BÍ QUYẾT GIAO TIẾP TIẾNG ANH TỰ NHIÊN NHƯ NGƯỜI BẢN XỨ

Travel Culture Career Study Killer ways to have interesting English conversations Introduction Welcome Lời chào gửi đến bạn Starting a conversation with someone or joining a group discussion can be scary, especially in your second language In this eBook, we will show you some tips to start and maintain a conversation that are useful in any language Moreover, you’ll learn questions, phrases, and expressions that you can use to confidently start conversations with native English speakers Bắt đầu đối thoại với nhóm bạn quốc tế khiến bạn cảm thấy ngượng ngùng khó cất nên lời Quyển eBook cho bạn số bí bắt đầu trì đối thoại, bạn sử dụng ngơn ngữ Bên cạnh đó, bạn học số câu hỏi, cụm từ cách diễn đạt tiếng Anh để tự tin trò chuyện với người ngữ Get started Introduction Jump to: 5 Steps to Begin a Conversation 04 Phrases to begin a conversation How to Keep a Conversation Going? 12 Phrases to maintain the conversation Changing the Topic 18 Phrases to change the topic Inviting Your Conversation Partner to Talk Longer 23 Closing the Conversation 29 Phrases to invite conversation partner to talk longer Phrases to close the conversation References 35 Start with part Part Steps to Begin a Conversation bước để khởi đầu đối thoại The fear of speaking to strangers really comes from the fear of seeming “weird” or looking foolish To feel more comfortable to begin a conversation, you can follow these steps: Nỗi sợ phải trò chuyện với người lạ bắt nguồn từ việc sợ bị xấu hổ chế nhạo Để thoải mái bắt chuyện với người khác, bạn tham khảo bước đây: WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY Part Step 1​: Be friendly Hãy thân thiện The first key to feeling relaxed and getting over your fears is to have a good time and be friendly Talking with someone who is super serious and has a grave expression is rarely enjoyable, so why put someone else through that? WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY Để thân vượt qua nỗi sợ cảm thấy thoải mái bắt đầu trò chuyện, điều cần làm bạn phải thật vui vẻ thân thiện Đừng biến thân thành người nghiêm nghị nhàm chán, không nào? Part Step 2: Smile to take the pressure off Một nụ cười để rũ bỏ áp lực WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY A lot of fear around starting conversations comes from putting pressure on yourself to have a certain result from the conversation So, stop having specific expectations about what will happen! Những nỗi sợ quanh việc bắt đầu đối thoại đến từ việc bạn đặt nhiều áp lực vào kết sau Vì vậy, thơi mường tượng điều để giảm bớt gánh nặng tâm lý Remember, don’t force a topic or be aggressive in what you’re trying to say That type of energy is a turn-off to someone you’ve just met Let the conversation flow naturally Đừng gượng ép thân vào chủ đề cách dẫn dắt Những việc khiến đối phương hứng Hãy để trò chuyện diễn thật tự nhiên Part Step 3:​Don’t only talk about yourself Đừng nói thân Don’t make the conversation only about yourself Try to ask questions about the other person’s life Only interject things about yourself when they are actually relevant to the topic WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY Đừng khiến trò chuyện xoay quanh thân bạn Hãy hỏi câu hỏi đối phương nói thân thơng tin liên quan đến buổi nói chuyện Part Step 4: Be a speaker, not a repeater Hãy nói tiếng Anh chủ động, đừng lặp lại máy móc WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY When asking questions or talking about something, don’t make something up just because you memorised a particular phrase For example, don’t say “I’m fine, thank you” when you’re sick Khi hỏi trò chuyện chủ đề, đừng nói cách máy móc theo “cấu trúc” mà bạn thuộc lòng lớp Ví dụ, đừng trả lời “I’m fine, thank you” (Tôi khỏe, cảm ơn) bạn bị ốm Make sure you say things that are true, even if it means searching for the words you need Otherwise, you could end up in a really awkward situation Bạn nên chắn tất điều bạn nói thơng tin thật, dù điều khiến bạn phải tìm xác từ ngữ để diễn tả Trả lời cách máy móc đưa thông tin sai lệch khiến bạn dễ gặp phải rắc rối sau Part Step 5: Avoid closed-loop questions Tránh câu hỏi “đóng” Questions that can only be answered with “yes” or “no” are called closed-loop questions, because they close down conversation Open loop questions work much better when your aim is to keep a conversation going Những câu hỏi trả lời “Có” “Khơng” thường xem dạng câu hỏi “đóng” chúng dễ đưa đối thoại bạn vào hồi kết Dạng câu hỏi “mở” lựa chọn thích hợp mục đích bạn giữ cho trò chuyện tiếp tục For example, instead of asking: “Do you like Italian food?”, you can ask “What is your favorite thing about italian food?” WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY Part Phrases to begin a conversation: Những mẫu câu để bắt đầu hội thoại Hey, how are you? Dạo gần bạn rồi? Hi, …! What’s new? Chào _! Có tin khơng? E.g.: E.g.: Lucy: Hey, how are you? Kim:​ Hey, how's it going? Lucy:​ Long time no see! Are you still working at ABC