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Presentation How does the presentation makes you feel? - Discomfort, anxious – avoid public speaking at all costs and if absolutely forced you would it at a brake neck speed - Freeze – Physically (shaky hands, sweating, frozen legs…) and Mentally (unnescessary words, blank mind…) • How does presentation make you feel? • Did it go well? • How did you fix your failures? Prior nerve breaking experience are mostly likely the reasons for the fear that you might having at the moment How would you control yourself? 1.I mustn’t show that I’m nervous 2.I can’t leave anything out 3.I want to get the approval and respect of everybody in the room 1 Mustn’t show that you’re nervous Controlled nerves keep you alerted => Help not only your emotion and thought controlled, but also boost adrenaline Be more enthusiastic, passionate and energetic 2 I can’t leave anything out Should not tell the audience everything you know Select the information that is essential Understandable, without boredness, excitement It’s time to some exercise Tell listener about one of your favorite coffee beans? Where is it come from? Shape and size of the bean? Tips: Calm yourself, well organized your idea, time planning, smiling, keep eyes contact, gestures, facial expression, enthusiastic… There are two main types of representer: •The Powerful presenter •The nails-down-the-blackboard The nails-down-the black board - Gripping onto the lecture - Hesitant speech - Limited or no audience eye contact - Unaware of audience responses - Word for word from note - Over and under timing The Powerful presenter Confident “Stage presence” Open gestures and body language Range of voice tone and speed Eye contact The Powerful presenter How we actually build confident? + Prepare - Know what you are going to say – and why you want to say it + Practice & rehearse - Speak to supportive audiences – they be someone from your friends to strangers - Stand up and walk around as you practice out loud Don’t memorize your speech or practice it word for word Talk it through, point by point - Imagine you’re explaining your main ideas to a friend The Powerful presenter How we actually build confident? + Breathe - 30 seconds before begin speaking, take slow, deep breaths through your nose, filling your belly + Focus on your audience - Stop focusing on yourself (question yourself) Focus on your audience (“How are you?” “Are you getting this?” “Can you hear me?”) + Simplify - Aim to communicate one basic idea Keep it short and simple The Powerful presenter How we actually build confident? + Visualize success - Relaxation techniques before your presentation Lie down or sit comfortably in a quiet place Breathe slowly Close your eyes Picture yourself speaking with confidence + Connect with your audience - Look them in the eye as you speak to them, one person at a time + Act confident - Smile Stick your chest out Look confident, even if you don’t feel it The Powerful presenter Stage presence + Acting Techniques: Intention and Beats - Each new main point => Renewed audiences’ interest => Making each new main point look and sound different for listeners. + Acting Techniques: Physical Expressiveness - Essential tools of oral communication are gestures, facial expressions The Powerful presenter Open gestures and body language + Arms - Practice hanging your arms comfortably at your side or bringing your hands together in your lap to show others that you are open to what they are communicating + Hands - Emphasizing words with your hands can lead you to appear more credible and assured + Eye contact. - Keep your head up and look the person who you are having a conversation with in the eyes both when they are talking to you and when you are talking to them The Powerful presenter Open gestures and body language + Affirmative movements - You can show empathy with simple actions of agreement like nodding your head or smiling. You can even use laughter when appropriate + Slower - Take a deep breath, hold it for a second or two, and let it out Focus on slowing down your speech and body movements a bit This will make you appear more confident and contemplative It will also help calm you down if you are nervous The Powerful presenter Range of voice tone and speed + Voice tone - When you’re speaking in front of an audience, be aware of your volume. Speak too sofly and you might come across as meek, but speak too loudly and that may come across as abrasive + Take purposeful pauses - This gives you a chance to think and the audience a chance to process your points + Slow down - Many people compensate for their nervousness by speaking as quickly as possible But this can be difficult to follow and to understand The Powerful presenter Eye contact + See people - Be sure to actually look and make eye contact with individuals in your audience Look at their facial expressions for reactions to what you’re saying + Shrink the room - Imagine that the room is really quite small and you’re having a conversation with just one person Not only will your presentation take a conversational tone, but you’ll find yourself less nervous + Move to another person at an appropriate time - Typically you’ll find that it takes about a sentence to make genuine eye contact It’s a great idea to move from person to person making eye contact with each changing sentence The end ...How does the presentation makes you feel? - Discomfort, anxious – avoid public speaking at all costs and if absolutely... (shaky hands, sweating, frozen legs…) and Mentally (unnescessary words, blank mind…) • How does presentation make you feel? • Did it go well? • How did you fix your failures? Prior nerve breaking... presenter How we actually build confident? + Visualize success - Relaxation techniques before your presentation Lie down or sit comfortably in a quiet place Breathe slowly Close your eyes Picture