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GIA DINH CUA THANH NIEN VIET NAM HIEN NAY TS Nguy§n Thj Hoa Gidm ddc Trung tdm (fng dung tdm ly hgc, Vien Tdm ly hpc i T6M TAT Thang gid tri gia dinh ciia nien Id he thd'ng cdc gid tri ve gia dinh dirge hg sdp xep theo thir bdc quan trgng khdc Theo ket qud nghien ciru thang gid tri gia dinh cua nien gdm nhung gid tri hdng ddu Id: tdn trpng ldn nhau, chung thuy, su:c khde, tinh yeu ddi Ida, chia se cdng viec gia dinh vd nhiing gid tri it quan trgng han la hinh thirc ben ngodi, binh dang ve vi tri xd hdi, binh ddng ve khd ndng kinh te'cua hai vg chdng Thang gid tri gia dinh ciia cdc nhdm nien theo cdc lieu chi nghien ciai khdc cd su khdc biet ve vi tri ciia cdc gid tri MddSu Thang gia trj gia dinh la mpt he thd'ng cac gia trj vd ddi sdng gia dinh, dupe sip xdp theo t h i bac quan trpng khac Nd phan anh quan nidm, nidm tin, suy nghi cua ngudi linh vuc gia dinh T i xua de'n nay, gia dinh ludn la gia trj quan trpng hang diu cua ngudi Viet Nam Ngay nay, giai doan da't nude ta md cia, hdi nhip qud'c td va thue hien su nghiep cpng nghiep hda, hien dai hda di't nude, mac diu he thd'ng gii trj cua ngudi Viet Nam ndi chung, die biet cua niSn, cd nhidu thay ddi nhung nhidu kdt qua nghien ciu gin diy cho thiy, gia dinh vin la gia trj hang diu eua nien Viet Nam (Nguydn Thj Hoa, 2012, Pham Hdng Tung, 2011) Trong bai viet nay, ching tdi dd cip de'n mdt s6 dac didm thang gia trj gia dinh cua nidn Viet Nam hien Phirong phap va khach the nghien ciiru Thang gia tri gia dmh ciia nien dugc nghidn ciu bing su ke't hop nhidu phuong phap khac nhu: nghidn ciu tii lieu, didu tra bing bang hdi, 34 TAP CHfTAM Vi HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 quan sit Phuong phap didu tra bing bang hdi dugc lidn hanh tren 724 nien dang sinh sdng tai dja phuong: Ha Npi, Thai Nguyen, phd Hd Chi Minh va Tien Giang Dae didm nhin khau xa hdi cu thd cua khach Ihd dugc trinh bay d bang dudi diy: Bdng 1: Ddc diem nhdn khdu xd hpi cua khdch the nghien ciiu Dac diem nhan khiu xa hdi Gidi tinh Nam Nu Noi d hidn • 59,5 12 1.7 HI 15,3 32,7 Ha Ndi 237 TP HP Chi Minh 136 18,8 Tidn Giang 204 28,2 36 5,0 Ndng thdn 476 65,8 Thanh thi 233 32,1 15 2.1 Mien Bac 380 52,5 Mien Nam 329 45.4 15 2,1 Di lam 245 53,6 Hoc sinh, sinh vidn, chua di lam 475 46,4 Thie'u thdng tin 0,6 18 tudi 260 35,9 Thie'u thong tin Tudi 38,8 431 Thai Nguydn Thie'u thdng lin Tinh trang cpng viec Tv le % 281 Thieu thdng tin Thie'u thdng lin Noi d trudc day So' luong 19-22 232 32,0 23 tudi tro len 220 30,4 Thie'u thdng lin 12 1,7 Tdng 724 100 TAP CHI TAM LY HOC, Sd (156), 3-2012 35 Dd nghien ciu thang gia tri gia dinh cua nien, ching tdi dua 11 gia tri lidn quan ddn cudc sd'ng gia dinh (ilieu kien vdt chd't, tinh yeu ddi Ilia, hinh