi quy) Trong cdi khdng gian ridng nhfi be dy, cac phuong tifn sinh boat phyc vu cho dfii sfing ngufii cung rdt dcm so: ndu dn bdng bdp dim ram rg; tdra gidt bdng nude ao hd hay nudc gilng thai, bdt ludn la raua nfing hay mua lanh Vifc di lai chfi ydu bdng ddi chdn trdn (md noi theo kilu binh tugng cfia cdc nha tho Id "ban chdn di gdt mdn sdi da") Cfin vifc truyen tin vdn la true tiep mat dfii mat, hodc eao hon la chide loa cudn bdng thung sdt tdy Cugc sfing dy dd keo dai sudt trudng ky ljch sfi, kd cd d thdi bao cdp Nfaung tfi ddi mfii den nay, doi sdng kinh td - vat chdt cfia ngudi ddn (bidu hifn tap tnmg la d cac phuang tifn sinh hoat cfia gia fflnh), da cd su thay ddi rdt can bdn, ndu khdng mudn ndi la hoan todn thay doi ddy, chfing ^ i chi dan them mgt vi dy nhfi, dfi la sy bidn mdt cila cai bdp nau an truydn thfing Sd lieu didu tra ciing nhu nhfing ghi chep vd quan sat cfia nhfim nghien cfiu ddu xdc nhgn, khong phdi chi d thdnh phfi ma cd d khu vyc nfing thfin, hdu nhu tdt cd cdc hd gia dinh ddu khdng cfin sfi dyng cdc chdt ddt cd xua nhu ram, rg, hau Id, mfin cua, tfaan, ciii, ddu hda cho vifc dun nau, chudn bi bfta dn gia ffinh Thay the cho cdch dun nau cd truydn Id bdp gas, bep difn, bIp tfi Vd nha d, khong cdn thdy bfing ddng cfia nhfing ngdi nhd ragt gian hai chdi hay nhd tranh tre nfia Id vfin bien d nfing thon trudc day^ Chung dugc thay thd bdng nhiing ngdi nha radi bdng, nhd cao tang chgy dge hai bdn nhihig dufing ldng rfng rai dugc hdi nhya ho§e bd tdng, to cfi thd di Igi CJ cdc dia phuong dugc dieu tra, dai bg ph|n cdc hf gia dinh ddu cd nhd d, chd d rieng, hong sfi hg sd huu logi nhd kien cd chilm ty If rdt cao (77,8%), cfin lgi 19,9% nhd bdn kidn cd, chi efi 2,6% chua cfi nhd d rieng iTdc ma "nhd ngfii sdn gach" cila ngudi dan trudc day da thdnh hifn tbyc Vide dn udng vd hang phye cung thay ddi ddng kd Tfi chfi quanh nam vat lgn dd io ehdng chgi vdi cdi ddi va cdi ret, ddn 85,8% cdc hf gia ^ n h dugc khao sdt cho bidt "an uong ddy dfi", hong dfi 6,6% d cap "an ngon", ehi cfi 7,1% "du ufing cfin kham khfi" Vd trang phuc: 46,6% fag gia dinh an mde "dgp, lich su"; 4,3% hg gia dinh "dn mdc hgp thdi trang; 47,5% "dfi ldnh, dfi dm"; chi cfi 1,6% "cdn thidu thdn" Ve vifc di lgi, tfi cfad chi vfii "bdn chdn di gfit radn sfii dd", ddn (d thdi diem cfia cugc khdo sdt) efi 39,1% sd ngudi dugc hfii uu tien lya chgn gid tri "sd hihi phuong tifn di lgi" (xe dgp, xe may, fi tfi) Trong bfii canh phat tridn cfia kinh td thi truong, nhu cau di lai cfia nguoi dan da vugt khfii khudn khfi chat hep cfia dia phuong V vdy, ngoai phuang tifn giao thdng cdng cfing, phuang tifn ridng phyc vu cho vifc di lgi cfia cd nhdn vd gia dinh da trd tfadnfa mft nhu cdu tat yeu Ndu nhu hong xa hgi truydn thfing, nguoi ddn hdu nhu khfing di khfii phgm vi ldng xa cfia minh, cdng khdng efi thdi gian va tien bac dd di tham quan du ljch, thi ngdy mgi chuyfn dd khdc Cy thi Id hong vdng nam trudc thdi didm didu tra, 73,8% sfi ngudi dugc hfii cho bidt hg dd di thdm ngudi thdn, ban be d ngodi huyfn, ngoai tinh; 50,3% di tham quan hong nudc; 2,5% di du lieh nudc ngoai Day Id mgt budc pfadt tridn hodn todn 35 Khoa hpc xa hfi Vift Nam, sd 11 - 2017 cung mgt radi nhd (tam tfi dgi ddng dudng) Id mdt ma udc ddi vfii mpi gia dinh, du hg thufc tdng Ifip hodc rtiifim xd hdi ndo Thi nhung, hifn ufire ma khfing cdn Cdc gia frj quan hf gifia ngirdi mang tinh phfi bidn nfia vdi ngudi Chi bdo tiep theo Id "vg ehong chung thfiy"(dat 96%) Didu