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Giao due, Tnrong Dqi hoc Hdng Dire TAP CHl KHOA HQC TRlTdNG BAI HQC HONG Bl/C - SQ PAC BIET IS 2017 cdn hen quan din hoat dpng linh due sau niy GDGT gidp tre cd nhung cim xiic tich cue vd sy ton ttgng ban thdn ca thi minh, tu hdo minh la nhung chang ttai, cd gai GDGT cd anh hudng ttve ttIp din gido dye dan sl GDGT cung cip nhflng kiln tilde khoa hoe vl ddn sl kl hoach hda gia dinh, sdc khde sinh sdn, hgnh phiic gia dmh, giup cho cac em cd hilu bilt vi y thdc lam chuti-ongcac quan he linh bgn, tinh yen va hdn nhdn sau GDGT Id dudng huu hieu ngan ngua cdc benh Idy nhilm qua dudng tinh dye, dac biet id HIV- AIDS GDGT se giup cho thilu nien hinh tiianh thdi dg, hdnh vi dung ddn ttong cdc mdi quan he bgn be cdng gidi, khic gidi Bill idm chu ttong viec giai quylt cac van de cd hen quan din tinh yeu, hdn nhan, gia dinh, xdy dyng cudc sdng idnh mgnh cd vdn hda, hudng tdi cugc sdng gia dinh hanh phdc 2.2, Cic nguy@n tac de gido dye giiH tinh gia dinh Viec GDGT gia dinh khac vdi nhd Irudng d chd khong day cho cdc em kien thdc ve gidi linh ma dd id su chudn bi ve linh thin vd thyc tl cho tte dl cac em biel cdch xay dung cudc sdng gia dinh Chinh vi vay cha me cung cin dya vdo cac nguyen tdc sau: GDGT khong thi lack rai qud trinh gido due dao dire Vigc GDGT co ccr sd td viec giao dye dgo ddc vi vgy nd klidng thi tdch rdi qua frinh giao due dao dde Cha me cdn ehu y den viee giao due cac chudn muc dgo due cho tte nhu gido due linh Irung Ihyc, tinh than trach nhiem, idng nhdn di, su tin cgy, thai trung thuc ttong cac mdi quan he Viec GDGT ddi hdi phdi ddn chii y den nhdng ddc diem gidi tinh vd nhflng khdc biet cua ttt ttong loan bp cupc sdng Cha me phii giao dye cho cdi sy ton ttgng ddi vdi cdc em gdi nhd, ddi vdi ban gai va phu nfl, hinh thdnh cho ttt cdc pham chat manh me ciia phdi nam Viec GDGT phdl di kem vai suphdt trien giai linh cua ire d ddy cin chii y den viec di chuyen cdc Ihii gidi tinh cua cdi sang viee ham me cac hoat dgng khic nhu van hoa vdn nghe, the due the thao Chdng han nhu cha me nSn khuyin khieh tre vdo miia h^ tham gia cdc CLB bdng da, bai loi thay vi cho tte ngdi chai game Can luu y rang iiimg ihii gidi linh ciia Ire neu klidng cd Ioi thoat se din din nhung nhu ciu khong idnh manh, tinh ihit Ihudng, hay cau gdi, khdng cdl md hoac m6 dam vio cac thdi quen khdng ianh mgnh Chudn bi vi mat tdm ly vd tinh than cho Ire tham gia vdo cudc song gia dinh Hinh thdnh niiflng phim chit dao due can Ihiet cho cugc sdng chung gifla nam vd nd nhu sy ddi xd kheo leo, thai dg an cin, su tdn ttgng phu nu, bdn phgn ddi vdi gia TAP CHi KHOA HQC, TRlTCING BAI HQC HONG BlTC - S6 PAC B1$T (5.2017) dinh, ngudi yeu, giao due long lin, sy chung Ihuy ttong tinh yeu Cha mg can giao due cho cdl thai dd diing din ddi vdi cac tdc phim nghe thugt, nhflng bd phim hay, nhflng bai vilt hay vl tinh y^u Ngdn ngita nhflng suy nghT va nhflng phim chit nhu thdi kieu nggo, sy ghen tudng vd Idi, Ihdi ich ky, hen kem Irong tinh yeu, Tinh yeu phai id bilu tirgng cila su cao thugng cdch nhin cda tte 2.3, Con dudng giio due gidi tinh cho tre gia dinh GDGT cho tre ihdng qua chinh cudc sdng ciia cka me Viec GDGT cd ihl thyc hign d nhilu moi tiirdng khdc nhung chac chdn dau tien phdl Id chinh mdi trudng md tte dang song Cac bdc cha me cdn y thdc dugc rang cdl hgc duoc rit nhilu rii cha me vl gidi tfnh, linh due, chinii id mdl qud tiinh giao dye loan ven vl nhan each Trong nhieu trudng hgp cii hgc dugc nhflng bdi hgc quy gid Id cha me vl vai trd gidi mau myc, mdi quan he nhdn vdn vd ed trach nhiem Cudc sdng