Ihicc ben ngodi, sir thuy cluing, ldn irpng ldn nhau, sutc khde cdn bdng ve Vl tri xd hdi ciia hai vachSng, binh dang ve khd ndng kinh tecda hai vet chdng, chia se cdng viec gia dinh, hdi k'mg vc cdi, hdi Idng ve md'i quan he hai bin gia dinh) vi ydu ciu khach thd dinh gia mic dd quan trpng cua ting gia trj (trong dd didm - ri't quan irpng, didm - quan trpng vi didm - ft quan trpng) Ket qua nghien ciu I Die diem thang gia trj gia dinh ciia nien tren toan miu nghien ciu Trong 11 gia trj gia dinh CO ban dugc dua xem xdt, nhdm nien Uong miu nghien ciu danh gia cao nhit gii tri tdn trpng ldn nhau, tidp ddn li chung thuy (dugc xdp thi 2), siic khde (dugc xdp t h i 3), linh yeu doi Ida (dugc xdp thi 4), chia se cdng viec gia dinh (dugc xep thi 5), dieu kien vdt chdt (dugc xdp thi 6), hdi Idng ve moi quan he hai ben gia dinh (dugc xdp thi 7), hdi Idng v&i cdi (dugc xep thi 8), binh ddng ve khd ndng kinh le'cda hai va chong (dugc xep thi 9), binh dang ve vi tri xd hpi cua hai va chdng (dugc xep thi 10) va cudi cung la gii trj hinh thirc ben ngodi (xem thdm bang 2) Bdng 2: Diem trung binh vd thd bdc cdc gid tri gia dinh theo quan niem ciia nien 36 STT Cac gia tri gia dinh 10 11 Dieu kidn vat chit Tinh yeu ddi lua Hinh thic bdn ngoai Chung thuy Tdn trpng lin Sic khde Binh ding vi tri xa hdi cua hai vo chdng Binh dang kha nang kinh Id' cua hai vo chdng Chia se cdng vide gia dinh Hai long vd cai Hai long vd mdi quan hd hai bdn gia dinh Diem trung binh 1,77 1,89 1,06 2,46 2,51 1,98 1,32 1,33 1,79 1,37 1,52 Xep t h i hang 11 10 TAP CHfTAM LV HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 Nhu viy, thang gia trj gia dinh cua nien hien cd mpl sd gia trj truyen thd'ng bPn canh nhidu gia trj hipn diii Chung thuy quan he vp - chdng t i xua de'n vin ludn ludn dugc ngudi Viet Nam rit dd cao Nhd phim chit dd cua nhing ngudi phu n i ma eic thdi ky khang chien, nhung ngudi dan dng ydn tim mat trin chien diu, bao ve Td qude, bao vp hanh phic cho nhin din, dd cd hiinh phuc cua gia dinh minh Cho de'n nay, gia Iri niy vin dupe Ihanh nien rii coi trpng Tuy nhien, lien he vdi nhing didu quan sat dugc ddi sdng hdn nhin cua nhing ngudi tre tudi hipn nay, ching tdi nhin thiy, cd su thieu nhit quan giia thuc td va kfl qua nghien ciu Tren thuc id, hien lugng ly hPn cua cac cap vp chdng Ire chidm ty le cao, nam sau cao hon nam trudc Nam 2000 gin 52.000 vu, nam 2001 cd 54.000 vu, den nam 2005 lang ten 65.929 vu (Le Thao, 2009) Nguyen nhan ly hPn rit da dang, dd cd nhing nguyen nhin ma theo cac luiil su linh vuc xel x i ly hPn vi mpt sd nha tham van hdn nhin va gia dinh rit nhd nhat (tu ea nhin, ly nanh vd cPng viec gia dinh ) (Dai Nghia, Vin Thao, 2011) Trong dd, gia trj tdn trpng ldn nhau, sire khde, tinh yeu ddi lira vd chia se cong