As a skilled small talker you will come across as a more open and friendly person, compared to someone who doesn't say much during social situations.. Just don't overdo it because then[r]
(1)How to Make Small Talk
Small talk can be a big challenge, but a little preparation and confidence is all you need As a skilled small talker you will come across as a more open and friendly person, compared to someone who doesn't say much during social situations Just don't overdo it because then people will find you annoying and too chatty
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Practice Converse with everyone you come across: cashiers, waiters, people you're in line with, neighbors, co-workers and kids Chat with folks unlike yourself, from seniors to teens to tourists
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Read everything: cookbooks, newspapers, magazines, reviews, product inserts, maps, signs and catalogs Everything is a source of information that can be discussed
Force yourself to get into small talk situations, like doctors' waiting rooms, cocktail parties and office meetings Accept invitations, or host your own gathering
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Immerse yourself in culture, both high and low Television, music, sports, fashion, art and poetry are great sources of chat If you can't stand Shakespeare, that too is a good topic for talk
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Keep a journal Write down funny stories you hear, beautiful things you see, quotes, observations, shopping lists and calls you made That story of the long-distance operator misunderstanding you could become an opening line
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Talk to yourself in the mirror Make a random list of topics and see what you have to say on the subjects Baseball, Russia, butter, hip-hop, shoes the more varied your list, the better
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Expand your horizons Go home a new way Try sushi Play pinball Go online Paint a watercolor Bake a pie Try something new every day
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Be a better listener Did your boss just say she suffers from migraines? Did your doctor just have twins? These are opportunities for making small talk
(2)Work on confidence, overcoming shyness and any feelings of stage fright Remember, the more you know, the more you know you can talk about