cua cha me Id trudng hoc dau tien ciia tre, Chinh vi vdy cha me can mlu myc ttong ddi sdng, ludn id tdm guang cho tte noi theo, Mudn gido dye tti tdn ttgng cdc ban gdi thi chinh ngudi bd Irong gia dinh eflng phdi yen thuang va ldn trgng ngudi vg ciia minh Tre se ludn hanh xd vd bat chude gidng nhu ngudi bd ciia minh ngodi xa hgi, Gido due cho Ire Ihii dp ldn cha mg Day la mgt ttong nhdng phdm chdi quan ttgng viec hinli thdnh mdi quan he dimg din giua trai va gai Tinh yeu ddi \oi eac ba me \a su tdn trgng phy nd cd cdng mdt goc rl, Ciiinh V! vay ma cha me can nhac nho fre quan tam thudng xuyen den ngudi me Can the hien su quan tdm ben ngoai bang nhiing hdnh dpng cy the nhu giiip da me viee nha, ehia se, quan ldm me om dau, nhdng ngdy ie nhu 8/3, 20/10, nen quan lam dong vien me Dieu ngu\ hai nhat la su xuong cdp ve mat dgo ddc eua cha me Neu cha me budc vio cudc sdng gia dinh qud sdm, cdn thieu nhdng ky nang sing vd thieu kinh nghiem ve llnh due an loan se Idm dnh hudng din dda tre Tre thudng eflng sdm budc vao cdc mdi quan he tinh yeu nong ndi, mil quang vd ddn den viec kit hdn sdm, Mdt gia dinh ma chinh ngudi bd hodc ngudi me cdn chua budc khdi Ida tudi tineu men thi khd xay dyng duge mdi quan he dimg din gifla vg vd chdng Ho khong dli In thue, kmh nghiem sing dl gidi quyll nhdng xung dot cua gia dinh va nhu vay khong Ihl giao dgc dugc cai Thdng thudng nhflng cudc hdn nhan se sdm bi lan vd Cha me cdn quan sdt mpi bieu hien cua cdi Cha me cdn nhdn biet rd nhung ddu hieu thay dli bit Ihudng ciia con, Dac biel budc vao giai dogn day thi Cha me cdn bill rd nao gdi cua minh cd kinh nguyel idn diu Day cho cai cd thai dd binh thudng ddi vdi cdc hien ttigng lu nhien dd, Cin phdi giai thich don gidn cho hilu id "Con dd trd thdnh mdt thilu AP CHI KHOA HQC, TRlTdNG BAI HQC H N G BC'C - SO BAC BlfT (S 2U17) nd" hay "Con da ttd mgt ngudi dan dng" Kheo leo theo doi timg budc di cua dd chinh la quy lac thdi dd cua cha me cai budc vao Ihdi ky day thi, Cha me cung can hi8u r5 nhflng hien lugng bat thudng sy phat tnln gidi linh cua cai, dp dyng kip thdi nhdng bien phdp dac thu Ching ban benh lal, eo the suy yeu se dan d6n viec ldm cham qua trinh phdt tnen gidi linh Trong tnidng hop khdng thude men nao lot ban la sy van dgng the lliao nhdm gulp diy nhanh su phdl trien the chdi ciia Ire Cha me cdn trd lai tdt ed nhimg edu hdi md cdi ddi Cdc bdc cha me can ttd ldi bdt ky cau hdi ndo md tre ddt Khdng nen dl tre chua trudng di vao viec tim hieu chan ly mdt each mo ho Tuoi tre vln ril to mo nhtmg neu ngudi idn sg trd idi nhiing cdu hoi dan gian vd ty nhien nhat thi Irong diu cac em se ndy smh cac cau trd ldi tu tim thdy, hdng chyc eac phuong dn co th6 gidi thich cho ly tgi ngudi Idn im lang, Cha mg phai tta ldi cdu hoi mdt cdch dan gian, van tdt, khdng ngucmg ngap, khong td sa hai gai co the hdi rdng Iiic bao nhieu tudi thi me bat dau yeu Cha me cung khdng nen qua thudng xuySn dS cdp din cac van de gidi tinh Chi tra ldi cai hdi mgt cdch nghiem tiic vd khdng nen phat ttiln 6c td md khong lanh manh Cd nhdng cau tra ldi kho thi se noi vdi tre "Chung ta se ndi chuyen sau, cdn bay gid thi khdng thi dugc", Chudn bi tdm Iy cho budc vdo cudc sdng gia dinh Viec khdng dugc chuin bi vl mat tam ly vd mat xa hoi cho hoat ddng linh due la ngudn gdc cua nhilu tham kich cd nhdn, Theo sd ligu cua Vign nghien cuu Xa hdi hgc thi 80 % nguyen nhan cdc -vu li hdn Id khong duoc chudn bi day du kien thdc vd ky nang vd su "khdng hda hgp" ttong ddi song gia dinh Hau nhu tit ca cdc cdp va chong Ire sau mdt nam chung sdng diu cho ring thuc le hg chua chuin bi idl cho m^t cudc sdng gia dinh Suit cd cugc ddi ngudi sdng gia dinh ttong su giao tiep chat che ddi vdi nhdng ngudi than, nhdng quy tic va nhung nl nip eua gia dinli dam bao cho ngudi dd cd hanh phiic chdn chinh hon, Nhflng cdu hdi ddt eho tre vi thdnh nien Id Ldm Ihl nao lim dugc ngudi bgn ddi phu hgp'' Lam Ihl nao dc phdn biel linh yeu chan chinh va linh yeu mu qudng? 