viec gia dinh la nhing gii trj tuong ddi hien dai hPn nhin d Viet Nam Trudc diy, thdi ky phong kie'n, khPng it ddi nam n i tinh cd gap go nhau, cam nhin dugc sir luong hgp, yeu va mudn di den hdn nhin, nhung ne'u hai ben gia dinh khdng "mdn dang, hp ddi", khdng mudn trd thdng gia eua nhau, Ihi hp cung khd thuc hien dupe nguyen udc cua minh Trong dd, nhidu cap vg, chdng, sdng vdi ca ddi, khong phai xuit phit t i tinh yeu lia dpi, ma su sip xep cia "ngudi ldn" theo kieu "cha me dat dau, ngdi dd" Va da la vg - chdng, ngudi phu nu phai loan tam, toin y, tin vdi chdng, phung su gia dinh chdng, ginh vac mpi cdng viec cua gia dinh chdng Ngudi dan dng ehi lam nhiing viec dai su Hiu hdt nhung ngudi phu nu thudng khdng dam nghi de'n, khflng hy vpng vd su giip do, chia se cdng viec gia dinh cua ngudi chdng Dd li mdt bidu hien cua sir thieu tdn trpng phu ni, thie'u tpn trpng nhing ngudi lam vg Ngoai ra, sir coi thudng phu n i cdn dugc thd hien d nhidu hanh vi ing x i khac cupc sd'ng gia dinh Trong thdi dai hien nay, nhing bidu hien tren day da duoc thay ddi rit nhidu Trong xu thd binli ding nam - ni, nien nam, n i ddu cd CO hdi hpe tip, xiy dung sir nghiep, tham gia cac cdng viec xa hdi Hp cd dieu kien thuin Igi de giao luu, gap gd, lam quen, tim hidu Hp dd dang tim thiy "mdt nia" cua minh Dd la ydu td quan trpng dd hp quye't djnh di ddn hdn nhan, vg, chdng Nhung y kien ddng gdp cua "ngudi ldn" chi la y kidn tham khao TAP CHf TAM LY HOC, So (156), 3-2012 37 Trong phin Idn eae gia dinh, ca hai vg chdng ddu cd su nghiep cua minh Hp coi Irpng sU nghiep (Nguydn Thj Hoa, 2012) Vi viy, hp phai danh mdt quy ihdi gian cin thie't luong duong nhu cho su nghiep Mat khac, cPng viec gia dinh hien cung cd nhing didm dac thi cua thdi dai Ching ban, cac gia dinh d Ihanh thj, vide kdm clip hpc tap, dua ddn di hpc mit kha nhidu thdi gian Do dd, sir chia sd edng vide gia dinh giia hai vg chdng li rit can thiet Thyc le cho thi'y, d nhing gia dinh khdng cd sir chia se cdng viec gia dinh cua ngudi chdng, khdng nhing ngudi vg kha vii va m i chit lugng cupc sd'ng gia dinh cung bj anh hudng Nhu ciu duac Idn trpng li nhu ciu bic cao, li mdt nhing nhu ciu CO biin cua ngudi Tuy nhidn, thdi ky phong kid'n, anh hudng cua chd dp chinh trj, trinh dd phit tridn xa hdi, nhu ciu ton trpng cua phu n i Viel Nam dudng nhu bj chdn vii Ngudi phu n i vdi tU each li ngudi vg chip nhin mdt cupc sdng gin nhu phu thudc hoan loan vio ngudi chdng, sd'ng gia dinh chdng nhu ngudi hiu, nhu cai "bdng" cua dan dng Nhung ngiy nay, xu the md cia, hdi nhip qud'c Id', didu kien dit nude ta thuc hidn cdng nghiep hda, hien dai hda dii nude, ydu td ngudi dugc xem la yeu td quan trpng, dupe quan tim hang diu Dang va Nha nude ta die bidt quan tim de'n van dd diu tranh vi su lien