HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART outline pps

HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART I.INTRODUCTION 1.Topic: How to heal a broken heart 2. Purpose: -general purpose: inform -specific purpose: to help everyone overcome the pain after the end of the love. 3.Thesis statement: In love, human being are able to be hurt for many reason , so that this presentation give some advices to help the audience heal a broken heart. II. MAIN BODY 1. Causes a. Betrayed - To be let down by the third person - To be trick into love b. Unrequited love - She/he doesn’t love back you - You are no bold enough to say love he/she c. Meet big obstacles - Be ban by family - The geographical or social distance is too big - Sudden risks - Deeply misunderstanding 2. Effects a. Mind - Feeling: loneliness, hurt , emptiness, jealous, anger… - Thinking: negative thoughts , lose your self’s control b. Health - Affected seriously + Often get illness. + Body is damaged c. Work - Working ineffectively. - Neglecting work 3. Solution a. Accepting present. - He/she isn’t belonging to you anymore . - You will lose balance in life for a time . b. Sharing feeling with others. - Close relatives or friends. - Psychological experts or doctors. c. Starting a new living. - Fixing what was wrong with you. + understand why this was happened. +change your mind. - Refresh yourself. + take care your body carefully. + do something that you never ever done. - Take the balance in life back again . + forget your pain, your old lover little by little. + make new friends, new relationships. + Comeback with work and living + Finding new interest in other fields in life III. CONCLUSION. 1. Summing up. - Summarizing the causes , effects and solutions of broken heart. 2. Giving recommendation. - Advising the audience to take these solutions to heal a broken heart. Group 7: 1. Had The An 2. Dương Thị Việt Anh 3. Hoàng Văn Triều Topic: How to heal a broken heart. General purpose: To inform . Thesis statement: In love, human being is able to be hurt for many reasons so that this presentation gives some advices to help the audience heal a broken heart. I . Introduction: 1. Introduce the topic. 1.1 Give some picture related to topic . 1.2 Ask some questions . 2. Welcome the audience to topic and explain the structure of presentation. II. Main body. A. Definition of a broken heart. 1. Breaking up is more than just losing a love, it is losing a best friend, a lifestyle , losing our dream and in sense , we often lose you. B. Why is your heart broken so much ? a. You are betrayed. a. You are let down for the third person: your lover says goodbye with you for the third person even though you still love them so much , so your love ends in your pain . b. You are tricked into love. a. He/she didn’t love you at the beginning of love , they say love you for some reasons such as he/she takes advantage of you for money, sex, revenge…or he/she just want to have a girl/boyfriend provisionally. b. He/she sneak with other behind your back , in the case of marriage we say that he/she adulterates.  Conclusion: in this case , you will disappoint about your lover so much after you know the truth and then your love will be ended in your pain if your lover doesn’t correct mistake with you .Actually, you feel difficult to accept the fact , you feel hurt strongly and your heart is broken . 2. Your love is just an unrequited love. 2.1 When you love someone so much but they say they never love you a. You love person who have been married or loved other. b. You love person who can’t have love with any one such as vicar,bonze,Buddhist man… 2.2 You are not bold enough to say out your love with him/her because you think she/he does not love you or because of your circumstance . 3. Your love meets the big obstacles that you cannot overcome. 3.1 You love is banned by family. a. Your family background is different so much. b. Your characteristics are not accepted by family 3.2 The geographical or social distance is too big that prevent your love . a. You and your lover live in different race. b. You and your lover have different social position. 3.3 Your lover leaves you forever for some sudden risks such as accident, killed, dangerous disease… 3.4 You and lover get deeply misunderstanding that it cannot clear up. C. The effects of broken heart. 1. When your heart break, your mind seem be affected most . 1.1 Your feeling is a mishmash of loneliness, emptiness, anger, betrayed, hurt , anxiety…they appear everywhere , every time in your mind. 1.2 You have a lot of negative thoughts , you lose all of your belief, hopeless and finally , you will lose yourself ‘s control even you may decline completely. 2. A broken heart also affect seriously on your health. 2.1 You often get illness because when you live with the great pain you will indifferent with yourself , you don’t take care for yourself as carefully as before. 2.2 Your body is damaged by your action when you have to under the pain such as drinking wine, beer, smoking or you cannot sleep every night and eat anything. 3. When your heart breaks your work also had a huge influence . 3.1.If you can go to work you will work ineffectively because you can’t concentrate on what you are doing, then you have a bigger thing to think , that’s love. 3.2.Actually , when you are in great pain you will neglect your work because you have not heart and mind to work , you seem to lose all interest in work as well as anything. Focused , you will make a new difficult in financial or studying at last. Dhow to heal a broken heart. 1.At first you have to learn to accept your present. 1.1 You need to accept that your love is ended, your lover is not belonging to you anymore. 1.2 You will lose balance in life for a time , it may be a short time or even for a long time. 1.3 In this time there are some things that you should not do : a. You shouldn’t deny everything happened to you. Bayou should not run away your pain by drinking , smoking. c.Don ‘t throw into new relationships at once just to forget or revenge your old lover d. Don’t call for them every you miss them. 2. sharing your feeling with others will help you relieve the pain. 2.1You should share you feeling with your close relative and friends because they are always willing to listen what you say and help you find out the solution. 2.2 If you really decline, you cannot get over the pain, if you can’t find out the way out for your heart , let see the psychological experts or doctors. They know how to help you overcome your circumstance quickies. 2.3 There are something that you should remember: a. Don’t keep everything in your mind and nibble the pain alone. b. don’t share all of your feeling and thinking with too many people or share them in social websites such as face book, twitter . c. If you decide to meet psychology experts or doctors , don’t try to hide them anything. 3. when you have enough time to accept your present , to have someone understand you , let start a new living instead of living in that pain forever. 3.1 At first you have to fix what was wrong with you. You need to understand why this happened to you , why are you so hurt like that . After that you have to change your mind: a. You must to eliminate the feeling of loneliness, emptiness, hurt, anger… b. You say stop with the negative thoughts and start think the better things 3.2 Refresh yourself is a good way to help you heal your wound. a. You take care of yourself carefully, That help you have a good health , a good spirit to do everything that you want. b. You do something that you have never ever do before your heart broken that will help you have new feeling in your living. For example, you take part in a dance club or you often come to the spa to care your beauty… 3.3 It is time for you to take the balance in life back again after the time you live with pain. a. Now, you have to forget you old love little by little, day by day. b. You can make new friends, new relationships to find new happiness and new interest. c. You need to come back with work ,when you get busy with work you will forget everything . d. You can think about the new love if you are willing . Don’t let your pass haunt you. III. CONCLUSION A. We are going to summarize the content of the presentation including the causes, effect and the solution of a broken heart. B. As you see, it is not easy to forget the pain but all we want to get over every hurt , terrible felling as such as negative thoughts . Therefore , we want to inform to everyone this topic as a device to you. We hope that the presentation can help you find out the best way to overcome your pain. “Once you choose hope, anything is possible” (Christopher steeve) . statement: In love, human being are able to be hurt for many reason , so that this presentation give some advices to help the audience heal a broken heart. II. MAIN BODY 1. Causes a. Betrayed. HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART I.INTRODUCTION 1.Topic: How to heal a broken heart 2. Purpose: -general purpose: inform -specific purpose: to help everyone overcome the pain after the. because you have not heart and mind to work , you seem to lose all interest in work as well as anything. Focused , you will make a new difficult in financial or studying at last. Dhow to heal