What characteristic makes people successful? When comes to the important characteristic to a person to be successful in life, some people think that honesty, intelligence, or a sense of humor should be the most important factor However, in my opinion, the most important characteristic is to identify the goal and keep the spirit to achieve it First of all, success means different to different people While some women focus to pursue their success in their career, some women choose to stay at home to take care of their kids We cannot say that a career woman are more successful than a housewife The problem is what is your own goal I think that whether you are a career woman or a housewife, you are success as long as you achieve your goal Every one cannot deny that it is not a smooth way to achieve the final goal There may be countless fail and win before success How to cope with the fail and win plays a critical role in pursuing the final success We can get some insights from playing games, each of which has two possible results, win or loose A winner team cannot always win if it is not keeping to improve On the other hand, a looser team can win next time if it learns something from this loosing If we can keep our spirits to the final goal, we will have a better attitudes and capabilities to well treat with win and loose, and in turn, to achieve the final goal In addition, we may face with several difficult circumstances in the way to the final goals If we give up, all of efforts mean nothing But if we keep our spirits and never give up, we can learn a lot from the difficult situations, which will accelerate our success In short, if we can identify our goals and keep our spirits on them, we will get success in the end