bd cua phu nu Nhiing ngudi phu nu Viet Nam cam nhin dugc gia trj cua minh, nhu ciu tdn trgng cua hg dugc phal tridn Iheo dung quy luil phat tridn cua liim ly Hon the, quan he vg - chdng - quan he cua nhing ngudi binh ding, gin bd tren co sd linh yeu thucmg nhu ciu dd cang manh me Gia trj sire khoe cung la mdi gii tri gia dinh dugc nidn danh gia cao (day cung la mdt nhung gia trj sd'ng co ban dugc men dinh gia cao - xe'p thi ba) (Nguydn Thi Hoa, 2012) Didu dd mdt mat phan anh sy quan tam cua xa hdi hien vd vin dd sic khde, mat khac, nd cung ndi len tinh thyc te cia nien Cd le, hoan canh hien (d nhidm moi trudng, ve sinh an toan thyc phim khdng dugc dam bao, xuit hien nhidu benh til hidm ngheo), nien da thim thia vd gia trj cua sic khde gidng nhu ciu din gian Nga: Khi cd sic khde, ban nghi de'n hang tram t h i khac, khdng cd sic khde, biin chi mudn cd sic khde Gii trj hinh thdc ben ngpdi dugc xd'p vj tri cud'i cing thang gia trj gia dinh li didu ngac nhidn vdi cac nha nghien ciu Trai vdi ket qua d day, thPng thudng, nien rit dd y de'n hinh thic ben ngoai (ndt mat, diu tdc, vdc dang, trang p h u c ) cua ban thin va nhung ngudi khac Phai chang, kdt qua b day chi phan anh vd nhing gi hp quan sit dugc cudc sd'ng hdn nhin cua eha me va nhing ngudi xung quanh, chi khdng phan anh quan niem, each ing x i eua hp vd didu niy? 38 TAP CHfTAM LY HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 Vj trf cua gia trj binh ddng vi tri xd hdi vi binh ddng khd ndng kinh te cia hai va chong cung cho thi'y ring, nhing ydu td khPng dupe nidn danh gii eao ddi vdi cudc sd'ng hPn nhan so vdi cac gii trj khic Nhin chung, thang gii trj gia dinh eua nien cd mdt sd didm ndi bit sau: - Thang gia Irj gia dinh cua hp vin cd mdt sd gia tri truydn thd'ng ben eanh nhidu gii trj hien dai - Thang gii trj gia dinh ehu ydu phan anh quan niem, suy nghi cua hp vd gii trj gia dinh hon phan anh hanh vi cua hg cudc sd'ng thyc td Su khac biet cua thang gia tri gia dinh giia cac nhdm nien theo cac tieu chi nghien ciu 2.1 Su khdc biet cua thang gid tri gidra nhdm nam vd nhdm nit Thang gia trj cua nhdm nam nidn va nu nien it cd sy khac biet cd y nghia Ridng gia trj tdn trpng ldn duoc nhdm n i nien danh gii eao hon nhdm nam nien mpl each dang ke (p = 0,01) 80n 63,- 6U A 4U 15,.5 22,2 ^^^„ 'd- nRSl quan HNara DNii fn Quail It quan Bieu dd: Sti ddnh gid cua nam vd nit nien ve gid tri tdn trpng ldn Tren day, ching tdi da dd cip den nhing bidu Men cua tu tudng ttpng nam, khinh n i d xa hdi ta thdi phong kidn Cho de'n nay, tan du va he qua cua nd cdn dang kd xa hOi Viet Nam Cung vdi didu dd, mpt sd dac didm tam ly va dac didm gidi tfnh khien cho nam gidi cd nhidu Ipi the, ed didu kien dd khing dinh ban than hon n i gidi Tie la, n i gidi chju thiet thdi hon It