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»2^m^ sGlAOBypGlAtiPii Giao due gia flinh - flieu kien de cai trifofng tlianh THUY LINH Tufin Td da ndi "Nhan chi sd tinh ban thien» Con ngUdi sinh von mang tinh thi#n Mdi mpt ngUdi nhU mpt td giay trfing NhiTng net dau tien viet ien trang giay cd the se quyet djnh cfi cuQC ddi mdi ngUdi Con ngudl sinh ra, ban than chUa hinh tinh each rd ret Song, mdi trUdng dau lien ma mdi dda tre tiep xue - la gia dinh - se la nhOng anh hudng dau lien, quan trpng nha't den viec hinh tinh each, nhan each vfi dmh hudng sdng cua mfii ngudi Bdi vfiy, each giao dpc va mdi trudng sdng moi gia dinh ddng vai trd quyel dinh, anh hudng den viec dda tre ldn len nhU the nao va sdng sao! Mdt ngUdi trUdng Ihanh, tat nhien chju anh hudng cua nhieu mdi IrUdng sdng: gia dinh, nhfi IrUdng, ban be, npi lam viec, Tdng mdi trudng cd tac ddng khac nhau, vao tifng «gdc=' liep Ihu eua ngUdi Song, mdi trUdng gia dinh gid vai trd quan trpng bac nha't viec hinh linh each, nhan each, ldi sdng cua mdi ngUdi, Vi vay, hay chii y den each giao due Irong gia dinh IVludn cai trudng Ihanh, hay tu xay dUng mpt moi irudng gifio due lanh manh, phii hdp vfi hieu qua mdi mai nha Hay biet each giao due con, hay tao dieu kien de minh phat trien loan dien, khdng phai bang each ep budc, gia trudng - hay bai cd hinh thdc nao gfiy deche den lam ly cai Neu day eon khdng dung each, sdm hay mudn, cai cQng SG di "Chech hudng» yeu cau cua cha me, Iham chi cdn phan lac dung, gay tfim ly" chdng ddi va cfing thang Id cai Mdi gia dinh cd hofin canh khac nhau, thdi quen khac nhau, each sinh hoat t(hac vfi phUdng phap giao due khac Song, cha m^ giQ vai ird la ngudi dat cac nguyen lac giao due Irong gia dinh, hay chpn each giao due phu hpp de khong chf udn nan Iheo y minh vfi cdn tao nen mdng de cai phat trien loan dien va trUdng theo dimg nghTa, Cac bac cha mp cd the tham khao mpt vai qui tac ehlnh viec giao due cai de giiip trUdng thfinh loan dipn: Khong cau toan Con ngudi khdng loan dien Bfi't cd cijng cd the ed mgt tdl, xau, thie'u sdt Dd la 1^ khdng nen qufi cau toan Irong vipc day con, danh gia cai vfi ca vific giao dye cfii Hay lim hieu ifnh each cda minh, phan Uch xem nen phat huy mat gi manh, khac phuc mfil yeu nao cua Khi day con, ddng ddi hdi eon phai Ifim gi dd Ihat idt, that xuat sac, ma hay day biet tiel che nhQng mat yeu de phat huy mat manh cua minh Dieu dd se giup bpn nhan thdc ddng dan vd ban than, ddng thdi cung giiip khdng ed lfim 1;^ qua cau loan cudc sdng, de tren dUdng ddi, bpn khdng bj nhdng cii «sdc» ve nhiTng dieu cdn han che cda xfi hdi, Ra't nhieu gia dinh qua eau tofin each dgy con, ep eon Ihuc hien vi§c gi cung phai hoan loan lot, tuyfit ddi xua't sac, vd hinh chung lam cho cai cQng danh gia mpi sp vgl, hien tUdng xung quanh qua lfing kinh e^u tofin, chiing ddi hdi moi viee ide nao cOng phai lot dpp, loan dien, l> Song se Ifi gfinh nang, th$m chf cdn kdo «lhyt lUi" neu ban cQ dp minh vfio mdt mfii trudng qufi kha nang cua nd Hay bie't danh gIfi dOng v€ cai! Thong nhat each giao due Ofiy cung la d i l u ma ft gia dinh lam dUdc, Bdi le, giQa hai vp chdng, nhieu quan di^m gifio dpc trai ngupc nhau, Nhieu khi, bd day mpt dang; mp day mpt ndo lam cho cai khdng biel «dQdng nfio mfi lan» Cudi cung, hin chiing se Ifim theo '!