nha triidc k h i cha me chiing ve. C) do tuoi nay, tre muon khang dinh minh-trucing-thanh. Bon tre d tuoi thanh
thieu nien thifdng noi chung lam viec nha txxidc khi cha
me ve nha, v6i ly do sau:
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Bdi vi lam the d l dang hdn va chau c6 the lam viec do
theo each cua chau.
vi chiing chau khong phai lam mot cong viec tot.
Bdi vi me chau khong thiic hien dieu chau muon neu
chau khong lam viec nha.
Bdi vi chau thiic sU yeu thich nhiing viec do va khong thich gian Ian khi lam viec.
De khien cha me ngac nhien khi ve nha. ; ,j j Bc(i vi chau khong thich nha ban. ' '
Hay dam bao tre c6 du thdi gian tap luyen de c6 the lam viec thanh cong. Chiing ta cang lam viec gi do nhieu, chiing ta cang thiic hien chiing de dang. Thdi gian ban lam cong viec gi do dau tien c6 the gap doi nhiing Ian sau. Co nhiing diia tre thich lam viec vat vi chiing da thanh thao viec do. • y la
Lieu toi c6 nen yeu cau tre thUc hien lai mot cong
viec? Co, neu nhxi c6 stt vi pham mot quy dinh dac biet hoac tre da co' tinh cAt hdt mot nvLa cong viec. Nhvfng
hay nh6: neu ban cvl luon goi con lai khi chung dang chdi hoac c&t ngang hoat dong cua chung, t h i den mot ngay ban se phai tii hoi vi sao con khong chiu g^n bo vdi mot ke hoach nao do nhieu hdn vai phut.
Doi v6i mot so' cong viec, tre khong chi ddn thuan
can ky nang ma con phai phat trien kha nang t\i giac
thilc hien cong viec do hang ngay - nhu viec don giUdng chang han. V6i viec nay, tre khong nhiing can hoc hoi
ky nang ma con ckn s\i trd giiip va giam sat cua cha me
de lam sao c6 thoi quen th\ic hien cong viec theo mot trinh til hdp ly - nguyen t i c nay i t k h i dUdc quan tam. Chung ta thildng cho r&ng v i dila tre da c6 ky nang nen
chung CO the lam viec do. Neu chung chifa lam dUdc c6
nghia chung khong c6 thoi quen. Tao ra thoi quen se lau
hdn la giang day mot ky nang. Cha me c6 the giup tao
ra nhiJng thoi quen ben viing hang each giam sat hang ngay, d\ia ra chiidng trinh luyen tap, cac bai tap kien
nhan va phan thildng.
Trong khi ban lam viec cung con, hay tro chuyen vdi con, nhifng dtfng rao giang. Noi ve nhufng ke hoach tvfdng lai, nhiing viec xay ra d trifdng, mot cuon sach hay, dieu gi ciing dvfdc. Day c6 the la thdi gian tuyet vdi de tro chuyen ciing con. Su gan giii nay giup cho tre hinh thanh nhijfng hinh mau, lUa chon nhiing gia t r i tifdng diidng
hoc each lam viec. Hay danh thdi gian noi chuyen v6i con, chil khong phai noi vao mat chung yeu cau cua ban. Neu ban khong noi chuyen v6i con ve nhflng chu de nay, thi hay co'gang ke chuyen cUdi hoac cung nhau hat.
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