... standard for success, and then, when they perceive themselves as failing to meet that standard, judge themselves harshly. They also often inflict that same behavior on others, holding them to ... relationships or the weather, etc.? As you now know, those aren’t the actual cause of your procrastination - the cause is fear - but they are the activities we turn to when we are afraid, and they serve ... worse: they are comfortable taking credit for their failures, but not their successes. So, failure is due to the person’s own limitations or ineptness, while success is due to luck or the supposedly...