. Lieu CO phai tre thieu ky nang? Co the la do thai do cua
3. Tre c6 the lua chon giQa phan thadng va hinh phat 4 Chinh xac dau la laa chon ma cha me muon tre thac hien.
4. Chinh xac dau la laa chon ma cha me muon tre thac hien.
L i e u tre c6 the dam nhan diidc cong viec do khong? Neu tre khong the lam diidc cong viec ma ban
muon, CO ba liia chon: .
1. Khien cong viec de dang hdn hoac ha thap tieu chuan xuo'ng.
2. Thay doi hoan toan cong viec.
3. Hiidng dan lai va tao cd hoi luyen tap cho tre. Thu thuat danh gia each tiep can viec huan luyen phai that khach quan, khong kern theo cam xuc - dac biet la nhiing cam xuc tieu ciic nhii la gian dii hay tile toi.
Neu ban thay tre khong the dam nhan diidc cong viec, dijfng ngan ngai thay doi. Dwight, 6 tuoi, muo'n t\x6i cay canh trong trong nha, me cau quyet dinh de cau thvL. Ba
tarn bang va chi cho cau bao nhieu nu6c can cho moi loai
cay. Nhifng Dwight thich txldi qua nhieu Ian khien cho
cay bi ung. Cau be con qua nho de dam nhan diidc trach nhiem nay. De dan xep, me cho cau be cd hoi trci thanh mot "Ngiidi phun nu6c cho san". DUdc rika san vdi mot cai voi nvfdc moi tuan mot Ian cung rat thu vi nen cau da t u nguyen tra cho me cong viec tudi cay.
De tre thay doi, thinh thoang cha me ciing phai thay doi hanh vi cua minh. Mot ngiidi huan luyen ngiia c6 the day mot con ngifa thanh cong roi giao lai cho chu cua no, ba tuan sau, tat ca nhQng sii huan luyen trUdc do b i n g khong. Ngifdi chu da hieu sai nhiJng dau hieu ma con ngUa gxii tdi anh ta. Bon tre cung cam nhan dudc sU mong ddi cua chung ta va biet heu y chung ta c6 nhif nhiing gi chung ta noi hay khong. Neu chung ta nghi ve nhiJng yeu cau cua minh, khien cho cac yeu cau do hdp ly va cong bling, roi c6 hinh phat thich hdp, bon tre se nghiem tuc thuc hien theo.
L i e u ban c6 d a n h thofi gian de k i e m tra? Kiem tra sau khi tre thong bao la da hoan thanh cong viec
khong CO nghia la ban khong tin tre; ma day la thdi diem
ban danh gia ket qua cong viec tre da lam va nhutng no liic ma tre da bo ra trong suot qua trinh lam viec.
• Danh thdi gian kiem tra cho ban cd hoi de dua ra nhijtng Idi khen tang va nhQng nhan xet tich cUc. • Danh thdi gian kiem tra giup ban c6 cd hgi tao thoi
quen lam viec can than cho tre. ,,, . ,,,,,,,
• Danh thdi gian kiem tra c6 the pha v3 difdc vong tron cua tro t r i hoan cong viec (cua tre).
Dieu nay khong c6 nghia ban phai kiem tra tiing cong
viec ma tre lam. Mot cong viec difdc hoan thanh dung each sau nhieu Ian, mot cau hoi ddn gian ve viec hoan thanh viec ay nhii the nao c6 the xay diing sui chinh triic. Tre noi: "Con da lam viec do!" va ban chap nhan cau tra Idi. Khi kiem tra cong viec cua tre, nhi3ng gdi y sau se giup ban:
1. Tranh pha vd bau khong khi. Ban c6 the Id di hang dohg quan ao tren giUdng cua John neu ban cau be
dang ddi cf cvLa va cau da danh ca niuta gid de thu don
va lam phing ga trai giufdng.