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Til ca nhdng dilu dang dai cho cha mg nhdng nhiem vy ldn lao Id cin chuin bi tdt nhit cho Ihanh nien budc vdo cugc sdng gia dinh GDGT cd lien quan mat Ihilt vdi ddi sdng thyc liln, chinh vi vay cha me khdng nen ne ttdnh Makarenko da vilt "Viec bdi du&ng vi hoat dong sinh dye khdng pkdi Id su bat ddu md Id su- hodn tkien Niu gido due tdch rai khdi tinh due thi chimg la vdn chua gido dye duac ngu&i cdng ddn, nhung neu gido due ngu&i cdng ddn ihi chiing ta vdn gido TAP CHi KHOA HQC, TRLTANG BAI HQC HONG DJfC - S6 BAC BIgT (5, 2017) due cd tinh due md Id mdt thu tinh dye dd dirge ndng cao theo nhirng phuang eabdn ciia su quan tdm su phgm" hudng [1] KET LUAN v i n d l gido due gidi linh d n u d c ta da d u g c q u a n tom n i idu m y n h i e n ttong Ihyc t l viee gido due gidi tinh cho tre vdn c h u a dgt hiSu q u a n h u m o n g m u d n Ve phia gia dinh, cdc bac p h u huynh hdu h i t chua nhgn thdc d u o c vai tto, lgi ich, nhu cau giao due gidl linh cua eon eai M g t sd cha mg I h u d n g ne trdnh v i n d l n a y , fre phdi tii mdy md, tim h i l u Q u a n n i e m tten k h i l n tt6 Ihilu hyl n h d n g k i l n I h u c , k y n a n g x d iij cac van d l gidi tinh d i l u n a y g a y n g u y hgi den the chat, lam l y c u a Ire V i e c xdy d y n g mgt gia dinh van hda, hgnh phdc ludn Id vdn de quan tam c u a l o a n x a hgi, C h i n h vi vgy cha me can xdc d i n h rd trdch nhiem ciia minh viec h u d n g dan e u n g n h u ttang bi nhung kien thuc can thiel ve gidi linh cho cdi Gido due gidi linh c d hieu qud nhal neu no d u g c bdi dap ddn ddn ttong nhieu n a m Cudi cimg, d i e u md gido d y e gidi linh can h u d n g d e n dd Id too nhimg c d n g dan sdng lanh m a n h , ttr lin vd tich e y e TAI L I E U T H A M K H A O [I] A, L Cbchtib^) (\.915), Nhirng vdn de ly ludn dire due, ^Yb [2] Pham K h i c C h u a n g (2001), Gido due gia dinh, N x b , G i a o d u e H a N g i Giao due, HdNgi, [3] N g u y i n Vdn Le - N g u y i n Sinh H u y ( 0 ) , Gido dye hgc dai cuang, N x b Gido dye, Ha Ndi [4] Trdn Thi T u y l t Oanh (chii bien) ( 0 ) , Gido trlnh Gido due hgc tap I 2, Nxb Dai hoe S u p h g m , Hd Ngi SEX EDUCATION FOR ADOLESCENTS IN THEIR FAMILIES Nguyen Thi Minh Hien ABSTRACT Family development including home is an environment of a child's sex education Sex education which has a tremendous personality A family holds There are many ways to deliver should K e y w o r d s : Adolescence, be started sex early education impact many on the formation different sex education and eonllnually and functions, to children throughout the al child ... song gia dinh Hau nhu tit ca cdc cdp va chong Ire sau mdt nam chung sdng diu cho ring thuc le hg chua chuin bi idl cho m^t cudc sdng gia dinh Suit cd cugc ddi ngudi sdng gia dinh ttong su giao... dire Vigc GDGT co ccr sd td viec giao dye dgo ddc vi vgy nd klidng thi tdch rdi qua frinh giao due dao dde Cha me cdn ehu y den viee giao due cac chudn muc dgo due cho tte nhu gido due linh Irung... me phii giao dye cho cdi sy ton ttgng ddi vdi cdc em gdi nhd, ddi vdi ban gai va phu nfl, hinh thdnh cho ttt cdc pham chat manh me ciia phdi nam Viec GDGT phdl di kem vai suphdt trien giai linh