dac bift d ddy Id, niu Ndu cac gid tn tfaudc Ifiifa vyc kinh tl - vdt nhu chi bdo "dng bd, eha mg sdng chung chdt la nhihig ^ cd lien quan tfii mdi quan voi chau" cfi sy thay dfii mang tinh dft hf gifia ngudi vdi radi trudng ty nhidn, biln thi chi bao "vg chfing ehung tiifiy" lai tdi vifc ddp fing cdc nhu cdu sinh ton cfia gdn nhu dugc bdo luu hodn todn so vfii hg, thi cdc gia tri hong quan hf giiia ngudi truydn tiidng Tinh lien h^c cfia chi bdo ndy vdi ngudi, va d ddy Id gifta cae thdnh vien hodn todn khfing phdi Id didu nglu nhien gia dinh, dugc quan nif m Id tat cd nhfing gi Trohg xa hfi hifn dai, gia dmh khfing cdn thuge vl mdt tinh cdm vd dgo ly, cdc khufin la dan vj kinh td khep kin, cac thdnh vien mau tdc phong hdng ngdy gifta hg voi trudng thdnh cfi thu nhdp dgc l^p, trd era Nfii cu tfal, ddy Id vifc fing xfi gifia vg va van cd the duge nufii duong bdi nguoi bd chfing, cha ra? vd edi, anh chi em, fing ho|ic ngudi mg hfin nhdn tan vd Dilu cd nghia chi bdo ve sy chung thfiy vg xfi vfii hg hdng, ldng gieng, bgn bd Trong doi sdng gia dmh Vift Nam hifn chdng vd ca bdn khfing cfin xudt phat t£r nay, hf gid tri ndy bao gfim cd nhimg gia trj vifc bdo ddm sy sinh tdn cfia gia dinh ma Id cfi tfi khdi thuy (nhu: vg ehdi^ chung chuyen sang su thfia mdn nhu cdu tdm ly Ehfiy, anh em hda thugn, hang xfim ldng tinh cdra cfia cdc cd nhdn Noi mft each gidng toi lira tdt ddn cd nhau;), cd nhfing gid khdi qudt Id, trudc ddy chung thuy Id vi su Iri dugc vay mugn, dnh hufing cfia Phgt sdng cfin cua gia dinh, ngdy chung gido, Nho giao (nhu: cha tfi hieu, ddng tiifiy Id vi sy sfing cdn cfia tinh ydu Hdn ;on nhieu chdu, dng bd, eha m? sdiig cfing nhan hifn dgi la dya trdn tinh ydu, tiii ehi c6 Adu con), cung nhu nhOng gid tii mdi tinh yeu rafii cfi thd tri dugc cuf c hdn ^nhu: binh ddng gidi, binh ddng thi hf, nhdn dd Dieu ndy gidi thich vi cd hong luyin ty cd nhdn ) Cdu hdi d§t Id truydn thfing vd hifn dai, chung thuy vg rong sy tfin tgi dan xen gifta eae gid tri cu chong ludn la gid h i dugc dl cao hong ddi fk mdi, gid tq nfi sinh va gia tri ngogi sinh, sdng gia dinh hi gia dmh Vift Nam dang uu tien eho Gia dinh Vift Nam hifn cd the coi la ihftnggidhindo raft hinh thdi qua df tfi truydn thdng sang moi so vdi truydn thdng, kl cd so vdi thfii ky bao cap Kit qua dilu tra cho tiidy, chi bdo "dng hifn dai Dde diem ndy ldm cho sy lya chon >d, cha mg sdng chung voi chdu" xep d gid trj Cling mang tinh "qua dg" Tai dia ban /j tii sau cfing vdi chi 24,1% sd ngudi lya nghidn cuu, 1^ rad ngudi dan dua ve :hgn Ddy la mfit sy tiiay ddi rdt ldn so vdi vifc de cao gia tri vg chdng chung thuy vfia 1$ gid tii gia , Nxb Trfi, Tp H Chi Minh [6] Ronald Inglehart (2008), Hifn dgi hoa vd hgu hifn dgi hoa, Nxb Chfnh trj quIc gia, Hi nfi [7] Trdn QuIc Vupng (2000), Vdn hoa Vi4t Nam Tim toi vd suy ngdm, Nxb Vin hda din tfc, T?p chf Vdn hda Nghf thugt, H i Nfli ... gid h i dugc dl cao hong ddi fk mdi, gid tq nfi sinh va gia tri ngogi sinh, sdng gia dinh hi gia dmh Vift Nam dang uu tien eho Gia dinh Vift Nam hifn cd the coi la ihftnggidhindo raft hinh thdi... vl sy vgn hanh vd bien ddi hf gia tri gia dinh Vift Nam sau 30 ndm dfii mdi (trudng hgp tinh Thdi BUih), din ddy, cd thd rut mft sd nh|n xet sau: - Gia dmh Vift Nam hifn dang sdng vdi cd raft... gid tri gia dinh cho thay van hda gia dinfa Vift Nam tfi hong lich sfi efao din hien Id vdn hfia hdi nhdp - hgi nhap cfia vdn hfia bdn dia thufic ca tdng Dfing Nam A vfii vdn hoa Ph$t giao, vdn