The law of attraction for children

The Law Of Attraction for Children Things You Should Tell Youd Children About The Law Of Attraction 1) Gratitude Teach your kids how to be grateful of everything that they have Educate them on focusing on the positive parts of life When a children able to feel thankful about every tiny things in life ,they will be able to attract more positive event into their life Teach your children gratitude by: A) Reminding them to say thank you, when people help them or giving them a gift No matter what is the size of the gift or favor B) Be a role model as a parent Be a good role model by showing your own gratitude every day C) Making sure they know that time is precious and make every seconds count D) Making sure that , they not take anything for granted in life 2) Set A Goal Very often , parent DO NOT know what they want from their children For example , you want them to clean their room everytime after school ? or for weekend only ? Do you want your child to learn music or basketball ? When you know what you want, you can focus all of your energy on attracting those things Help your children connect with their true selves by: A) Encourage your children to create goal by using image collages of their dreams B) Give them courage , support and confidence that the goal that they set , they are capable in achieving it 3) Visualize Your Dreams And Goals The ability of seeing positive things in life is the first key to for successful implementation of the Law of Attraction When you believe , you can achieve Assist your children in practicing visualization as part of daily routine by : A) Role play Act out their dreams through play B) Let them draw out their dreams or goals 4) Realizing Everyone Is Different Everybody is a Genius But If You Judge a Fish by Its Ability to Climb a Tree, It Will Live Its Whole Life Believing that It is Stupid - Albert Einstein When you realize that every child is different , embrace the uniqueness of each individual , only then the child will be able to grow to the full potential As a parent we need to accept that each child is different from others DO NOT compare your John with Albert opposite your house This will only break their confidence and self esteem However , in the other , as a parent we need to cultivate our children that everyone is uniqe You can help your children cultivate self-acceptance by: A)Accept their point of view or comments even thou it is different from you B) Praising them for their achievement C) Let them explore their inner creativity from art 5) Let Them Go How often you feel super worried about your children when you are not around them ? Or when they are trying to climb up a tree that is at your knees level ?Let them go ! If you are too protective , they will never able to explore the world And this will make them feel embarrassed , shy and lack of confidence when they grow up ! Let them make their own decision , let them off with supervision Law Of Attraction For Kids By Winsome Coutts and "The Happy Kids" team Lets’ look at some of the priciple by Windsome Coutts and his team Choose the title you would like: How Do You Raise Happy Kids?  Tips to Raising Happy Kids  Want to Raise Happy Kids?  Happy Kids, Happy Parents  By Winsome Coutts As a grandmother and self-help writer, I’m often asked by readers, “How you raise happy kids?” This is a question near and dear to every loving parent’s heart No matter what we teach them, if we haven’t taught them how to be happy, or can’t parent in a way that makes them feel happy, it’s rather all for naught, isn’t it? So it’s a very pertinent question I’ve been blessed with having two happy children and two happy grandchildren I applied certain principles in raising my kids, and see my son and daughter-in-law apply the same in raising their adorable daughters, Klara and Stina In this article, I’ll share two tips I’ve learned along the way The first is the importance of modeling happiness You can’t give something you don’t have How can you teach kids happiness if you don’t have it yourself? Some parents think loving their family means living only for them, driving them everywhere, cleaning up after them, and putting their kids’ needs and desires way ahead of their own Parenting shouldn’t turn us into a short-order restaurant or a cleaning or taxi service It does for some parents That teaches kids a bad lesson A child who perceives his parent as a servant, someone whose life has meaning only through catering to his whims, learns to be selfish He comes to believe others exist to his bidding I have a friend who was raised like that, and she tells me when she grew up, she kept having the strange feeling, “Where are all the servants?” Being catered to was such an ingrained part of her childhood that adjusting to adulthood was difficult for her, because “the servants” were missing Kids who are raised this way tend to feel the world owes them a living So breaking out of the “doormat” mode, if you’re in one, is pretty central to giving your kid a chance at a smooth transition to happy adulthood When you take care of yourself, make time for yourself, and things that make you happy, your child learns those behaviors from you If she sees