/ neng ciia minh Hai vd chdng hay thdng nhat ve phQdng phap day con, Tranh tinh trgng trdng danh xuoi, kem thdi ngUdc Mpt ngudi eha nghiem khac se khdng the nao dgy dupc nfi^u ba mp chieu qufi mde hofic ngQpc Igi, Tdl nh^l, cha mp hay bfin bge trudc dUa mpt vfi'n de vdi Dieu dd tao sQ ddng thuan khong chl giQa eha mp ma gida ca cha mp va cai Giftfng m l u Con cai ban se vupl den dd neu thfi'y bd mp chOng Ifim thg Vi^c gUdng mau de lam gUdng cho cai Ifi mpt vi$c eye ki* quan Irpng vigc dgy dd Con cai phSi tfim phpc, kh^u phuc, Cd nhu the lieng ndi ciia cha me mdi cd "sQc n$ng», Bgn hay "Cha'n chfnh» minh IrQdc rfii dgy con, D i l u mfi cac dng bd bfi mp nen lfim nigm la «mlnh la ldm gQOng cho con>> NhOng didu bgn dgy eon bang Idi cd anh hQdng 10 phfin, thi nhQng d i l u bgn the hign bang hanh ddng se inh hudng d i n bgn gap 10 l l n day 06'i thoai Thdng lin mdt chieu khdng bao gid cd hieu qua bang Ihfing tin hai chieu, Thay vi bgn lenh: phai lam vi^c nfiy phai lam vipc bgn hay ddi ihoai, trao dfii vdl con, Chfic chfin higu qua se cao hdn hSn, Khi ddi thogi, cfic bfie eha mp hay coi minh nhU ngudi bjn cua eon, bgn se kham pha nhidu dieu tQ minh, td Ifnh each, sd thich, suy nghT vfi rat nhieu thdng lin quan trpng Bgn ddng ap dgt suy nghT cua minh eho vfi b^t chiing Ifim Iheo Ddi se tao phan Qng ngam suy nghT cua bgn DQng quan mem rang minh Ifi cha me minh cd quyen bat cai Ifim theo nhQng gi bgn mudn Hay cho dupc the hidn suy nghT vfi quan diem cua chung Ddi thogi Ifi mdt cfich de hieu v l minh Ton cai Mgc dQ Ifi con, nhung cfii cung ddi hdi minh dUdc ldn trpng Tdn Irpng tfnh each, sd Ihich va quan diem cua Ifi mpt cfich de gan gui va hieu eon hdn Bgn cd the dua mot van de vfi de nghj ban dUa quan diem rieng Nhuthe se khuye'n khich Imh lU lap va thdi quen phan Qng nhanh nhay trudc mdt vfi'n de nfio dd ciia ban Neu bgn mac loi, dQng mang chdi, len an, mfi hfiy ndi ehuyen mpt each nghiem tiic de bgn nhfin van de Khdng cd the ludn ludn lam dieu dung dfin Con cai bgn cung nhU the' Ngay ca ddi sdng rieng tu cua con, cha mg ciing trfinh khdng nen xam pham thai qua DQng nghi dpc trpm nhat ky Ifi giai phap dung de kiem Ira suy nghT ciia Hay ldn trpng tfnh cfich, thdi quen, ddi sdng neng ciia eon vfi hay tim hieu bfing each Irao ddi vfi ton trpng y kiln ciia Dd Ifi cfich giup ban trudng thfinh hon Tin tu&ng Co rat nhieu bac cha mp sai lam cho rfing «lrQng" khdng "khdn hdn vit- dUdc, DQng ^cd hij" nhU the ma hfiy tin ludng vfio cfii, khuyen khich dfinh gifi cfic van de va dUa y kien, Cha mg dgt niem tin vfio se giQp cai lp tin hdn de ddi dign vdi cac vSn d l cupe sdng Cha mp nfio ciJng mudn cai trddng thfinh vfi dgt, NhQng neu khdng tin tddng d con, thi bgn khd ed the IrQdng mat cha m? Co nhieu trUdng hpp ngofii xa hpi, co rat nhieu ngudi tQ tin, thfinh dgt, nhUng Ird ve gia dinh, van bi cha mp coi nhu tre Iho Trong cupc sdng, mdi trudng gifio dye gia dinh ddng vai trd vd eung quan trpng ddi vdi mdi ngUdi tir sinh den tan luc Irudng thfinh Neu gia dinh nfio cd tfic dfing tich cQc den cai thl phan idn cfii deu trudng Ihfinh va tu Im eupc sdng NgQpc lai cd nhQng each gifio dye sai lam lfim cho eai Iri trg, dpa dam vfi khdng the tQ "ddng" Iren doi chfin eua chinh minh, thfim chi cdn lfim hU hdng cai minh Giao due gia dinh dung each se "Cung cap" eho xfi hpi nhilu ngQdi "tich cpc- Hay gdp phan xay dpng mdt xa hpi phfit trien IQ chinh gia dinh minh Bdi gia dinh Ifi te bfio cua xa hpi (Ngudn: gdld vn) ... lfim hU hdng cai minh Giao due gia dinh dung each se "Cung cap" eho xfi hpi nhilu ngQdi "tich cpc- Hay gdp phan xay dpng mdt xa hpi phfit trien IQ chinh gia dinh minh Bdi gia dinh Ifi te bfio... tin tddng d con, thi bgn khd ed the IrQdng mat cha m? Co nhieu trUdng hpp ngofii xa hpi, co rat nhieu ngudi tQ tin, thfinh dgt, nhUng Ird ve gia dinh, van bi cha mp coi nhu tre Iho Trong cupc... ludn ludn lam dieu dung dfin Con cai bgn cung nhU the'' Ngay ca ddi sdng rieng tu cua con, cha mg ciing trfinh khdng nen xam pham thai qua DQng nghi dpc trpm nhat ky Ifi giai phap dung de kiem Ira