co hai dd khing dinh ban than xa hpi cung nhu gia dinh nhd be cia minh TAP CHfTAM Vi HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 39 Cd le, dd la ly khidn hg mong mud'n dugc ldn trpng hgn nam gidi, hp danh gia eao gia trj ldn trpng hon nam gidi Didu dd dung vdi tam \^: thie'u cii gi thi quy ciii dd, khao khai vd cai dd Nhu viy, nay, quan nidm va suy nghi vd gia dinh cua nam, nu nidn dii cing di gin de'n didm chung That tuyet vdi ndu sy tuong hgp dd cung dugc llic hicii hinh vi, ing x i cua hg 2.2 Sit khdc biet ciia thang gid tri gia dinh giUa nien dd di ldm vd chua di ldm Bdng 3: Thang gid tri gia dinh ciia cdc nhom nien chua di Idm (hpc sinh, sinh vien) vd nhom nien da di Idm srT T h i bac thang gia tri Nhom da 'Nhom chua di lam di lam Cac gia tri gia dinh Dieu kidn vai chili Tinh yeu ddi lia Hinh Ihic bdn ngoai 11 11 Su thuy chung Su ton lin Sic khoe 3 Binh ding vd vi tri xa hdi ciia hai vo chong 10 Binh ding vd kha nang kinh id cua hai vg chdng 10 Chia se cong vide gia dinh 10 Hai long vd cai 8 11 Hai Idng vd hai bdn gia dinh 7 Thang gia trj cua nhdm nidn chua di lam (hgc sinh, sinh vien) va nhdm nidn da di lam cd sy khac biet vd t h i bac cua nhidu gia trj: Dieu kien vdt chd't, tinh yeu ddi lira, sir ihiiy chung, sir tdn Irpng ldn nhau, binh dang ve vi tri xd hpi, binh ddng ve khd ndng kinh le cua hai va chong, chia se cong viec gia dinh Tuy nhien, ne'u xet theo cac nhdm (nhdm ba gia trj hang diu, nhdm ba gii trj eudi cung va nhdm cac gia trj cdn lai, giia) thi hiu nhu vj tri cua cac gii trj khdng cd sy thay ddi Nhdm cic gia trj diu bang vin gdm cac 40 TAP CHi TAM Vi HOC, Sd (156), 3-2012 gia trj: Tdn trpng Idn nhau, chung thuy vd sire khoe va nhdm cac gia trj eudi bang la; hinh thdc ben ngodi, sir binh dang ve vi tri xd hpi vd ve khd ndng kinh tecda hai vp chong O nhdm giia, gii trj linh yeu ddi lia dugc hgc sinh, sinh vien dinh gia cao hon (vj tri thi so vdi vj tri thi 6) va danh gia thip gia trj cua didu kien vat chit va chia se cong viec gia dinh so vdi nhung ngudi da di lam (bang 3) Cd thd ndi ring, du nhdm hgc sinh, sinh vien - nhing ngudi dang ngdi tren ghd nha trudng, hang gin bd vdi "den, sach" - vin lang man hon nhung ngudi da budc vao ddi sd'ng sy nghiep, va cbiim nhieu hon vdi cudc sdng 2.3 Sif khdc biet cda thang gid tri gia dinh giiia cdc nhdm nien a cdc dia phucmg khdc 2.3.1 Su khdc biet ciia thang gid tri gia dinh giii'a cdc nhom nien theo dia bdn dang sinh song hien Thang gii trj gia dinh cia cac nhdm nidn theo dia ban dang sinh sd'ng xdt theo tinh/thanh phd, theo viing: Ihanh thi/ndng thdn va theo mien: midn Bic/midn Nam, ddu cd su khae biet vd thi bic cua nhieu gia tri (bang 4) Trong dd, nidn d cic dja phuong (cung midn Nam hoac cung midn Bic) cd thang gia trj theo xu hudng