Co khi ngvfcJi do ngay thifdng rat it noi, sau khi say nlcJu lai noi huyen thuyen. Ham y nhif sau :
Quart he moi ngilcfi rat cang thang
Ngii^i noi nhieu khi say, cho thay quan he vdi moi ngitdi ngay thitdng rat cang thang, chi khi say mdi dam hoa dong vdi dam dong, cho nen rat muon tvf bay to, mong diing Idi noi de n i t ngan khoang each vdi doi phifdng, nham tao quan he tot.
Tinh tinh bdo thu, citng nhdc
Dil lam viec hoac xii sii deu to ra can than
va cung kinh, la con ngiidi c6 tinh each bao thu.
- Lung lay
Ngiidi say nfdu c6 dong tac va ciS chi khac
han ngky thtfdng, cam do dac, vat dung khong
chac. Co dac trifng tam ly va tinh each nhil sau:
Co, tinh phdn khdng
La ngitdi c6 tinh each phan khang dien hinh, ho xifa nay luon bat man vdi nhieu viec, chiu ap life nang ne ve tam ly.
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De gay thien cdm
Loai ngitdi nay thifdng c6 the cvL xvL tot vdi
moi ngifdi, tuy each cii xi5 hdi m i l n ciidng, nhiing
nhin chung, khong khien ngifdi khac chan ghet.
- Khoc 16c
Co so ngitdi ngay thifdng xem ra kha kien ciidng, nhiing de khoc la sau khi say. Vay hanh dong nay y tam ly ra sao ?
Ke Lang man ccfi mb
Co the khang dinh rang, ngiidi n^y la ke theo chu nghia lang man, tinh tinh ccfi mS, nhat 1^ doi vdi ngiidi khac phai. Rdi le khi say c6 the giai thich la nhu cau doi vdi ngiidi khac phai.
Khong the kihn che tam trqng
La loai ngiidi khong the kiem che tinh cam ban than, du tren s^ nghiep hay chuyen tinh cam, ho deu cho nhieu hdn nhan. Sii that cling
vay, ho that long cif xi5 vdi ngiidi khac, nhiing
lai khong diidc doi phiidng tran trong, nhieu liic
c6n bi b^n re.
Hanh vi theo dung qui cu
Trong cuoc song thiidng ng^y, luon vang Idi theo moi menh lenh cua cap tren va tien boi,
hanh dong theo diing qui dinh. Cho nen, nhving dieu bat man va ham muon bi de nen trong long Cling nhieu hdn ngifdi khac.
- Ciii chao
NgilcJi thich ciii chao ngitcfi khac khi say, c6 ham y tam ly nhif sau :
Cii chl tiiy tien
Nhufng ngiicJi cang say cang thich ciii chao lia lia, thifcJng la ke c6 site ben deo dai va tinh tiiy tien khi hanh dong. Day la sil hoc 16 ciia tinh cam doi dao.
Khong cdu ne
La ngifdi khong can ne, tham chi khi chao hoi, v i n hoc 16 hanh vi th6 bao trong tiem thiic. Liic tinh, ngitdi khac tuy thich ho, nhvfng lai kh6ng hieu diWc ho.
- U ru
Khi say to ra md mang, u ru, ham y tam ly
nhii sau :
Tinh each chu dong, ccfi nicf
Co the khang dinh day la loai ngifcfi c6 hanh
vi s6i n6i, tinh each chu dong, ccli md. Svf khac
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thiic?ng khi say cho thay noi tam khong yen,
jjgn CO hanh vi trai ngiWc.
Khong chdn nan tril&c that bqi
Loai ngifcJi nay la ke thanh c6ng tren sii nghiep. Ho khong bao gicf u ru hoac bat an khi gap that bai.
- Ca hat
Ca hat, ham y tam ly nhif sau :
Khd nang cong viec tieni tang
Ho lu6n biet ap dung tinh tinh khong sd that bai va trac trcl cua minh vao cong viec, nen giau kha nang tiem tang.
La ngilcfi dang tin cay
La ngvfdi dang tin cay trong tinh ban. Nhin chung, ho thich chain soc ngilcfi khac, biet phan ro chuyeii c6ng va viec rieng.
- Nam ngu
Sau khi say nam xuong ngii ngon, c6 ham ^ tam ly la :
Tinh cdch song noi tarn
La ngildi song noi tam dien hinh tuy y chi hdi yeu, thiicJng c6 thai do ho a hoan va nhiicJng
nhin wdi moi ngifdi, moi viec xung quanh. Thieu tdc phong quyet dodn
Loai ngiicJi n^y thieu dung cam trong cong viec, thieu quyet doan, nhifng lai hay difdc long
phu nvi.
- Khoac lac
Chi mot chiit riidu da luon mieng khoac l^c. Co dac trvfng t i n h each nhii sau : '* *
Tinh cdch tam than (hysteria)
Loai ngilcJi nay thiidng c6 ca t i n h hysteria, ham muon t i l bieu hien, xem minh la tren het. Sau k h i c6 nidu vao bung, ly t i n h diidc buong tha, ban tfnh bat dau 16 nguyen hinh, du noi viec gi deu lien quan tdi ban than, c6 k h i c6n ke huyen thuyen nhiing chuyen t n i d n g hoc, cha
me, anh em, vd con... tnidc dam dong. Trong
tham t a m cua ho, ngoai bat man vi khong diidc nhin nhan, con tiem an nhiJng ham muon khong thoa man, chan chiicfng v i kha nang ban than... 96
8. H a m y t d m l y q u a t i r t h e h u t t h u o c :
H i i t thu6c la la thoi quen xau, rat c6 hai
cho site khoe. Nhilng trong mot so triicJng hdp
xa giao, hiit thuoc, mdi thuoc lai la moi tntdng
giao tiep kho bo qua. N h i i vay, qua tif the hut
thuoc, CO the phan doan dac trifng tinh each va
tii the hiit thuoc, c6 y nghia quan trong trong
viec phan xet ve t a m ly va dac t n l n g con ngifdi. - Hiit thuoc tau
T ^ u thu6c diidc lam bang g6 cilng, dau tau
diing thuoc sdi, can de ngam ma hiit. Ngiidi thich hiit thuoc tau c6 dac trifng trong t i n h each
V£l ham y t a m ly nhif sau :
Kin ddo tilng trai
H i i t thuoc t i u cho ngildi khac an tiidng k i n ddo, trfng trai va than trong. Sii that diing nhif vay. H i i t thuoc t ^ u thong qua mot v£ii dong tac
\km giam cang thang v ^ stress. Keo dai thdi
gian suy tif, de tranh thii x i i ly van de cho tot.
- X i ga
La thuoc la cuon bang la thuoc, tho dai hdn
Ithuoc la thiidng. H a m y dac trilng ciia nhiJng
»igiidi thich hiit x i gk la :
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Hao phong mqnh me
Do dieu xi ga hcfi mac tien nen ngiicJi hiit da tao diWc cam giac saug trong hdn ngifdi. Ngiicli hiit con cho thay ca tinh hdi manh me, hao phong, dam nghi dam lam.