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TOT DOI DEP OAO Tap Chi Cong tac Ton giao CdNG Giio Ydl CONG TAC DAN SC^ - KE HOACH HOA GIA BINH DSNG BAG HA NGOC THQ ban loai ngdy dang phai ddi mat vdi nhidu thdch tiiflc to ldn cd tinh toan cdu nhu: su can kiet tai nguyen, buy hoai mdi traong sir khai tiidc tan nhdn cua ngudi; nan ddi va khoang each giau ngheo cang ldn; nan phan biet chimg tdc, nan khimg bd de dga an ninh tiie gidi vdn khdng dugc cai tiiien v.v Cflng vdi nhung tiidch tiiflc dd, sir bung nd, gia tang dan sd cung dang dat loai ngudi trade nguy co cdp bdeb bdi sir qud tai cua banh tinh chung ta Lien hgp qudc, cimg nhidu td chflc qudc te khdc da phai ban bd nhidu thdng diep ndng bdng nham keu ggi, tim giai phdp ban che su gia tang, bung phat dan sd Viet Nam la mdt Uong cdc qudc gia ddng dan, cd mat dg dan sd ldn, kinh td cham phdt trien, sflc ep ciia viec gia tang dan sd lai cdng ldn, nen van dd dan sd - ke hoach boa gia dinh (KHHGD) phai dugc coi la mdt chien luge, mdt qudc sach Dd cung la didu ma Dang vd Nha nudc ta da sdm nhan va cd nhidu giai phdp tich cue, cd hieu qua ngan chan sir bung nd dan sd Mdi chiing ta, cd le ciing cd the tra ldi dugc cau bdi tai phai ban che sinh de, phai KHHGD, bdi thuc te Uong didu kidn hien nay, neu gia dinh ddng con, sinh dd khdng ke hoach thi sir ngheo ddi,tiidthgc, chdt lugng cudc sdng khdng dam bao la didu khd tranh khdi va cdn kdo theo bao nhieu he luy khac Didu hien cdn dang tdn tai d nhidu nai, nhdt la vflng sau, vflng xa, kinb tekhd khan, trinh dan tri thdp, bu tuc nang nd, dd cd ca vflng ddng ddng bao Cdng gido Ndi vd vdn dd dan sd - KHHGD Uong ddng bao Cdng giao, lau cung cd nbimg cdch nhin nhan khdc Cd cdi nhin phien dien thi cho rang, ngudi Cdng gido khdng thuc hien KHHGD bdi sir rang budc cua gido luat ma khdng di sau tim hieu can ke, ban chdt cua vdn dd Thuc te khdng hoan toan nhu tiie, rat nhidu xfl hg dao lai lam rdt td't cdng tac nay, nhidu nam hdn khdng cd ngudi sinh thfl ba va trd diem sang cdng tdc dan sd-ke hoach hod gia dinh Vdn dd la d chd, phai hieu cho dflng quan diem cua Giao hdi Cdng giao vd viec vd cd phuang phdp tuyen traydn, van ddng cho phu hgp thi mdi tao sir ddng thuan de ba gido dan tu giac thuc hien thi mdi cd ket qua Thuc te, trade mdt vaii dd xa hdi rdt bflc xuc nay, Gido hdi Cdng giao khdng phai la ngudi dflng ngodi cudc, ma trdi lai cd sir quan tam chia se mdi lo chung cua nhan loai ma Giao hdi ggi la nan "nhan man" ndy Vay Giao hdi Cdng giao ndi gi vd van dd nay? Hien che muc vu Cdng ddng Vatican II ndi vd Hdn nhan vd Gia dinh, hay Thu muc vu cua Hdi ddng Gidm muc Viet Nam 1992 da ninh bay quan diem cua Giao hdi Cdng gido trade vdn dd dan sd-KHHGD hien mdt each khd rd rang va tich cue, dd la sinh san cd trach nhiem Gido hdi chi Uong didu kien hien nay, khdng tiie lam tiieo phucmg cham cua ngudi xua: 'Trdi sinh voi, trdi sinh co" ngdy lodi ngudi dd ddy mat ddt, cdn phdi tinh de'n viec nudi sdng vd gido due nhdng mdm non cda lodi ngudi, dang khde menh lenh sinh sdn cho ddy mat ddt gdn lien vdi menh lenh ldm chd mat ddt Mudn the thi dita sinh phdi dugc nudi ndng vd gido due