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sl eho di cfing vien, tfl ^ dip me se cho di sif u ttij Khfii^ nfn khuyin khich tie bai^tienvi lim cho Ure hilu khfing day d i ve xl hpi, thi \ ^ khdng ddn gian chl 11 vin hda, van hpc haytri thfic Nfii ham cfia Van rat rfing, bao gfim ea each Ilm ngflifi Vk gil tri cia lao dfing tflc Ii ngfldi, nil chfl Ii nit ngfldi, gifip cho ngfldi hpc md rfng III.K^TLUAN nhfing hieu biet vl mfii trfldng tfl nhiln vi xa hpi Vw khoi^ TH m ^ bit diu bufic vdo ttil gidfi cufic sfing nin rdt thich khdm phi, tim ^ i , difije ty nunh lira dio mmh \^ nlu cha me va i^fldi nhfing la mfit nghi, mfit hf tfl tfldng cfia rafii ngfldi, mfii thdi d^ than hifin bao bpc, lim thay cho tre se Iam cho tre mat dan tinh tii % ml hdn t h i nfla Van edn la hlnh thflc d l trj qudc, gdp phin dao Gilo dye gia dhtti efi m frfi quan trpng vifc xay dflng tuih tij tgo ngudn nhan Iflc cho phit trien dat nfldc "Tiln hpc li, h|u lgp cho trS tiong nhflng nam diu ddi Cd the ndi, bat cfi sfi cham sdc hpc van" la sfl phoi hpp gifla gilo dye dgo dfle vdi truyin thg tii ndo tfl phia ngfldi Idn cui^ tgo chotirlnhflng cd hfii rin luyfn, hmh thflc, Ii nguyen tic dio tgo flu vift cfia fing dia ta die kit nfn Diem dau tiln cin chfi frpng 11 phii gilo dye phim chit (ldm thinh tinh tfl % trot^ qua tiinh trudng ttiinh cfia tirl,, ngfldi) sau radi giio dye tri thfic (hpc chfi); dgy cli bilt ASi TAI U l u THAM KHAO nhin xfi the, giao tilp dfing mflc roi radi tilp nh|n tri tiific [1 ] Vu Diln, £Q - RIH (mft W/4p, 2008 Nxb My tiiugt Ngiy d ede gia dinh, cha rae van dgy dch efl xfl diing [2], Nguyin Van Dfing, Tdm If hoc phdt tiien, 2010, Nxb Dgi hpc • Le, 11 long hilu thio, bilt dn tfi tien, cha me, bilt nhfiiing Qufic gia [3] Do Hdng Thanh - Nguyin Thanh Thfiy (Biln sogn), Cdc bd ; nhjn anh, chj, em gia dinh v l sdng doan kit, hda ddng I vdi ban be, vdi mpi ngfldi frong thdn, xom, khu din cti, biet Mft xiHhay'TuW"md(cfciit 2011, Nxb Din tii : quy trpng thiy cd vi xem trpng tinh thay - trfi Hpc Vin ngi)' T6MTAT N^iin cdu ciia ede chuyin ^a tdm If eho My, Idiodng thdi gjan :totnay khdng nhflng hpc biet dpc, bilt vilt rai cdn hpc nhilu ki& : thflc da dgng, phong phi, hpc lim ngfldi, hpc phyng sy W qu6c, nhdt di rin diotiitinhti^idp Id tre duac khodng 3tiidi.Nhdn thdc cuatiiddd hi6i n^ bdt ddu hinh thdnh vd phdt triin, tre ddn ddn : nbln dan Hpe kiln thflc van hoi, chfing ta cd till hpc mildi CO xu hudng die hientinhtiildp thUdng tU didi sUffup tte cua MgM i Snam, i hai mfldi nim, nhflng hpe lam ngfldi phii sufit ci cuficdcfi Idn, muontiiminh idm mdt so viic Do dd, cha me nin tgn dung tiiit : Tfly nhien, thflc t l cho thay, x l hfii cing hifn dgi, vifc hpc nhieu diMwdng Mi g)an quf hdu ndy di rin luyen eho tritinhtiildp Diiu; khfing cfi nghia l i cfi dgo dflc, nlu bdn thin cl nhdn dfi khfing ndy ddc Hit cb f n^la vditiiti-ongqudti-inhhinh thdnh, phdi trien vd : ty tu dfldng v i rf n luyfn ban than; ngflpc Igi, tri thfic rit d n cho hodn thiin nhdn cdch cda tre : xay dyng, phdi trien dat nfldc giau mgnh vl hfii nh$p qufic f^ SUMMARY : nhUng fliilu dgo dfic tiii xa hfii khfing tfin tgi v i phdt triln A\ti}c The psychologists' researches shown tiiat tiie best period to ti^n Bat ky mfii trfldng nio, dao li Um ngfldi lufin ed vai tro chfi childrenj independence when they are about years old At this age, : chdt vi cd radi quan hf ch|t chl vdi gido dye tri thfic Mfit ngilfti M awareness ofchildren be^ns toformandgrow They gradually tend i gia dinh khfing nghe ldi cha m?, bit hilu thi khfing th^ to ogress their independence or often refiisetiieirparents' helps and : niofrdthinh mfit hpe sinh tfit v i chic chin sau ndy cfing khfing My only wanttodo some works ofMmse^ Therefore, parents should the Ii mfit cfing din cd Ieh frong x l hfii Vi vdy vifc dl eao quan make this useful predous time toti-ainthdr children's independence : nifragiao dye trin 11 elch thilt tiiyc de hgn chl cdch gido dye This is particularly meaningfiil for children in Mir formation md : Ifch lgc vd quan tim khfing dly dfi vifc giao dye dgo dflc, nhan development process andforM improvement of their personality, I cdch ddi vdi thi hf trf d cic b|c hpe nhi trfldng phfi ttifnf ... eon vi dl d t dep chora?,d m dn vi dl xleh cho m?,., Ngoii chuan mflc dgo dfic dflpc x l hfii quy djnh la, edfliedfii^ viln fri bli^ cdc phinflifldng1 ^ chat nhfl eon tfl an Trong Le l l ylu to... thfle de tri tigt lij cdm m? sl eho di cfing vien, tfl ^ dip me se cho di sif u ttij Khfii^ nfn khuyin khich tie bai^tienvi lim cho Ure hilu khfing day d i ve xl hpi, thi \ ^ khdng ddn gian chl... mfit nghi, mfit hf tfl tfldng cfia rafii ngfldi, mfii thdi d^ than hifin bao bpc, lim thay cho tre se Iam cho tre mat dan tinh tii % ml hdn t h i nfla Van edn la hlnh thflc d l trj qudc, gdp phin