This page intentionally left blank 155 B ob had it happen to him. After 20 years in sales and sales management, his company merged and half his sales staff was eliminated. So was his position. Bob re- ceived a generous severance package and took his family on a two-week vacation just to clear his mind about what he wanted to do. Six months later he is still without a job, feeling bitter and blaming his former boss for not warning him about the merger. Elizabeth met with failure in a different way. After dozens of calls and pages of detailed proposals she landed a large sale that made her eligible for a trip to Hawaii. The day the order was supposed to be shipped, she received an urgent email message from her CFO that the customer had HOW DO YOU REACT TO FAILURE? 38 Copyright © 2006 by Gerhard Gschwandtner. Click here for terms of use. failed to send the down payment. She decided to visit the customer who wrote her a check for the full amount in ex- change for immediate shipment. Unfortunately, the check bounced, and two days later the client company went into Chapter 11. How do you react to reverses of fortune in your sales ca- reer? When most people think of a successful career, they often imagine a continuous string of victories, a steady up- ward movement, and a predictable supply of manageable challenges. In real life, successful people are those who have stumbled, picked themselves up, learned more about themselves, and moved on to tackle even greater chal- lenges. Research suggests that how we respond to a setback de- pends on what psychologists call ego strength. Do you seek comfort after failure, or do you seek solutions? How long does it take you to find the best course of remedial action? Do you punish yourself by sticking your head in the sand, or do you accept the situation, hold your head up high, and move on? Do you ignore failure, or do you learn from it? The answers to these questions are determined by our ability to appraise reality objectively, which is the hallmark of ego strength. Ego strength divides executives into three types: 1. The Sherman Tank. These sales executives have armored their egos with steel plates. Like bullets that ricochet off a Sherman Tank, failures just bounce off their egos without leaving a scratch. They forge ahead in the face of failure, either denying it or pretending that nothing happened. Sherman Tanks MASTERING THE ESSENTIALS OF SALES 156 believe that denial or cover-ups are effective coping strategies. The downside of their rigid strategy is twofold: They never learn from their failures, and they are very vulnerable when failures hit too close to home. 2. The four-wheel drive. These sales executives have the greatest ego strength. When they run into the ruts of failure, they shift gears, apply a greater torque on all four wheels, and roll on. Although they experience the sting of failure, they don’t allow their egos to get bent out of shape. Four-wheel drives have faith in their ability to accept failure, they know how to manage adversity, and they have the courage and faith to survive disasters. 3. The convertible. These executives see failure as an opportunity to open up. When adversity hits, they don’t hide; they closely survey their surroundings. In the process they discover more about what influ- ences them and how they can build on their strengths. When adversity strikes, convertible execu- tives respond with openness, leading to more realis- tic worldviews. They see failure as an opportunity to become more humble, more accepting of other peo- ple, and more focused on what really matters. MASTERING THE ESSENTIALS OF SALES 157 REMINDER Failure is always a bitter medicine. We can either swallow the medicine so it can release its power, or refuse to take it and fail again. This page intentionally left blank 159 D r. Paul Stoltz is one of the nation’s most renowned re- searchers on adversity. In his book Adversity Quotient: Turning Obstacles into Opportunities, he describes how we can determine our adversity quotient. The test reveals how well we deal with life’s tough challenges, setbacks, and dif- ficulties. When measuring a group of real estate salespeo- ple, Stoltz found that agents with a high AQ outsold agents with a low AQ by as much as 250 percent. Stoltz says people generally fall into three main cate- gories: the quitter, the camper, and the climber. The quit- ters give up trying to live a purposeful life. According to Stoltz, “They refuse the opportunity and abandon the climb.” In the second category, between 60 and 80 percent HOW TO TURN SETBACKS INTO COMEBACKS 39 Copyright © 2006 by Gerhard Gschwandtner. Click here for terms of use. of people, are the campers. The campers only go so far and then “weary from the climb terminate their ascent.” They set up camp somewhere along the road to success and may never see what else lies ahead on their journey. The climber is in the third category. Climbers are dedicated to a lifelong ascent, says Stoltz. These are resilient, tenacious, persis- tent people who don’t know the meaning of the word quit. Typically, 5 to 20 percent of the people you work with are climbers. Research by Dr. Martin Seligman shows that what counts is not what happens to us, it’s how we interpret or explain an adverse event. Dr. Seligman measured the responses to ad- versity of thousands of insurance agents. He found that the way salespeople explained their difficulties—by using either optimistic or pessimistic terms—dramatically affected their sales results. Optimistic salespeople outsold pessimists by 88 percent. Salespeople who used pessimistic explana- tory styles were three times more likely to quit regardless of talent. To a sales manager, managing adversity is as important as managing goals. A successful sales team must strive to achieve ambitious goals and learn how to overcome ob- stacles. Unless a sales team develops a methodology for knocking down barriers and turning stumbling blocks into stepping-stones, a more resili- ent team will take the lead in the marketplace. The sales manager has to apply the right mixture of re- alism and optimism to help MASTERING THE ESSENTIALS OF SALES 160 SUCCESS PRINCIPLE Adversity is a slippery slope. That’s why stick- to-itiveness is a prerequisite for reaching the top. salespeople understand that though they’ve lost a sale, they haven’t lost their capacity to sell. The blueprint for managing adversity must be embedded in the manager’s attitude. He or she has to demonstrate that we all can make the choice to respond to adversity in a positive, cre- ative, and constructive way. The most successful salespeople on any team are ex- traordinary climbers who conquer more difficulties than their competitors. Studies of people who have fought life’s toughest battles show that winners over adversity discover inner peace, uncommon wisdom, and unprecedented levels of success. Some experts suggest that we can fake it until we make it. There is some practical wisdom to that. Many feats of mankind hinge on a hope and a prayer. Sales success can hinge on the art of turning setbacks into comebacks. We alone hold the key to turning adversity into an excuse to camp out and fail or into a reason to continue the climb and win. MASTERING THE ESSENTIALS OF SALES 161 This page intentionally left blank 163 H ow do you handle disappointments? In business, the norm is to be upbeat, motivated, and achievement ori- ented. With everyone focused on success, disappointment can invite denial. According to Dr. Zaleznik, professor emer- itus at the Harvard Business School, the way we handle dis- appointment is often more important in reaching success than our focus on success itself. Why? Because managing disappointment forces people to learn more about them- selves and to better manage future disappointments. Here are some keys that can help you manage disappointment: 1. Stop running. Allow yourself time to think and sift through the residue of your troubling experience. If HOW TO MANAGE DISAPPOINTMENT 40 Copyright © 2006 by Gerhard Gschwandtner. Click here for terms of use. 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