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The Player’s Guide 2 GET MORE FREE BOOKS AT WWW.SNIPFILES.COM FREE BOOKS FOR EVERYONE! This book was compiled with Private Label Rights content which we own rights to. This book and it’s content may not be edited, reused or resold . You have no rights, but personal rights that allow you to read and store a copy of this book on your personal computer. You may redistribute the book freely as long as it remains unmodified. The Player’s Guide 3 Legal Notice: While all attempts have been made to verify information provided in this publication,neither the Author nor the Publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, omissions, or contrary interpretation of the subject matter herein. This publication is not intended for use as a source of legal or accounting advice. The Publisher wants to stress that the information contained herein may be subject to varying state and/or local laws or regulations. All users are advised to retain competent counsel to determine what state and/or local laws or regulations may apply to the user's particular business. The Purchaser or Reader of this publication assumes responsibility for the use of these materials and information. Adherence to all applicable laws and regulations, federal, state, and local, governing professional licensing, business practices, advertising, and all other aspects of doing business in the United States or any other jurisdiction is the sole responsibility of the Purchaser or Reader. The Author and Publisher assume no responsibility or liability whatsoever on the behalf of any Purchaser or Reader of these materials. The Player’s Guide 4 Any perceived slights of specific people or organizations are unintentional. Message from the Author… “It’s amazing how jerks can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. To meet girls they lavish their undying love. They act nice, friendly, and they listen; until they get into what they’re after. Meanwhile, the girl tries to change the jerk into a nice guy, but the jerk will always be a jerk.” -Anonymous As the author of this book, I believe nice guys can finish first. But, they just have to change their approach with women… On the matter of nice guys VS jerks I wish I could say that the statement was ridiculous and of course the nice guys in the end will get the girl, but it's simply not true. Women want someone who excites them, makes them feel special and gives them a thrill on a regular basis. They want somebody who sends them on an emotional rollercoaster. This book is for all those guys who are sick of ending up as a girl’s “emotional tissue” that they The Player’s Guide 5 eventually just throw away. It’s for the guy who are just tired of hearing the continuous excuses women come up with, so they don’t have to talk to you or take your relationship much further… This book will cover every aspect of how a true player is successful with women. We’ll dig deep into these issues, with advice and information you can use the next to you see that hot babe sitting across or walking right by you! The Player’s Guide 6 The #1 Secret to Attracting Women The art of attracting women consists of 10% projection of success, 10% appearance, 10% intelligence, and 70% charm. In a study conducted by the University of Waterloo, 85% of the correspondents expressed that charm was the principle reason for their attraction to the opposite individual. Some people are born with the gift of being naturally charming. But most people lack the skill or just never learned the proper techniques through social communication. This does not mean a person cannot learn how to be charming. All one needs, is to understand what people find charming and practice it over and over again, until it becomes naturally part of their personality. The Player’s Guide 7 Do Ladies Find YOU Attractive? When asked, most women say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends. They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk to about their problems. Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn’t get any farther than being just friends. All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they can never seem to find a nice guy to date. The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women aren’t lying when they say they want these things when they think logical they do, because it makes sense. But remember, women don’t choose logically what they are attracted to. The Player’s Guide 8 So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down. But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control and act like a man should. So what qualities do women want in men? What they've always wanted and always will want. Women want real men, men that are in control and don’t ask for permission to do anything. They don’t want to be in charge, they want someone to be in charge of them. I know this sounds harsh, but it's true. Here are some examples, have ever noticed that When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how beautiful she is she shies away from you? This probably happens every time you try and start a conversation. But when you Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved in the conversation and take you more seriously. The Player’s Guide 9 Also, have you noticed When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her to an expensive dinner, she usually thanks you the evening and goes out with another guy? But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you are equals she feels attracted to you, because you're not catering to her every need. Have you noticed when You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny. But, when