tuong ty nhau, thang gia trj cua nidn hai midn cd sy khic biet dang ke Trong dd, thang gia trj gia dinh cia nidn theo vung Ihi/nPng IhPn ft cd su khac Nhdm gia trj quan trpng nhit cua nidn d midn Bic gdm cac gia trj nhu: Tdn trpng ldn nhau, thiiy chung vd tinh yeu ddi lira; Nhdm gia trj ft quan trpng nhat li: Hinh thirc ben ngodi, sir binh ddng ve vi tri xd hpi vd binh ddng khd ndng kinh te'cua hai vp chdng Trong dd, nhdm diu lien cua nien midn Nam la: Ton trpng ldn nhau, thdy chung vd siic khoe va nhdm cudi cung cua hp la: Hinh thdc ben ngodi, binh dang ve vi tri xd hdi, binh dang ve khd ndng kinh tevd su hdi long ve cdi (ba gia trj cung thi bic) Trong cac gii trj d giia, nidn b midn Bic xdp gia trj dieu kien vdt chdt b vj tri thi sau, nhdm nien midn Nam xdp gia trj niy d vj tri thi tu Hai gii trj: Hdi long vdi gia dinh vd chia se cdng viec gia dinh dugc nidn d hai midn dinh gii nhu (bang 4) Thang gia trj cua cie nhdm Ihanh nidn d hai midn phan anh quan nidm sd'ng cung nhu hanli vi ing x i cudc sdng cua hp mdt cich nhit quan vdi nhung didu quan sat dugc thyc te va phu hpp vdi du luan xa hdi: Ngudi mien Nam ndi chung va nidn midn Nam ndi ridng cd tinh thuc le cao hon nhidu so vdi nhiing ngudi mien Bic TAP CHfTAM LY HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 41 Bdng 4: Thang gid tri gia dinh cua cdc nhdm nien hien dang sinh sd'ng d cdc dia phi(ang khdc Thlii bUc Ihang giii tri l a c gia tri CO ban Theo viing Tlicu linh/lhaiili plio Theo mi^n Nong lh6n Mien JVIien Nam 6 4 11 11 11 11 V 1 2 2 2 1 4 10 10 10 10 10 10 10 9 9 Chia se c6ng viSc gia dinh 5 5 5 Hai 16ng cai 9 8 8 Hai long hai ben gia dinh 7 7 7 7 Noi TP 116 Chi Minh icn Giang Thai Nguyin ThUnh Ihl OR-II kK-n vai cliai 4 Finli veil (lOl lllli t) Hinh lln'fc l3^n ngoiii 11 11 11 Tliiiy Chung T6n ironp lan Siic ithoe Binh dang vi tri xa h6i hai va ch6ng Binh dang kinh le' hai vo chOng 2.3.2 Su khdc biet ciia Ihang gid tri gii'ra cdc nhom nien iheo vdng, mien hp dd sinh sd'ng tru&c ddy Ket qua cua cac nghien ciu lim ly hpc, giao due hgc cho thiy, hoan canh sd'ng, mdi trudng giao dye thdi ky Ire tho, thie'u nien, nhi ddng cd anh huiing ldn den sy hinh nhin each, dijo die, ldi sd'ng cua mdi ngudi Do dd, d diy, chung tdi mudn tim hidu die didm thang gii trj gia dinh cua cac nhdm nidn theo dja ban hp da ting cd thdi gian sinh sd'ng dai nhi't Tuong ty cic nhdm nien theo dja ban sinh sd'ng hien nay, thang gii trj cua cie nhdm nidn theo dja ban da ting sinh sd'ng trudc diy cd sil khac vd thi bic cua mdt sd gia trj Sy khic biet rd net nhit la sy khac biet cua thang gia trj giia nien da ting sinh sd'ng d midn Nam so vdi nhing ngudi da ting sinh sd'ng d mien Bic Thanh nidn midn Nam danh gia cao nhit cac gii trj: Chung thuy, tdn-lrpng Idn vd siic khde; Khdng