Company? WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY Kim:​Hi, Lucy! What’s new? Lucy:​ Oh, nothing much I’ve just arrived after a long flight from Mexico Kim:​Was it a work trip or a vacation? Lucy:​It was a short holiday I went to Mexico to visit my uncle… 10 Part Not to change the topic, but I recently heard that … Không phải chuyển chủ đề, tơi vừa nghe nói rằng… E.g.: Lucy:​ Good morning Kim! You look great today! Kim:​ Thank you! I’ve just got my haircut! Lucy:​ Nice! I think I need to cut my hair, I want it a little bit shorter Kim:​ I think your hair is fine If you want to change, I recommend you to dye your hair brown Lucy:​ That’s a good idea Kim:​ I’m glad you like it Lucy:​Not to change the topic, but I recently heard that there’s a new student in your class How is he? Kim:​ You mean Nicholas? He’s great He’s friendly and smart Everyone likes him Lucy:​ Really? He has just joined the Chess Club with me He’s excellent Kim:​ Wow! I didn’t know He rarely talks about his hobbies with us… WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 22 Part Inviting Your Conversation Partner to Talk Longer Đề nghị kéo dài thời gian trò chuyện After about 10 or 15 minutes, it’s worth checking that your conversation partner wants to continue talking Get confirmation that they want to be in the conversation so you can be sure they aren’t just being polite Sau trò chuyện khoảng 10-15 phút, bạn nên để ý xem người muốn tiếp tục trò chuyện hay khơng Hãy hỏi số câu để “thăm dò” họ thực muốn nói chuyện với bạn hay lịch WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 23 Part Phrases to invite conversation partner to talk longer Những mẫu câu đề nghị kéo dài trò chuyện WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 24 Part I’m not keeping you from something, am I? Tôi không làm phiền bạn chứ? E.g.: Lucy:​ Hello, I’m Lucy Nice to meet you! Kim:​ Hi, I’m Kim Nice to meet you too Lucy:​ Is this your first time here? Kim:​ Yes You too? Lucy:​ Yeah I have never been to an event like this before Kim:​ I’ve been to a fashion show in Shanghai, but this is the first time here Lucy:​Wow! Which one you prefer? Kim:​ Shanghai, for sure But this one is really impressive Lucy:​ I’m not keeping you from something, am I? Kim:​ No, no Not at all I’m glad to have someone to talk with WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 25 Part Sorry for taking up so much of your time Do you need to take off? Xin lỗi làm nhiều thời gian anh Anh có muốn tiếp tục không? E.g.: Kim:​Hi Lucy Haven’t seen you in weeks What have you been doing lately? Lucy:​ Well, I’m pretty busy these days I have got a job at a call center Kim:​ I see It’s great that you got a job You know what? These days getting a good job isn’t all that easy I’m really happy for you Lucy:​Thank you What about you? Have you already finished school? Kim:​No, I have one more semester left Lucy:​ Oh, I see Kim:​Oh, sorry for taking up so much of your time Do you need to take off? Lucy:​Actually, I need to go to the library now Talk to you later Kim:​Bye Lucy WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 26 Part I just realized you’re probably in the middle of something Do you have time to chat? Tôi nhận anh dở việc Anh có thời gian trò chuyện tiếp không? E.g.: Lucy:​ Hi Kim! How is your day going? Kim:​ Quite busy I'm preparing for my presentation tomorrow on our marketing strategy I'm not even half done yet Lucy:​ You must feel stressed out now Kim:​ That's an understatement Lucy:​I just realized you’re probably in the middle of something Do you have time to chat? Kim:​ I’m sorry but I have a research that must be finish this afternoon, so… Lucy:​ I understand Try your best! Kim:​ Thank you WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 27 Part 4 Let me know if you need to get going I don’t want to take up all your time Nếu anh bận nói nhé, tơi khơng muốn làm thời gian anh E.g.: Lucy:​ Hi Kim What are you doing here? Kim:​ I'm meeting a friend here for dinner How about you? Lucy:​I'm on my way home but I needed to stop by the bookstore to buy a textbook Kim:​ Haven’t you finished school yet? Lucy:​I have one more year, and then I'm done Kim:​ What are you majoring in? Lucy:​ I'm majoring in Sociology Kim:​ How you like your major? Lucy:​ I really find the subject very interesting I'm enjoying all my classes Kim:​ That's great Lucy:​Let me know if you need to get going I don’t want to take up all your time Kim:​ I’d actually better go now I don't want to miss the bus Lucy:​ Alright, I'll talk to you later Kim:​ Okay See you later WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 28 Part Closing the Conversation Kết thúc đối thoại Part of being a good conversationalist is knowing when to stop talking When the conversation ends, find a way for them to get in touch with you in the future If you feel like they might want to chat again, you can give them an opportunity with some phrases Để trở thành “chuyên gia trò chuyện”, bạn cần biết nên kết thúc đối thoại Khi