you going for your dreams and making decisions based on your inner truth, she learns that doing those things is good On the other hand, if you model dropping everything to fulfill her latest dictate, she learns that parenting means self-denial and victimization She may then become a self-effacing parent herself or go the other extreme and forego parenting entirely because it looks like such a sacrifice So to raise happy kids, be good to yourself Treat yourself with respect and dignity the same as you treat your child Don’t allow disrespect toward you any more than you’d allow someone to be rude to your kids Make time for your creative desires and dreams Plan in some scheduled personal time each week (or day), and make sure that you take it Let your kids see you’re doing this, and tell them the reason: “Mommy needs to have some fun, too,” or “Moms need time every day to relax.” This shows your child that you value yourself, and that personal time is important to everyone’s happiness The second tip I’ve learned for raising happy kids is the tremendous value of focused attention The best form this can take is uninterrupted, one-on-one personal time with your child Think back to your own childhood and some of your happiest memories Chances are they include that hike you took with Dad, or the time you and Mom went to the restaurant for a dessert When we set aside an hour or two to be with our child, away from distractions and interruptions, we tell him he is important and loved Giving focused attention is much more powerful than the diffused attention kids get while we cook dinner, drive them somewhere, or break up conversations to take calls on our cell phone Children thrive on loving, focused, personal attention the way plants thrive on sunshine Structure in some focused attention every day, even if it’s only for five or ten minutes Look at your child when he talks to you, so he knows you’re completely with him In love, it’s the subtle things that count Giving focused attention teaches self-worth: your child knows she’s valuable because you value her, enough to carve out time for you and her, uninterrupted by the world, for those moments That spells love, and when she knows you love her, by your actions not your words, that brings security and heart fulfillment, essential foundations of happiness In this busy world where parents work two jobs and where kids’ social calendars can rival those of debutants, it isn’t easy to make time to take care of yourself and uninterrupted time for you and your child But for happiness, nothing could be more important Think about your schedule, what is nonessential that you can cut out, or wasted moments that you can eliminate Use that harvested time to be good to you and your kid Your child’s happiness, and yours, depend on it I only ask that you leave the article unchanged and add this complete statement as an attribution including a link to our website You are welcome to make the link YOUR affiliate link Thank you Winsome Coutts holds a teacher’s certificate in education and has written hundreds of articles on self-development She has studied with Bob Proctor and John Demartini, popular teachers featured on “The Secret” DVD She is the passion behind the www.4lifehappykids.com and is a parent and grandparent Winsome is author of “Go for Your Goals” for kids – a set of downloadable e-books that guide your child through the joyful steps of learning visualization, goal-setting and the Law of Attraction Simple language enhanced with beautiful illustrations and worksheets make these books appealing and motivating To learn more, visit www.4lifehappykids.com Law Of Attraction For Kids By Winsome Coutts and "The Happy Kids" team Playing with Your Child – How to Start It, Why It’s So Important Childs Play – Adults Play In these busy times, when parents and children have schedules packed to the max, family closeness can fall by the wayside Most of us have to make an effort to guarantee that work, school, sports, and chores don’t swallow up the very relationships that make those things important When is the last time you played or goofed around with your child? Can you remember back that far? Many parents can’t Life has made us so serious, so focused, that we’ve lost the joy of the simple things, and play was one of the first to go But as any child instinctively knows, play is essential to life It brightens the heart and lightens the spirit For kids, who live closer than we to nature, play is as spontaneous as breathing Sadly, most grown-ups have lost that skill Our children can be our refresher course Playing with your child brings you back to the present, reminds you of what matters, and slows you down long enough to smell the roses It also connects you emotionally with your child, rebuilding the closeness that the fast-paced, boring routines of life are all too quick to strip away Playing together is even more important for your child than it is for you, because she needs to feel close to you to feel loved and happy If you’ve neglected time together for long enough, it may appear that your child isn’t interested in your attentions She may even tell you as much But that’s just bluster, hiding the fear that you will