Cung CO ham y ro ret nhil sau :
Muon cau xin cdi gi do
K h i long ban tay hildng len ham y ap dao doi phifdng, nang cao ban than, con long ban tay hvfdng xuong, la de cao doi phiidng, ap dao ban than, dac biet la k h i doi phiidng c6 yeu cau nhd ban thifdng c6 t i l the sau :
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Thai do thanh khan thUa nhqn
Con la bieu hien cua mot thai do than nhien thiXa nhan, la t i n hieu tfch cilc cua con ngilcJi.
Khiem ton
Doi luc la t i n hieu to ve khiem ton. Noi chung t i l the tay nay ham y xa giao tich c^c.
3. Hdm y tinh each qua bat tay :
Bat tay 1^ 1§ nghi gap mat va tam biet, 1^
ci5 chi thong thildng trong cuoc song hang ngay nhil : hoan nghenh, chao t a m biet, chiic miJng, tham hoi... Tuy ddn gian, binh thilcJng, nhilng bat tay ham y t a m ly het si!c phiJc tap, mang y nghia quan trong dac biet trong giao tiep.
Theo nha van nrf khuyet tat t r i ! danh cua My Helen Kaylor : "Toi tiep xiic rat nhieu ban tay, tuy khong c6 am thanh, nhilng tfnh d i l n dat rat manh. Co ngilcJi bat tay that d l xa lanh, toi nam nhilng ngon tay lanh ngat cua ho, n h i l dang bat tay vdi gio bac. Cung c6 nhilng ngildi ban tay nhil tran tre anh nang, bat tay ho, ban cam nhan dildc sil am ap chan tinh".
Cach bat tay diing la ban tay nam hdi dilng siic nam lay ban tay doi phildng, doi phildng
cung bat tay lai tiWng tif. Thdi gian keo dai tit 1 - 5 giay hoac lau hcfn tuy theo do than sd...
T i l the, site manh, thdi gian khi bat tay, c6 the dien dat tam trang va cam tinh khac nhau ciia ngifdi bat tay kha chinh xac va ro rang.
- Qui pham
Cach bat tay qui pham la si!c manh vufa phai, dong tac chinh xac, k h i bat tay doi mat cham chii nhin doi phifdng.
Kien nghi thang than
Ngifdi bat tay theo each nay thvfcfng la con
ngiicfi CO ca tinh kien nghi ngay thang, tit duy
c i n than ky lifSng. Dong thc?i c6 tinh than trach nhiem cao, dang t i n cay.
- Nam chat
N a m lay ban tay doi phiWng va ep chat, khien doi phifdng hdi dau.
Siic lilc doi dao
Ngifc^i nhit vay thifc?ng c6 nang life lanh dao va to chiic manh. Ho doi dao si!c life, rat t i l t i n . Doi k h i , each bat tay nhil vay khien ban cam thay than mat, nhilng doi k h i lai la mot b i i u hien gia doi.
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- Mem yeu
Chi dung nhe vao tay doi phiWng, cho cam
giac thd 6.
Hoa dong khodng dat
Ho thilcJng CO t i n h t i n h hoa dong khoang
dat, cil xi^ hoa nha, ch\ va thoai mai. L a m
viec C l i n g vdi hp, ban c6 the manh dan de xuat ^ k i l n , khong lo hp thien lech.