you don't call her and you act like you're busy and could live with her or without her, she won't stop calling you. The truth is women don’t want to be catered to, spoiled or treated like princesses. This is what women want from a man First of all, women want you to be confident in your self. So, if you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off. The Player’s Guide 10 Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around. They don’t want to talk about what you are going to do, they just want you to lead the way and do it. They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional. So if you are the kind of guy that has a hard time keeping his emotions to himself, you are going to have to work on it. They want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring and dull. Just because you are into collecting stamps or collecting model planes, it does not mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your hobby. Women want you to make them laugh. So again, you have to be entertaining and fun. They don’t want to know everything about you all at once, they want to wonder. So, no matter how tempting it may be you don’t have to tell them you whole life story. Women want to keep guessing. They want you to have more to talk about then “the game last night”, they want you to be interesting. [...].. .The Player’s Guide They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to have a life goal or something you are trying to achieve In other words, they want you to know what you want from life 11 The Player’s Guide Practicing Your Inner Charm Charm is simply the art of letting someone know that you feel good about them, without embarrassing them or asking anything of them in return And... she doesn't want either) 21 The Player’s Guide 2 Ask her direct questions about her personal interests Don't make the mistake of spending too much time talking about "surface level" stuff, like the weather, or the other people in the place, or the band that's playing That kind of conversation is only interesting for the first couple minutes, because she's waiting for you to take it to the next level Don't... are the man for her So act fast, do what you need to do, and never hear these dreaded words ever again! 25 The Player’s Guide The Power of Patience Most guys fail because they come on entirely too strong, too fast After a couple of dates, they wanted to marry the person Though they might have been smooth, they could not hold back their desire for a girlfriend Women can sense this and recoiled from them... first few months and you should be dating other women 29 The Player’s Guide Dating Different Women Most men think that dating multiple women at the same time is a wrong thing to do and it's cheating They couldn't be farther from the truth Men think this because women have told them that guys who date other girls at the same time are scum, yet they continue to date them I'm not talking about sleeping with... and they are just average looking men Nothing special about them except they know 34 The Player’s Guide what women want, they behave and hold themselves in ways women find attractive 35 The Player’s Guide Which Dating Site to Choose From There are THOUSANDS of online dating sites out there, so what one's best for you?For starters, the best idea is to cast a wide net and put your profile on at least 3... to do is log on to the internet and send a greeting to the girl you want to talk to 32 The Player’s Guide On top of all that, it is extremely simple to use and more importantly a lot of fun! But the most important reasons that internet dating is king of all the different ways to meet women are A) Women are a lot more open to your “moves” on the internet then they are in person There is nothing intimidating,... without screwing it up And whether you Like it or not, rejection is part of the dating process a big part Even the best looking men on the planet get a “no” more often then they hear a “yes” Why? Because most women look for more than just looks and money, they want comfort, fun, mystery and a whole bunch of other things most men simply don’t think about 33 The Player’s Guide So don’t worry, even Brad... 26 The Player’s Guide Older women (in their 40s, 50s) have told me that one of the most common mistakes guys can make is trying to jump into a strong relationship after only a couple of dates They said that women simply want to have fun and that if the guy smothers her with affection, she will distance herself After all, who wants to be with someone that appears eager and desperate? 27 The Player’s Guide. .. number! 15 The Player’s Guide Don’t Just Sit There…Call Her Up! The first phone call should be at least two days after the encounter The conversation should revolve around how much fun you had with her, and how impressed you were with her personality In other words, compliment her like crazy Make sure that the first phone call does not last more than twenty minutes It is crucial that you end the first... her wondering whether she is the only girl you are seeing! 16 The Player’s Guide The First Encounter, The First Date One of the most common pieces of advice women and even men give to people looking to become better in the dating scene is "JUST BE YOURSELF" Some people see this advice as wrong because "just be yourself" requires no work, and without work one cannot get anything in life These people that . The Player’s Guide 10 Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around. They don’t want to talk about what you are going to do, they. talk about then the game last night”, they want you to be interesting. The Player’s Guide 11 They want you to be headed somewhere, they want