đó, tìm cách nói khéo léo để giữ liên lạc tương lai Nếu bạn cảm thấy họ có ý muốn vậy, mở lời mẫu câu thật lịch WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 29 Part Phrases to close the conversation: Những mẫu câu dùng kết thúc hội thoại WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 30 Part Well, if you ever want to chat again, I’m usually here… Nếu bạn muốn trò chuyện, tơi ln vào… E.g.: Lucy:​ Hi Kim Kim:​ Oh, hi Lucy:​ How are you doing? Kim:​ I'm doing alright How about you? Lucy:​ Not too bad The weather is great isn't it? Kim:​ Yes It's absolutely beautiful today Lucy:​ I wish it was like this more frequently Where are you going now? Kim:​ I'm going to meet a friend of mine at the department store Lucy:​ Going to a little shopping? Kim:​ Yeah, I have to buy some presents for my parents Kim:​ Oh, I’d better get going I don't want to be late Lucy:​Well, if you ever want to chat again, I’m usually here on Friday Kim:​That’s great! See you later, Lucy Lucy:​ See you soon WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 31 Part Feel free to call me if you want to hang out Here, I’ll give you my number Gọi cho cần Đây số điện thoại E.g.: Kim:​ Hello Lucy, how are you, it's been a long time since we last met? Lucy:​ Oh, hi Kim I'm have got a new job now and it is going great How about you? Kim:​ Not too bad Lucy:​How often you eat at this cafe? Kim:​ This is my first time My friends kept telling me the food was great, so tonight I decided to try it What have you been up to? Lucy:​ I have been so busy with my new job that I have not had the time to much else, but otherwise, me and the family are all fine Kim:​ Well, I hope you and your family have a lovely meal Lucy:​ Yes you too Kim:​Feel free to call me if you want to hang out Here, I’ll give you my number WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 32 Part It has been really nice talking to you Tơi vui nói chuyện bạn E.g Kim:​ Hello, my name is Kim It's nice to meet you Lucy:​ Hi, I'm Lucy It's a pleasure to meet you Kim:​ I am sorry What was your name again? Lucy:​ Lucy Kim:​ So Lucy, What you for a living? Lucy:​ I work at the local school teaching English What you for a living? Kim:​ I'm also an English teacher, but am currently out of work Lucy:​ Sorry to hear that It has been really nice talking to you Kim:​ Yes It was a great pleasure meeting you WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 33 Part I had a great time talking with you Hope to see you again soon Tơi có trò chuyện thú vị Hy vọng gặp lại bạn E.g.: Lucy:​ Excuse me, is this seat free? Kim:​ Yes Lucy: Thanks Kim:​ My name’s Kim It is nice to meet you Lucy:​ Hi Kim, my name is Lucy It’s nice to meet you too Kim:​ Where are you from, Lucy? You sound like you not from England Lucy:​ I’m from Thailand I have been visiting my family in Manchester How about you? Kim:​ I’m from America Lucy:​ What you do? Kim:​ I’m an English teacher My students love learning English How about you? Lucy:​ I’m also an English teacher, but I’m on holiday right now Kim:​ Oh, my bus is coming I had a great time talking with you, Lucy.​Hope to see you again soon Lucy:​ Bye Kim I hope to see you soon WALL STREET ENGLISH STUDY 34 References fluentin3months.com espressoenglish.net www.fluentu.com inc.com englishharmony.com easypacelearning.com We hope you can find inspiration and help in expanding your English knowledge with this eBook To download other FREE eBook about learning English tips, you can follow this link here Wall Street English tailors courses to meet your needs These courses all use our unique blended learning method using resources and techniques that enable learners to learn English naturally and intuitively Moreover, Wall Street English believes that learning English is fun, we organize many events with different topics and activities You can visit here to join our FREE events Chúng hy vọng bạn tìm thấy nguồn cảm hứng để mở rộng kiến thức tiếng Anh thơng qua eBook Để tải MIỄN PHÍ eBook khác bí học tiếng Anh, bạn truy cập vào Wall Street English thiết kế khóa học nhằm đáp ứng nhu cầu bạn Các khóa học sử dụng phương pháp học độc quyền, kết hợp việc sử dụng tài liệu kỹ thuật giúp học viên tiếp thu tiếng Anh cách tự nhiên trực quan Wall Street English tin việc học tiếng Anh nên trình vui vẻ để tận hưởng, vậy, chúng tơi tổ chức nhiều kiện với đa dạng chủ đề hoạt động Bạn tham gia kiện MIỄN PHÍ Wall Street English ... lời Quyển eBook cho bạn số bí bắt đầu trì đối thoại, bạn sử dụng ngơn ngữ Bên cạnh đó, bạn học số câu hỏi, cụm từ cách diễn đạt tiếng Anh để tự tin trò chuyện với người ngữ Get started Introduction... quanh để mở rộng câu chuyện Cuộc đối thoại nên xoay quanh đối phương Ví dụ, thay hun thun cơng thức nấu ăn bạn thích, hỏi ăn mà người tâm đắc Đây “nghệ thuật” giúp bạn tạo thiện cảm, khiến người. .. khiến trò chuyện xoay quanh thân bạn Hãy hỏi câu hỏi đối phương nói thân thơng tin liên quan đến buổi nói chuyện Part Step 4: Be a speaker, not a repeater Hãy nói tiếng Anh chủ động, đừng lặp