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Suy nghi ve cau noi cua Tuan Tu
cua Tuan Tu
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Anh (chi) co suy nghl g) ve cau noi sau.day cua Tuan Tu:
' "Ngmri che to ma che phcii la thhy ta, ngimi khen ta ma khen phai Id ban ta, nhCmg ke vuot ve, ninh ba ta chinh Id ke thii cua ta vay."
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Trung Hoa la mot trong nhiJng cai noi cua van hoa nhan loai. TCrthai
CO dai. nguai dan Trung Quoc c6 quyen tir hao ve nhirng bac hoc gia, ve nhOng nguai thSy 16i lac, uyen bac, tung due ket nen nhieu triet l i nhan sinh tra thanh chan l i cho mpi thai dai. Tuan Tix la mot trong so nhung bac vT dai ay. Va cau noi cua ong: "Nguui che ta ma che phai la thay ta, nguai khen ta ma khen phai la ban ta, nhung ke vuot ve, ninh bg la ke thii ciia ta vay", cung dii cho hau the phai suy nghl.
Xa hoi loai nguoi ngay cang phat trien ve kinh te, ve t u tuong, nhan thuc va cung song hanh voi sir phirc tap trong moi quan he dai song. " Mieng luai the gian" la dieu khong the tranh khoi. M o i con nguoi song chung trong dong loai can phai biet chap nhan lai che tieng khen cua moi nguai. Nhung de nhan biet sir "that" - " g i i i " trong moi lai khen tieng che, de CO ung x u thich hop, qua khong don gian. Cau noi ciia Tuan T u da giijp chung ta cai "kinh chieu yeu" de nhan biet dau la "thay", dau la "ban", dau la " t h i j " trong cuoc dai day phuc tap do.
La mot con nguoi, ke ca bac vua chua, vT nhan, trong cuoc song, that kho tranh khoi nhihig sai lam. Nhiing luc nhuthe, han chung ta nhan dugc nhijng loi nhan xet cua mpi nguoi. Tat y&u, moi nguoi khac nhau, se c6 nhirng nhan xet, thai do khac nhau ve ta. Dieu quan trong la a chinh ban than ta: bi6t nhan ra cai dung, cai sai cija minh; quan trong hon, trong v6 s6 nhiJng loi "khen", "che" do, ta nhan ra ai la "thay ta", ai la "ban ta", ai la "ke t h i i " ciia ta vay!
L a i day cua Tuan T u that chi l i : "Nguoi che ta ma che dung la thay ta, ngiroi khen ta ma khen dung la ban ta". M o i nguoi, khi pham diSu sai, tu minh khong de gi nhan ra. Nguoi nhan ra cai sai ciia ta, lai "che"- tuc khang dinh cai sai ciia ta va chi cho ta biet - hSn phai la nguoi c6 tam tri thirc, hieu biet hon ta. Nguoi do xung dang la bac "thay" ciia ta \t tri tue. Hon the, nguoi thay va dam chi cho ta nhan ra cai sai ciia minh, de minh
CO huong khac phuc, sira chira, hSn do phai la nguoi c6 cai tam that cao quy: nhiing muon cho chung ta nhanh chong tien bo. Chung ta, vS thai do, tinh cam khong the khong ton vinh nguoi do la bac "thay" ve nhan each de ta hoc tap. i (ti ;,
Nguoi "khen ta ma khen phai" - nghia la nguoi do khong nhiing khong do kj, hiem khich triroc nhiJng cai tot, cai manh ciia ta, ma con "khen", ciing chung vui, chia ngot se bui... Do han la nguoi ban tot, nguoi ban tri am, tri k i ciia ta vay. Cuoc doi moi chiing ta, neu c6 dupe nhieu nguoi "thay", nguoi "ban" nhu thd thi hanh phuc biet bao nhieu.
Tuy nhien, trong cuoc song, khong phai ai khen hay che ta deu la "thay", la "ban" cua ta. Tuan T u da mot lan niia chi cho ta biet each nhan ra " bp mat that" ciia nhijng "ke" hiem doc do. Do la "ke vu6t ve, njnh bg ta", Tuan T u to thai dp ro ret, dut khoat khi gpi nhung loai nguoi do "la ke thii ciia ta vay". Nhung de nhan ra dau la ban "khen ta ma khen diing" v o i "nhung ke vuot ve, ninh bg" that khong de. Truoc hSt, ke vuot ve, njnh bg, hp khen ta la xuat phat muc dich muu cau Igi ich rieng ciia chinh hp. B o i vay, thanh tich cua ta chi c6 mot, chung thoi phong len ba, bon hoac nhieu hon the. Tham chi, c6 khi chiing con nguy bien, "phii phep" nhiing khuyet diem, sai lam cua ta thanh "thanh tich". Nhirng ke do, luon lay viec "njnh bg" de tiSn than, khign cho nguoi dugc khen ngay cang tu danh mat minh, xa rai le phai...That dang tiSc la nhirng ke do khong thai dai nao khong c6. Su sach da ghi lai khong biet bao nhieu bac vua chiia da bj nhiing ke njnh than lam cho u me, dan den ham hai trung than, trieu chinh do nat, xa tSc suy vong... L o i day ciia Tuan Tii- lai mot lan nhac nho moi chiing ta can sang suot de nhan ra dau la "ban ta" khen ta that long, dau la "ke vu6t ve, njnh bg" ta.