... 4Trauma Dreams The most disturbing grief dream is the trauma dream. Less commonthan the other types of grief dreams, the trauma dream often comes in the form of a flashback, especially in early ... Forexample, your deceased cousin may appear in a dream and warn youto take better care of your health, or your father may appear in a dream to remind you not to work so hard. Message dreams are ... friend, Paula, about six months after shedied in a car accident. The dream began in a huge, dark room, but I wasnot scared. At the far end of the room, I saw soft, beautiful white lightand Paula...