Cham soc, giao due cho tre mo coi hoa nhap cupc song QUANG D I / O N G N h a n g h i e n c d u T a m ly - G i a e due L au va nhat la gan day, cdng luan rat xon xao va nhdc nhoi bdi cac te lau ve dd den ndi sdng bac, thudc lie d vu trddng, dua xe tren dddng phd, danh tai quan nhau, dam trddng Idp Cac ket qua tra cdu ciia nganh cdng an truy xuat ngudn coi ciia cac quy td ndi tren deu cho thay, da phan hp la nhdng tay "anh chi" va la em cua nhieu gia dinh danh gia Gia tri va danh vong ciia nhOng gia dinh dd dddc (hay bj) chinh nhdng ngddi dem danh ddi bang sd dua doi xa lang, bang Idi sinh hoat trac tang, bang viec nem tien qua cira sd va nhieu nem ca mang sdng len xa lp, de mac cho td than phan xet! Trong cac bac song than cua hp say sda vdi van hoa lam giau va van hda quyen ldc, thi hp lai me man vdi thd van hda "dda hoi", van hda "cay the" hda quyen nhdng thd "van hda an chdi ijat mang" de chdng td dang cap ciia minh trddc thien va ban be Hp xuat than td nhdng gia dinh cd van hda Vang, dung vay, vi bd me ciia hp la nhOng vj chdc sac, cc tam cd Nhdng lam nhOng dieu dd, chfnh cac quy tir ay, nhOng cau am co chieu ay da gay tdn hai cho danh gia vpng tpc, chp VAN HOA GIA DINH Dieu trd treu la khong phai vi song than nao cung "ngd" dieu dd cho tdi cdn minh ddng trddc vanh mdng ngda, tham chi nguc that! Cung khong phai cac vi dd mu quang ma khong nhan Van de la cd mpt khoang each giQa viec nhan va viec chu tam giao due cho durig phep Khoang each dd ndi len V A N HOA DAY DO Nhieu ngddi nham tddng rang hai thd - van hoa gia dinh & van hoa day (VHDD) la mpt, ddng nhat Nhdng thde te khong han luc nao cung vay Thddng la khdng cd sd ddng nhat giOa chiing, dac biet vdi nhOng gia dinh cd nhieu quyen ldc, nhieu quyen the, va ca nhieu quyen lOi Phep CO ban nhat VHDD la luyen nhan tmh, thay vi tha ndi de cai chay theo ban nang tam thddng Cang dan sau vao ban nang hddng thu vung vit hay ban nang bao ldc tranh gianh thi ngddi cang dddc "tdi luyen" chat "con" nhieu hOn chat ngddi, thu tinh nhieu hon nhan tinh VHDD cai dda tren nhOng can ban ve tinh nhan van, ve van hoa lam ngddi cCia mdi ngUdi Trong dd, lay van hda dng xir lam cdt each Trong van hda DAY VA H O C N G A Y NAY SO 6-2010 dng xd thi coi trpng gia tri nhan each hdn gia tri ddng tien va mpi thd gia trj khae Theo nghTa dd thi lam ngddi khd hon lam quan .De thde hien VHDD gia dinh, dieu tdi ky la khdng dddc dung bao hanh Khdng hinh thde bao hanh nao dddc chap nhan, ke ca bao hanh hay ifc hiep ve tinh than mdi eon cai lam ldi Bien phap dddc sd dung nhieu nhat la g i n gui than thien de cdi md va l i n g nghe, de thuyet phuc tren cd sd ciing ban bac each giai toa nhOng be t i c neu cd Ngay ca bien phap tfiuyet phuc thi tranh giang giai mpt chieu, ma cdt de nghe cai bay td, tren nen tang dd ma phan tfch dieu hdn le thiet Mat khac, de cd sde thuyet phuc, khdng gi bang ta'm gddng chi'nh dien cua me cha, cua ngddi Idn va cua cac ban cung tudi Kem theo thuyet phuc la sU khich le dpng vien dddc cei trpng hdn bien |Dhap khien trach ky luat Lay cai td't ciia lam diem tda de che ngd va day l i i i c a i x a u cua nd V i d u , nd thich xai tien, hay thddng tien hay tra cdng xdng d a n g c h o nd mdi luc nd lam dddc viec tdt Khdng nen bdng ddng cho tien, ma nd xai tien thi nd hieu rang day la ddng tien no lam bang viec tdt, bang cdng sde ciia nd, no se biet tiet kiem Cd ngddi hdi, m i e Idi cd nen dung bien phap che tai va cann van ? Bac sT Benjamin Spock (chuyen gia hang dau cua nudc My ve tu van giao due gia dinh va VHDD) cd ndi dai y: Dd chiia giai phap tinh the, khdng nen lam dung Khi nd lam ldi, cd the c^t chi vien hoac cam giao iUu, nhUng hay md cho no mot loi thoat Dd la loi thoat lap cdng Chi nen che tai va cam van nd chua lap cdng .Cdn nhieu nOa VHDD Tren day chi mdi khdi ngudn vai y hddng thddng nen cd d i n dat vao ddi "Vao ddi"- theo nghTa tdng quat nhat ma BS Benjamin Spock khai quat la, tranh gay toi 161, va neu Id bj lam loi thi phai tim each lay cong chuoc tpi Ai dd da ndi tren nhat bao The Straits Times "An chai xa lang luc binh thudng la hoang phi Cdn an chdi bat mang va quai dan thdi kinh te suy sup thi khong chi ia xa xl cdn la tgi ad' Nhan dinh dd that khdng qua Idi ma quanh ta bao nhieu dan lanh lo chay an tdng bOa, cdn khdi ngddi dang thdng khd vi that nghiep, rat nhieu tre thd cdi cpc vl thieu an