nen ngudi Dieu ndy diCa chung ta vdo nhdng cdp bach vd nghiem trgng hien Id vdn de dnh de co trdch nhiem vd vdn de gido due cdi" Tfl gido ly ndn tang "Con ngudi la hinh dnh cda Tiiien Clida Tinh yeu ", Gido hdi chi rd viec doi vg chdng phai nghl de'n lgi ich cua minh, cua nhung dua se sinh ra, phdi xudt phdt tfl nhung didu kien vat SS 10 - 2009 Tap cbi Cong tac Ton giao chdt, tinh thdn, thdi dai hg cung nhu hoan canh xa hdi va Giao hdi v.v de lira chgn viec se sinh bao nhieu con, tiidi gian gian each tiie ndo, muc dich de nhiing dfla sinh khoe manh, dugc cham sdc chu dao, frd tiianh cdng dan td't vd cung la giao dan td't Trong Hien che muc vu Vd Gido hdi tiie gidi nay, chuang I phdn n ndi ve hdn nhan vd gia dinh, vd trach nhiem sinh de ciia vg chdng, Cdng ddng ndi rang: "Bdn phdn truyen sinh vd gido due phdi dugc coi Id sd menh rieng biet cda vg chdng Trong thi hdnh bdn phdn dy, hg bie't rang minh cgng tdc vdi tinh yeu Thien Chda tgo hod vd nhu trd thdnh nhung ke dien dgt tinh yeu cua Ngdi, bdi vdy hg sechu todn bdn phdn minh vdi trdch nhiem cda ngUdi, vd cda Ki-to hdu Ton trgng tudn phuc Thien Chda, ddng tdm hgp luc vdi iup setgo dugc cho minh mgt phdn dodn thdng Bie't xet de'n lgi ich rieng cda hg ciing nhu cua cdi ddsinh iiay tien lieu se sinh, nhdn dinh ve cdc hodn cdnh vgt chd't hay tinh thdn cda thdi dgi vd mdc sdng Sau he't, bie't nghT de'n lgi ich cua gia dinh cua xdhgi vd chinh Gido hgi Suphdn dodn dy sau cdng chinh doi vg chong plidi lua chgn lay trUdc Thien Chda " Vd didu nay, ngudi gidi thieu van kien cua Cong ddng dd chu giai nhU sau: "O day, Cdng ddng day mdt giao ly mdi me, ddi vdi nhidu ngudi Cong giao lap gia dinh, de nhd tinh yeu lam cha me Ndi nbu the chua du, phai nditiiem:lam bac cha me cd Uach nhiem tiieo cdc nguyen tac dy, vg chdng nen sinh bao nhieu cai? Trade day nhung tin hifu dao dflc da na ldi: Chua mudn bao nhieutiiichung ta se sinhrabdy nhieu Nhung cau Ui ldi dy khdng cdn phfl hgp vdi gido ly nhu Cdng ddng day: Vg chdng phdi quyet djnh sd cd tiie cd, tiieo nhung nguyen tdc sau day: - Ich lgi vd mgi phuang dien cua hai vg chdng (vf du ngudi me cd du sflc khoe khdng) - Ich lgi cua cai (vf du gia dinh cd du phuang tien de nudi va giao due cai khdng) - Tuy tiieo tiidi gian, hoan canh, vat chat, tinh thdn - Tuy tiieo lgi fch cua gia dinh, xa hgi va SS to - 2009 TOT 001 DEP OAO Giao hdi" Nhu vay, xdt vd muc dfch cua KHHGD vd viec sinh san cd trach nhiem hoan toan cd su gap gifla chu traong cua Nha nudc va quan diem ciia Giao hgi Mac du d nei nay, noi khac Uong ddng bao Cdng gido vdn cdn cd tinh trang sinh nhidu nhidu ly khdc nhau, nhung cd the ndi den nay, vd mat nhan thflc phdn dong ddng bdo Cong giao ddu thdy rd su cantiiie'tcua van dd KHHGD, cua viec sinh cd Uach nhiem, bdi vi didu Uen quan va cbi phdi true tie'p tdi ddi sdng gia dinh ciia hg Nhung vdn dd can ban, mdu chd't ma chung ta cdn quan tam la phuong phap tuyen trayen tiiuc hien KHHGD ddng bao Cdng giao nhu the nao cbo bieu qua, trdnh dugc tam ly Io sg vi ldi luat dao, de bd yen tam tiiuc bien mdt each tu giac Vi suy cho cimg, day la mot cudc van ddng, hodn toan khong the dimg