dinh gia cao 42 TAP CHfTAM Ly HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 cac gia trj: Hinh thiic ben ngodi, hdi Idng ve cdi vd binh ddng ve vi tri xd hpi, binh ddng ve khd ndng kinh le cua hai va chong (hai gia trj ed cung thi bic) Trong dd, nhdm gia trj hang diu cia cua nien midn Bic la: Ton trpng ldn nhau, thuy chung linh yeu ddi lira; vi nhdm cac gii tri cudi cung cia hg khic vdi nien midn Nam d chd kbPng bao gdm gii trj: Hdi Idng v&i cdi (bang 5) Qua dd cho thi'y, dac didm van hda, phong tuc lap quan cua dja bin (theo midn) khdng nhing cd anh hudng nhidu den (tic diem diio die phuong dien gia dinh cua nhdm Ihanh nien dang sinh sdng hidn nay, ma nd cung anh hudng ca ddn nhing nien da cd thdi gian sinh sdng d dd trudc diy Bdng 5: Thang gid tri gia dinh cita cdc nhdm nien dd timg sinh sdng a cdc dia bdn khdc Cac gia tri ca ban T h i bac thang gia tri Theo vung Theo mien Thanh Nong Mien Mien thi thdn Bac Nam Didu kidn vat chit 6 Tinh yeu doi lia Hinh thic ben ngoai 11 11 U 11 Thuy chung 2 2 Tdn lin 1 1 Sic idioe 4 Binh dang vi Iri xa hdi hai vp chong 10 10 Binh dang kinh td hai vo chong 10 Chia se cdng viec gia dinh 5 5 Hai long cai 8 10 Hal long hai ben gia dinh 7 7 2.4 Su khdc biet cua thang gid tri gia dinh giua cdc nhdm nien theo dp tudi Thanh nidn b cac dd tudi khic cd thang gii tri gia dinh khac kha rd net Nhing gia trj hang diu cua nien dudi 23 tudi bao gdm: Thuy TAP CHfTAM Lf HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 43 chung, Idn tnmg ldn vd tinh yi'ii ddi lira; Trong dd, nhing gii trj tuong ing cua nidn l i 23 ludi Ird ldn li: Thiiy chiing;-tdn trpng Idn vd sire khi'ie Nhdm nhing gia Irj cudi cing Irong Ihang gia Iri cia nhung nien Idn ludi nhit va nhd lurii nhit gdm cac gia Iri gidng (hinh thic ben ngoai, binh ding vd vj Hi xa hdi vii binh ding vd kha nang kinh te giua hai vp chdng) Nhing gia trj luong ing ciia iiliung nidn b dd ludi d giua khdng bao gdm hinh ddng kinh le giira hai iv/ chdng thay vio dd la hdi Idng v&i cdi (biing 6) Bdng 6: Thang gid tri gia dinh ciia cdc nhdm Ihanh nien theo cdc dp tuoi I h i b i c thang gia trj Cac gia trj co ban I8tuui 19 • 22 ludi 23 tudi trii len Didu kidn vai chai 6 Tinh ydu ddi lia 3 Hinh thic bdn ngoai 11 11 11 Thuy chung 2 Tdn lan 1 Sic khoe Binh ding vi trf xa hpi hai vp chdng 10 Binh dang kinh te hai vo chong 10 Chia se cdng viec gia dinh Hai long Ciii Hai long hai bdn gia dinh 7 Nhing gia trj d vj trf giia cua thang gia trj gia dinh cua nidn cd dp tudi khac cung cd thi bac khac dang ke Ching ban, nhdm nien l i 19 - 22 tudi xep gia trj dieu kien veil chd't sau nhing gia trj hang diu, thi vi tri dd d thang gia trj cua nhdm nidn 18 tudi la sire khde, nhdm 23 tudi trd ldn - chia se' cdng viec gia dinh (bang 6) Nhu viy, su khac