disappoint her again if she lets herself wish for time alone with you If you initiate playing together, and it at frequent intervals, even the most aloof pre-teen will start to look forward to it and, in time, throw herself into the fun What kind of playing should you do? Pay attention to the activities your child engages in: his idea of enjoyment If these things seem boring to you, try hanging out nearby, observing as he does them, with words that express your curiosity You just may find you actually develop a genuine interest If your child is a couch potato, take up your perch on the couch beside him, but after you’re allowed “in,” initiate some play that might be more pleasant than TV Think back to what you did as a child that was memorable, especially activities you did with your parents that stay with you still Think about things that are free or cost little, that involve experiencing life together Start a list of ideas as they come, and add any of the following that you resonate with: Raking stacks of autumn leaves, then jumping or rolling in them Taking a hike through the forest preserve Skating at the roller rink together Walking the dog, taking turns with the rope Reading comics or joke books together (or books of poetry or stories) Making cookies, pizza or a cake Building a fort out of snow or chairs and blankets Playing hide and seek, hide the thimble, cards or board games Lying on a blanket looking up at the stars Sitting in front of the wood stove in a dark room, telling stories 10 Making shadow figures on the wall with your hands and a flashlight 11 Having a treasure hunt 12 Roasting marshmallows over a fire 13 Watching a parade 14 Going to the aquarium, zoo or museum 15 Flying kites together 16 Building something 17 Making a scrapbook 18 Making up a silly poem or song 19 Watching a movie, with popcorn and no interruptions 20 Playing a memory game, like “I’m going to Grandma’s house, and in my suitcase I’m going to pack …” 21 Getting up early to watch the sunrise from a hill 22 Playing games of pretend 23 Going somewhere special, like the beach 24 Having a pancake picnic in the snow Playing together is different than finding entertaining activities for your child Play involves you, while entertainment excuses you from the picture If you find yourself saying, “But my schedule is too busy for any of the things on that list,” consider whether your schedule needs some pruning After all, who’s going to remember in 20 years if you stay late at work or not next Tuesday? But will your child ever forget the Tuesday you ride the rollercoaster together? Closeness with a child cannot be taken for granted Like any other relationship, it will slip away unless it’s made a priority Nothing builds trust and bonding with a child like sharing a moment of silliness and laughter Come together for light-hearted play, and you just may find your child opens up about serious subjects The relaxed atmosphere of play helps us let our guard down and reveal more of ourselves When you play together, let your child feel like the most important person in your world Give him your undivided attention: no cell phones, no interruptions, no slipping into your own private thoughts Be present – body, mind and spirit Then let yourself whatever comes naturally, with the abandon you felt when you yourself were a child Your instincts will be your guide Growing closer through play is easy It just takes dedicated moments, given on a fairly regular basis, so your child begins to count on having time with you Let your child re-teach you the wonderful secrets of play You both will feel more secure and peaceful – and a whole lot happier, as the reason you it all for, starts to come back to you Feel Free To Use This Article in Your E-Zine or on Your Website I only ask that you leave the article unchanged and add this complete statement as an attribution including a link to our website You are welcome to make the link YOUR affiliate link Thank you Winsome Coutts holds a teacher’s certificate in education and has written hundreds of articles on self-development She has studied with Bob Proctor and John Demartini, popular teachers featured on “The Secret” DVD She is the passion behind the www.4lifehappykids.com and is a parent and grandparent Winsome is author of “Go for Your Goals” for kids – a set of downloadable e-books that guide your child through the joyful steps of learning visualization, goal-setting and the Law of Attraction Simple language enhanced with beautiful illustrations and worksheets make these books appealing and motivating To learn more, visit www.4lifehappykids.com ... Winsome is author of “Go for Your Goals” for kids – a set of downloadable e-books that guide your child through the joyful steps of learning visualization, goal-setting and the Law of Attraction Simple... together Start a list of ideas as they come, and add any of the following that you resonate with: Raking stacks of autumn leaves, then jumping or rolling in them Taking a hike through the forest... Winsome is author of “Go for Your Goals” for kids – a set of downloadable e-books that guide your child through the joyful steps of learning visualization, goal-setting and the Law of Attraction Simple