cac bien phap hanh cbfnh, cudng dp dugc, nhat la ddi vdi quan chung cd tfn ngudng tdn giao Chung ta biet rdng, Giao hdi Cdng giao coi ngudi la hinh anh ciia Thien Qiua, Thien Chua sang tao ra, dd, mgi banh vi xam pham ngudi ddu la xuc pham Thien Chua Vi vay, kbi tiiuc hicn sinh san cd trach nhiem va KHHGD, Giao bdi chi dd cao va cbi cbo phep tiiuc hien tranh thai bdng phuong phap tu nhien (phuang phap Ogino- Knauss, tiian nhiet), ngoai cac bien phap khac bi coi la phan tu nhien, phi nhan tinh, khong phu hgp vdi su tiiieng heng cao ca ciia than phan ngudi Vdi cdi nhin khdt khe nhu vay, budc luong tam ngudi giao dan phdi cd nhung lua chgn the nao cho phu hgp vdi hoan canh tiiuc te cua bg de khdi phai ay nay, ddn vat luong tam vi cbo rdng pham cdc dieu ran cua Chiia, nhat la didu ran thfl nam "chd giet ngudi", Uong tiiuc tecac bien phap tu nhien khong phai la mdt dam bao chdc chdn cho viec KHHGD Dd la mgt nghjch ly va ciing la didu can dugc giai toa Duong nhien, chflng ta cung khong bao gid khuyen khfch cac bien phap nao pha thai- dang la mgt tiiuc tenhuc nhdi ciia toan xa hdi, bdi su bang hoai dao dflc ldi sdng buong tha, thuc dung cua mgt sd ngudi, nhdt la tdng ldp thieu nien bien 47 TOT 001 DEP DAO Tap Chi Cong tac Ton giao Trd lai vdi vdn dd neu tren la neu chi dp dung cac sinh giam tfl 3,6% xudng cdn 1,6% nam 2006, bien phap ndnh thai tu nhien tiii chua tiie la giai dd cd nhidu xfl dao ty le sinh giam xud'ng phdp an toan tuyet dd'i, Uong cac cap vg dudi 1,0% Cac xfl dao Ddng Lu, Xuan La, Son chdng phai thuc hien bdn phan hdn nhan va dao Hoa, Tan Giai .d Nghi Ldc nhidu nam hen vg chdng nhu la mdt tinh yen cao ca, thieng khdng cd ngudi sinh tiifl ba O Ninh Binh Ueng ma Thien Chua ban tang Nhung neu bang qua nhidu nam tdng ket cac phong trao tiii dua cac bien phap khdc de ngan ngfla cd thai nhu d vimg gido ddu cd tfl 70 den 80% xfl hg dao dat dung tiiudc trinh tiiai, bao cao su, dinh san nam, danh hieu tien tien, 80% so hd gia dinh Cdng nfl ma khdng phai la lam tieu buy mdt sinh gido dat danh hieu gia dinh "Cdng giao guong linh, hoan toan khdng phai la hanh ddng tdi dc, mdu", nong dd cd viec tiiuc hien td't chuong khdng ldm tdn tiiuong den dao dflc vd luong tam trinh dan sd va phdt trien d dja phuong Trong ngudi tbi tai lai khdng dugc tiiuc hien? ke't qua chung cua cdng tac dan sd-KHHGD Vdn biet rang, ddi vdi giao bgi Cdng gido, mgi nong ddng bdo Cdng giao cd su ddng gdp tfch su can thiep vao nhung gi vdn cd nhu tao hod da cue cua nhidu vj chflc sdc La nhung ngudi am sinh ddu khdng chdp nhan dugc, nhung Uong tudng gido ly, giao luat, cham sdc khdng chi tradng hgp bdt kha khang, cdi nao tfch cue hem phan hdn giao dan ma cdn quan tam de tiiang tiii cdn dugc uu tien Giua viec ngfla tiiai, dam tien ddi sdng mgi mat cua ngudi, cdc vj bao KHHGD vd viec sinh dd tien, ddng chflc sdc Cdng gido ludn chia se ndch nhiem vdi de rdi cai bj tiidt hgc, ddi khd, benh tat, qud huang dat nudc bang viec ddng vien, budng khdng dugc cham sdc, giao due chu dao, tham ddn ba giao dan chu toan bdn phan trade ehl ddn den hanh vi tdi ldi, trd ganh nang Thien Chfla va Uach nhiem cdng dan vdi