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Preface
Acknowledgments
Chapter One: Introduction
Heteronormative Language and Partnerships
Our Panel of Experts
Chapter Two: Philosophy
Communication
Priorities
Motivation
Long-Term Relationship
Time Commitment
Uncertainty
Persistence
Happiness and the Power of Habits
The 97 Percent: Choosing What to Care About
Delegating
Is a Relationship Part of Your Vision of a Good Life?
What Do You Want Your Story to Be?
Chapter Three: Communication
Appointments
Four Minutes in the Morning
A Good-Morning and Good-Night Call
Life Dinner
Honesty and Respect
Language, Tone, and Fairness
Drama
Anger Management
Fighting Fair
Conflict Avoidance
Listen
Geez, Do We Have to Talk About Our Relationship Again?
Love Talk
Professional Help
Violence
Chapter Four: Startup Company Life
Startups are Hard
A Vision
A Rhythm
A Family
Incorporating Your Partner
Entrepreneurial Help
Chapter Five: Personality
Defining Initial Conditions
Introvert Versus Extrovert
Intrinsic Versus Extrinsic Motivation
Need for Achievement Versus Need for Independence
Risk Versus Safety
Male Versus Female
Engineer Versus Poet
Rigid Versus Resilient
Problem Solving Versus Empathy
Optimist Versus Pessimist
Public Versus Private
Online Versus Offline
Moderation Versus Maniac
Short Term Versus Long Term
Chapter Six: Values
Words Versus Actions
Alignment
Children or Child-Free
Humor
Trust
The Unforgivable
You Can Have it All, Just Not at The Same Time
Chapter Seven: Skills, Tactics, and Tools
Communication 101
Talk in A Way That Can Be Heard
Cosmo Quiz
How to Renegotiate
Life Dinner
QX Vacation
Mini-Break/Long Weekend/One Day
The Phone
The Computer
The TV
Silence
Walks
The Daily Hug, Kiss, “I Love You”
Apology and Forgiveness
If You are Already in Trouble
When to Seek Help
Fun
Chapter Eight: Common Issues and Conflicts
Workaholic
Time Management and Scheduling
No Means No
Travel
Gender Differences
Being on Time
Getting Ready to Go
Being Right or Being Happy
Decision Making
What Compatibility Really Means
Cheerleader Versus Critic
Together and Separate
His Shit, Her Shit, Your Shit Together
Shit Happens—Now What?
To Get Married or Not
Anxiety and Depression
Chapter Nine: Big Issues: Illness, Relationship Failure, and Divorce
Serious Illness or Accident
Failure—The Minimum Viable Relationship
Before You Get Married
Divorce
Chapter Ten: Money
Developing A Shared Frame of Reference
What’s The Money For?
Early On: Not Having Enough
Having Enough to be Comfortable
The First Big Exit
Sleep-at-Night Money
The Disorientation of Having Too Much
Reactions from Your Family
Investing
Angel Investing
Retirement
Philanthropy
Chapter Eleven: Children
Start With A Commitment to Each Other’s Dreams
Raising The Baby
Define Your Roles and Responsibilities Clearly
Managing Your Kids
Be Deliberate About Travel
The Stay-at-Home Dad
Chapter Twelve: Family
Being Married to the CEO
Working Together
Living Where You Want to Live
Go On Adventures Between Companies
Recognize That Life is A Marathon, Not A Sprint
Sibling Dynamics
The Sandwich Generation
Chapter Thirteen: Sex and Romance
Communication Around Sex
The Work of Romance
Goal Orientation
Conflict Around Sex
Keeping The Magic Alive
Chapter Fourteen: Enough
Go Slow
The 10 Percent Rule
Do You Have to be Frugal in Your Next Startup?
How Much is Enough?
What Does Retirement Mean?
Are You and Your Partner in Different Places?
Practice, Practice, Practice
Bibliography
About the Authors
Index
Excerpt from Startup Communities
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