biel cua thang gii tri giua cac nhdm nidn cd dd tudi khac khdng theo mdt quy luit nhit djnh Vi viy, khd ed thd dua nhin xet vd sy anh hudng cua ydu td tudi tjd'n die didm thang gia trj cua nidn 44 TAP CHfTAM Lf HOC, Sd (156), - 2012 Nhan xet chung Thang gii trj gia dinh eua nidn the hien quan niem cua hg vd cac gii trj cupc sdng gia dinh Thang gia trj cua cac nhdm nien khac (theo gidi tinh, tudi, dja ban sinh sd'ng hien nay, cung nhu dja ban da ling sinh sd'ng liu nhit trudc diy, theo tinh trang cpng viec) cd sy khic vd thi bic cua nhidu gii Irj Tuy nhidn, mdt sd gia trj lupn ed vj tri dn djnh thang gii trj cua hiu het eic nhom khach thd Cu thd gia trj tdn Irpng ldn nhau, chung thuy luPn ding d cac vj tri diu Trai lai, gii tri hinh thirc ben ngodi, binh ddng ve vi Iri xd hdi vd binh ddng ve khd ndng kinh te'cua hai va chdng thudng ding d cac vj tri cudi Cdc gid Iri sire khde, tinh yeu doi Ida vd chia se cdng viec gia dinh la nhing gia trj thudng dugc xep b cac vj tri quan trpng (thi ba, thi tu, thi nam) Thang gii trj gia dinh cua nien nghien ciu gin vdi quan niem, suy nghi cua hp vd linh vuc gia dinh hon nhiing bieu hien hanh vi, ing x i cua hg linh vyc Cd thd ndi, thang gia trj gia dinh cua nien thd hien dao die, Idi sdng linh manh, chin chin, nghiem tuc cua hp Do dd, cin cd nhing bien phap giao dye cd hieu qua dd nhing quan nidm cua hp thuc sy didu chinh hanh vi, ing x i eua hp Tai lieu tham khao Dai hpi XI vdi vin dd phat trien ngudn nhan luc, hllp://www.baotintuc.vn Nguydn Thi Hoa, Mdt sdddc diem thang gid tri ciia nien Viet Nam hien Tap chf Tam \y hpc, Sd 2/2012 Le Thj Thanh Huong (chu bien), (fng xir ciia ngudi ddn viing ddng bdng sdng Hdng gia dinh, NXB Ti dien Bach khoa Ha Npi, 2009 Pham Hdng Tung, Ve dgc diem vd xu hudng ldi sdng chu yeu ciia nien Viet Nam hien nay, Sach "Doan nidn Cdng san Ho Chi Minh: 80 nam xay dyng, cdng Men va mrdng thanh", NXB Thanh nidn Ha Ndi, 2011 http://vi.Wilipedia.com Le Thao, Gia dinh Viet Nam dieu kien phdi trien kinh tethi trirdng Tap chi Cpngsan, Sd4-172, 2009 Dai Nghia, Van Thao, Gia dinh tre vd ndi budn ly hdn, Bao Didn ti, Gia dinh va Xa hdi, 2011 TAP CHf TAM LY HOC, Sd (156), 3-2012 45 ... chung, thang gii trj gia dinh eua nien cd mdt sd didm ndi bit sau: - Thang gia Irj gia dinh cua hp vin cd mdt sd gia tri truydn thd'ng ben eanh nhidu gii trj hien dai - Thang gii trj gia dinh... cd thang gia trj theo xu hudng tuong ty nhau, thang gia trj cua nidn hai midn cd sy khic biet dang ke Trong dd, thang gia trj gia dinh cia nidn theo vung Ihi/nPng IhPn ft cd su khac Nhdm gia. .. mdt sd gia trj Sy khic biet rd net nhit la sy khac biet cua thang gia trj giia nien da ting sinh sd'ng d midn Nam so vdi nhing ngudi da ting sinh sd'ng d mien Bic Thanh nidn midn Nam danh gia cao