ddt cho gia dinh, xa hdi va Giao hdi, tiii tiifl hdi, nudc, dan tdc trade Thien Chfla, dang nao la tdi ldi Vd didu Tfl nhung vdn dd neu Utn, qua thuc te cdng Thdng diep "Su sd'ng ngudi" cua Gido tac dan sd-KHHGD Uong ddng bao Cdng gido, hoang Phao Id VI 25-7-1%8, da chi rd: "Doi ngudi ta dugc phep chdp niidn mgt chung ta tiiay rdng, khdng dugc chu quan, vd thiet hgi nhd de trdnh mgt thiet hgi ldn ", doan cho la Giao hdi Cdng gido khdng img hd nghia la Uong nhiing dieu kien khdng the lam KHHGD, ddng bao Cdng gido khdng thuc hien tdt hem dugc tiii ft chiing ta phai chgn phuang sinh de cd ke hoach Xdt ca vd mat quan diem an "cang ft xau cang td't" Tdt nhien van dd quan ciing nhu tren thuc te, Gido hdi vdn chia se trach frgng la phai biet hanh ddng tiieo luong tam nhiem trade vaii dd bung nd dan so, chi cd didu ngudi vd su sang sudt ciia ly tri Didu dang Gido hdi luon than trgng khuyen nbu giao miing la nhtfng didu dugc coi la quan ngai neu huu phai tu minh quyet djnh vd lua chgn nhiing tren da dugc cac chflc sdc Cdng gido gjang giai, bien phap phfl hgp hoan canh cua ban than, gia hudng ddn de ba giao dan bieu, an tam thuc dinh vd xa hdi Xin dugc nhdc lai ldi cua cd linh hien viee sinh san cd trach nhiem, gdp phdn to muc Vuong Dinh Ai, nguyen Chu tjch Uy ban ldn vao viec tiiuc hien thdnh cdng chieh luge Doan ket Cdng giao Viet Nam ndi vd van dd dan so - gia dinh ma Nha nudc ta rdt quan tam dan sd - KHHGD da khang djnh: "Ld vg chdng Da cang xudt hien nhieu dien hinh tien tien piidi nhgn lanh trdch nhiem ndng ne viec la cdc xfl hg dao khdng cd ngudi sinh thfl sinh con, khong co quyen sinh bda bdi md khdng ba, nhidu gia dinh Cdng gjdo dat danh hieu "gia dd kfid ndng nudi cho no dm, gido due dinh van hod", "gia dinh Cdng giao guong nen ngUdi dgo hanh, lgi gdy them gdnh ndng cho mdu", nhu d Ha Nam cd tdi 77 xfl bg dao nhidu xd hgi, hodn cdnh kinh te khd khdn, thi nam Udn khdng cd ngudi sinh thfl ba, Uong chinh dd Id sinh de vo trdch niiiem, sinh de tgi dd bg dao Van Thg 13 nam, hg Tau Gian^ chfn iSi." Qing cdn phai ndi rang, Uong ndn kinh te nam hdn khdng cd ngudi sinh thfl ba Yen Thanh- Nghe An la noi cd ddng gido dan ty le (xem tiep trang 55) 48 SS to - 2009 Tap chi Cong tac Ton giao a- TOT DOI DEP OAO Dodn kit xdy dUng ca sd chinh tri vdng mgnh Can bd va gido hg Chudn Tmng ludn cd trayen thd'ng doan ket Dodn ket tfl Dang de'n cac td chflc doan the va gido dan Dd la traydn thd'ng quy bdu, la nguyen nhan lam nen nhifng tfch phdt trien kinh te-xa hdi nhiing nam qua Chi bd Dang thdn thudng xuyen quan tam, lanh dao cdc doan the tfch cue cham lo xay dung, cung ed td chflc, tham gia thuc hien cdc nhiem vu cbfnh trj cfla dja phucmg dat ket qua cao Qua 10 nam tfch cue thuc bien cudc van ddng'" Todn dan dodn ket xay dung ddi sd'ng van boa d khu dan cu" da gdp phan thflc ddy phong trao thdn Chudn Trang di len, lam cho bd mat ndng thdn cang khdi sdc Vdi trayen thd'ng td't dep cua mdi gia dinh, mdi ddng hg cua gido hg, mdi gido dan ludn doan ke't thuang yeu, giflp dd ldn de xay dung giao hg, que buong cang giau dep, van minh, sd'ng td't ddi dep dao.- HOI NGHI N Gidl PHAT GlAO (tiep theo trang 37) nude chu nha, phan anh kha nang td chflc vdi dac tnmg van hda, kha nang kmh te, chinh sach xa hdi, tdn gido cua nudc chu nha Qua Hoi nghj nay, chflng ta quang bd hinh anh Viet Nam, quang bd cdc thdnh tuu va su phat trien nhidu mat cua Viet Nam vdi ban be qud'c te Day la djp de khang djnh va td rd vai trd cua Giao hdi Phat giao Viet Nam va vai trd cua Ni gidi Viet Nam viec ddng gdp cho sir phdt trien cua xa hdi theo muc tieu "Dao phdp- Dan tdc va Chu nghia xa hdi" De gdp phdn eho Hdi nghi nfl gidi Phat giao the gidi cdng, tfl Trang uong tdi dja phuang, tfl chflc sdc, tdi tfn dd Phat giao va nhan dan nhung ngudi cd tinh cam, quan tam tdi Phat giao va dan tdc ddu cd the ddng SS 10 - 2009 D6NG BAO C5NG Giio (tie'p theo trang 48) till uudng vd xutiiehdi nhap tiii su dan xen giua caitie'nbd vd cdi xdu la khd Uanh khdi va ddi su xud'ng cap dao dflc da lam lung lay ndn tang gia dinh ma chung ta ggi la te bao cua xa bdi Qifnh vi the, viec cimg cd ndn tang vung bdn cua gia dinh vd'n la trayen thdng td't dep cua dan toe Viet Nam hon luc nao het dang dugc su quan tam ciia nhieu ngudi La Hditiianhgiua long dan tdc, Giao hdi Cong giao Viet Nam rat quan tam chia sd vd vdn dd nay, nen da tflng chgn dd tai hdn nhan vd gia dinh nhu la su iru tien cho chuong trinh muc vu ciia nam 2003, nham hudng cac bac cha me va cai tran Ugng tinh Uen ddi Uong mdi Uen he bac giOa cac tiianh vien Uong gia tdc Bflc tiiu Muc vu ciing khdng djnh rang: "Mdt gia dinh Ki-td hifu tiiuc sir tdt dep khdng tiie cbi ddng kin Uong nhung sinh boatriengtu, nhung cdn phai md rdng vdi nhung gia dinh chung quanh, de kfnh Ugng yeu tiiuong, trao ddi hgc hdi va quan tam giup dd, gdp phdn phat trien ndn van minh tinh tiiuong"." gdp bang sir cd vu, bdng vat chat va tinh than, chao ddn Hgi nghi bdng y thflc xay dung nep sd'ng van hda lanh manh, xay dung trach nhiem cua ldi sdng dao dflc sang, de cao gia trj td't dep cua Phat giao Dd'i vdi cac dja phuong cd dai bieu tham gia Hdi nghj, dja phuang tao didu kien cbo dai bieu Ni gidi uu tu cua dja phuong di du Hdi nghj, tao dieu kien de cac co sd Phat giao tren dja ban td chflc cac boat dgng de tim hieu, hudng ung, ung hd, cd suy Hgi nghi Nhtmg dja phuong chuang trinh tham quan du lich cua dai bieu nhu Thanh phd Hd Chi Minh, Vung Tau, Khanh Hda, Thfla Thien Hue, Da Ndng, Ha Ngi, Quang Ninh, tao didu kien cho cac dai bieu dugc tim bieu ve cdc thdnh tuu kmh te xa hdi, phong tuc tap qudn, van hda, d dja phuong de cd them tinh cam tdt ve da't nudc Viet Nam tuoi dep, ngudi Viet Nam than thien." 65 ... du gia dinh cd du phuang tien de nudi va giao due cai khdng) - Tuy tiieo tiidi gian, hoan canh, vat chat, tinh thdn - Tuy tiieo lgi fch cua gia dinh, xa hgi va SS to - 2009 TOT 001 DEP OAO Giao...Tap cbi Cong tac Ton giao chdt, tinh thdn, thdi dai hg cung nhu hoan canh xa hdi va Giao hdi v.v de lira chgn viec se sinh bao nhieu con, tiidi gian gian each tiie ndo, muc dich de... Ton giao Trd lai vdi vdn dd neu tren la neu chi dp dung cac sinh giam tfl 3,6% xudng cdn 1,6% nam 2006, bien phap ndnh thai tu nhien tiii chua tiie la giai dd cd nhidu xfl dao ty le sinh giam